As we have 4 days to go for the IPCC/PCC results everyone must be worrying sick about it, here are few tips as to how to overcome the fear, tension etc within you:
1) Be positive
We must take baby steps to get this attitude of being positive, don't hurry because attitude of a person doesn't change overnight, we need to constantly work on it, as we do in our studies. This a very important step because the only thing we can change (to make our lives better) is our attitude towards a work, i.e. any job of studying or articleship or whatever, we cant change what we have to do because we just have to do it!! We don't have any other option!
2) See failure in a new light
I have given my 3rd attempt in May 11 and I guess I don't have to explain what I have gone through. Life is tough face it! What we think is best for us might not actually be the best! There must be something more above our plans. So its the time when you stop being depressed (because things didn't go according to your plan) and flow with life as it is. DONT GET A FULLSTOP IN UR LIFE!
3) Pray
That is the best medicine to cure your fears. If you don't have good friends to share your sorrows then just pray. You don't have to explain to GOD anything he knows exactly what you are going through and he is your best friend. Now prayer doesn't mean blackmailing God. Tats not a good thing to do. You just call God with your whole heart.
4) Analyse
The smart guys must have already done with analyzing their mistakes in the previous exams. But one should make a point to note it down on a piece of paper as to what mistakes you have committed and also enquire your friends mistakes and read it before you give the exam. So that you don't repeat the mistakes.
5) Do not compare
If someone in your family starts with "oh our neighbour's son/daughter has scored..........." just ignore it! Comparison is the main factor that build up your fears and hence your performance is affected due to it. You never know what you are going to be in the future. Competition is a factor no one can ignore but you need to be smart enough to be in it but do not get deeply affected by it.
THESE WERE A FEW THINGS I WANTED TO SHARE WITH YOU GUYS BEFORE THE RESULTS POP OUT! I HOPE YOU COULD UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY.
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