y lyf is so frusterating at tyms?????????y it happens that what v want,v dont get and what v get ,v dont want??????????????????its seems like lyf is a rat race and u r lost in the race.................................share ur experience guys.................................
Back in the Game
(a)
(1273 Points)
Replied 23 February 2013
When Money is Lost nothing is Lost
When Health is Lost something is Lost
When Charecter is Lost Everything is Lost.
(Best of the Charecter is devoid of materialism)
If u dont have latter two in ur hands or unable to get them,then it perhaps Will be Frustating ,though not for the second one (Heslth) if u r a Godly person.
Cos nothing is permanent in this World.!
CA Ashish Pathak
(Employed at Cipla Ltd.)
(2779 Points)
Replied 23 February 2013
Ca kshetra
(CA Business)
(69 Points)
Replied 23 February 2013
RAT race is jus 4 rats.........if u feel u r not one of dem.....jus stay outta d race.........lets make it simple.......
"Life is 90% how you take it and only 10% how you make it"....so its all in ur PERCEPTION...............be easy on urself...start accepting things......dont carry a rule book all d time..........lite ley yaar..........jus don go 4 d bl**dy comparision..realise dat u r unique and d moment u start loving urself u'll find dat" LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL "........................dont brood over past and worry abt future...LIFE IS NOW.........today is a gift....datz why we call it a PRESENT................HAPPINESS IS A feeling ...its not abt wat u get but all abt how u TAKE thgs............its okay 2 b frustrating at times bcoz too much happiness bores u down.....af8r all VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE.........................all i wanna say is LIFE IS SHORT ....JUS LIVE IT UP BCOZ U GET TO LIVE ONLY ONCE.........................
CA Ashish Pathak
(Employed at Cipla Ltd.)
(2779 Points)
Replied 23 February 2013
Ganeshbabu K
(Audit and Tax Advisory)
(48559 Points)
Replied 24 February 2013
Life is beautiful evry time,
if one person frustrating about life means ,
he dont have a passion in what he is doing
i mean he choosen things in which he is not interested or he is going in a wrong way in life
PREETI BEDI
(ARTICLE IN JALANDHAR)
(278 Points)
Replied 24 February 2013
| Originally posted by : Ganeshbabu | ||
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Life is beautiful evry time, if one person frustrating about life means , he dont have a passion in what he is doing i mean he choosen things in which he is not interested or he is going in a wrong way in life |
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reallyyyyyyy true bro............
CA Srikanth Yadav
(Chartered Accountant)
(3162 Points)
Replied 24 February 2013
Frustration although quite painful, is a very positive and essential element of success. Only when we realize life is beautiful, we would make this world even more beautiful. Cherish every moment. Even if you are stressed or hurt or frustrated or what not, there's always a future. Everything in life is beautiful. Sometimes you need to change your perspective in order to see the beauty............
So always, stay cool. Stay relaxed. Be laidback. Have fun. Enjoy your time
Ganeshbabu K
(Audit and Tax Advisory)
(48559 Points)
Replied 24 February 2013
SOME TIPS TO DEAL WITH FRUSTRATION
1. Ask Yourself, “What Is Working in This Situation?”
Even if feels like nothing is working, look closely and you will probably find at least something that is going right. So, that’s good. You’ve found something that’s working. Now, how do you improve it? By asking this question, you’ve taken yourself out of the negative mindset of “it’s hopeless” and are back to focusing on the positive.
There's something that’s working and that will give you a clue of what direction to focus on. You may find that even if your previous issues come up you’ll be able to resolve them in the process of concentrating on your improvements.
2. Keep an Accomplishments Log
Write down everything you accomplish in a log. If you do it in a monthly format you will be able to see all that you have accomplished in just one month. You may be surprised by how much you have done. If you realize there’s not much on the list, it may open your eyes to the fact that you may be procrastinating more than working or that you are using too much of your energy going in too many directions and that you need to focus more. Hopefully, you will have lots of items on your list then you can see that even though it may not feel like it, you are moving forwards. The log will also help to highlight where you were the most effective and where you need to work harder.
