17 July 2015
hello guys....i have failed ca final both groups in my third attempt....i got 348(182 in grp1 and 166 in grp 2)....i am 24 old now with no job.....Feeling like a useless shitt.....i decided to kill myself yesterday after result but stopped myself just coz of my parents....i m d only one to take care of dem :(.....crying since tommorow....plzz guide me guyss...i m totaly blank....my all have either becm ca or have cleared either grp but i m here with not even single exemption.....plzz plzz plzz guide me shd i leave ca or go ahead with it...plzzz :( :( :(
20 July 2015
It is all right Garry. No worry man and work hard again. You are just 24. Be positive and work out on your mistakes.
Why to Depress Yourself – Work Hard Again Hi Friends,
I have seen here in CCI forum that lots of students are depressed and disappointed just because of their negative results. I just wanted to ask one thing that now what is the point of depressing yourself? What I understand from the current situation is that the first few days after result are very crucial because they can break you. Here at this point support of someone is a much needed medicine. So am here to give you that support with my thoughts and suggestions.
Dear Friends...Trust me there is no need to worry and there is nothing wrong with your preparation. Only small improvisation in exam planning is required which you can do with the help of your senior’s suggestion. You have done your best and worked really hard to reach there and your preparation is fine. Just a smart finishing in your preparation is required to clear your exam. This finishing requires:
1. A Good Study plan 2. A Good Revision schedule 3. Self condifence 4. Knowledge of good presentation skills
There is no point spoiling your entire efforts by leaving CA or any other professional course. Today you have knowledge and experience so convert this into your strength and promise yourself to clear the next attempt with flying colours.
Now it's time to check what went wrong and work on your mistakes. As per my suggestion work out on your presentation skills. Make short notes of imp topics and keep revising them. Discuss topics with your friends for better grip.
I just wanted to tell you that since you all are quite experienced as far as CA Exams are concerned so why not to use this experience as your strength for the next attempt.
I personally feel that here in caclubindia all of you have gel well with each other so come forward and help each other. Now the time has come that we have to pull up our socks as far as exam preparation is concerned and deliver good result.
I would advise you all to work on your strength area and improve weaknesses. I also suggest you all to fix up a time schedule for each deliverables and beat or meet the time lines. As you all know time runs out quickly so let us make full use of our time.
Let us set a new benchmark in terms of performance in CA Exams. I know you all are having lot of potential but now it is a time for execution.
I would further suggest you to please capture all the immediate requirements and start ticking one by one. Trust we all together can make a difference.
Please take care of the following points while preparing for exams and facing the results:
1. Select good books and right notes 2. Make day to day planning for studies and tries to achieve the same 3. Never waste your time 4. Take help from your friends. Use their experience 5. Never lose hopes even after negative results 6. Stay away from depression and isolation 7. Keep a good revision plan ready 8. Maintain your self confidence.
REMEMBER: Honesty is the best policy so be honest to yourself and your studies
Trust you all are with me in this Endeavour
A famous quote you must be knowing !!!!!
Winners don't do different things but they do things differently.
20 July 2015
Don’t talk like this friend and stay away from negative thoughts. I promise you that you haven’t done any mistake and you are far ahead than your friends. You know what your best quality is --- your vision is clear and you have the rare ability to achieve it. My friend you are really blessed. You should not regret about the past.
Real truth is --- the burden of failure in your student life, in your professional life, in your family life is much more than the burden you are feeling now for not enjoying your life like your friends, which now is still possible with your family and friends.
Kindly consider God has saved you from some of the most burdensome situations of life like exam failure, low confidence etc. You know student life failure is one of the most powerful reasons of student suicides and you and your mind and your family is totally saved from this kind of problems.
You are very lucky my friend ki “jaisa tumna plan kiya waisa hi hua bcoz you made it possible which means you are a sincere and powerful guy.” Here lots of students are trying hard to get success but still facing failure. They don’t know the meaning of enjoyment. So please don’t say that you are in the most worst phase of your life and remember “kuch paana ka liya kuch khona bhi padta hai.” And believe me whatever you got is much more long lasting then the things you have lost.
Just consider that in the initial 15-20 overs of your life you have played carefully and now you are set and can play the shots of your choice. Also remember your batting power play is remaining. It is better to set yourself first if you are interested in a long inning rather than got yourself out early.
Always remember God has also given bowling power play to the opponent team (adverse life situations). Hence it is imp to set yourself on the pitch to face the bowling power play.
I am suggesting you bcoz I have gone through all this and never regretted and now you can see am quite a set batsman in every walk of life.
So just thank God and your Parents for all the wonderful blessings and success.
Bhaisaab, aap convince ho gaye hai ya main aur bolu?
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