3. Focus On What You Want to Happen
Go back to the big picture. What is the desired outcome? Sometimes, we get so wrapped up in one problem and trying to solve it that we forget what we were originally trying to accomplish. Try not to ask yourself, “Why did this happen?” Asking questions like that will keep you rooted in the past. It doesn’t offer a solution to the problem. The important thing is knowing the answer to the following two questions:
- What do you want to happen differently this time?”
- What do you need to do in order to get there?
4. Remove the “Noise” and Simplify
When you’re trying to solve a problem, you can get so wrapped up in trying to find a solution that you add unnecessary clutter, noise, and tasks to a project because you thought they “might” be a solution.
Working on this website, I get bombarded by offer after offer of “easy ways to run your website”, “get more traffic”, “make more money” etc. They’re just noise though and usually a waste of my time even reading them. These people are just trying to make money off of me. They have no interest in whether I succeed or not. When people are frustrated by how slow the hard work process is taking, they get tempted by these “here’s what you’ve been missing” and “I’ll make it easy for you” offers. Usually, it ends up that if you do get tempted by the offers you discover 6 months down the road that if you had just stuck with your first plan and just kept working at it, you’d be a lot further ahead by now. Not to mention richer from not having spent money on the Get Rich Quick schemes. Believe in yourself. Simplify and go back to the basics. Determine what is really necessary and remove everything else. Anything that takes your time and effort that isn’t adding value, should be eliminated.
5. Multiple Solutions
You always have options. You just need to brainstorm and figure them out. Tell yourself you need to come up with 8 possible options to what you’re dealing with. Just knowing that you have lots of options will help to make you feel better. You won’t feel like you are trapped in one negative situation. From your list, figure out the best direction and go for it.
6. Take Action
When you get into serious frustration with a problem, you tend not to want to work on it anymore. It’s hard, it’s frustrating, and you’re not getting anywhere. So, anything to avoid having to be in that situation may be far more attractive. Procrastination may start to set in. If you can keep taking steps forwards, you will probably make it past this temporary hump. As Thomas Edison said, “Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up” and “Surprises and reverses can serve as an incentive for great accomplishment.”
The other thing that can happen is that you start to spend a lot of time worrying. Worrying is a definite waste of energy and does not move you in a forwards direction. Only taking action will. Once you start moving forwards again, you will most likely find that you worried for no reason.
7. Visualize a Positive Outcome to the Situation
A lot of times you can get stuck on focusing on what you don’t want to happen or fearing the absolute worst thing that could happen. The top athletes of the world will imagine themselves competing flawlessly over and over again. There is no room for failure in their minds. This is what you need to focus on as well. See yourself achieving your desired outcome. What will it look like? What will it feel like? What will you say? How will you feel? Take the time to visualize it and really feel it. It will inspire you to keep moving forwards.
8. Stay Positive
Things are usually not as bad as they first appear. Sometimes, things seem much worse simply because we’re tired or mentally drained. Taking a break and remembering to keep your sense of humour can also help. This time of frustration will pass. A positive mind is far more open to solutions and answers than a negative one that thinks it’s just “hopeless” and thinks “what’s the use?” A closed mind will not be able to see the possible solutions when they do come along. Stay positive.
As with any problem, the solution is to figure out what your options are, decide on a plan, focus, and then take action. By using the above 8 steps, you should find that you’re running into fewer problems and feeling less frustration. Instead, you may find that you’re running into opportunities and you know exactly how to take advantage of them.
9.Read simular stories
Yes,you are not alone,read simular stories,by just giving a phrase or descriptting your situation,in internet,no need we can get so many stories in caclub india also, ONE CAN EASILY GET SOME RELEIF BY THIS.
Ganeshbabu K
(Audit and Tax Advisory)
(48559 Points)
Replied 25 February 2013
CA IT SELF SAYS
YOU
CAN
abhsihek srivastava
(Audit Asstt.)
(114 Points)
Replied 25 February 2013
KEEP EXPECTATION LEVEL LOW LIFE WILL BE BEAUTIFUL.
jyoti rani
(secnderabad)
(1852 Points)
Replied 25 February 2013
Ya its happen sometimes when we need we didnt get, and when we get we didnt want that........that is the race of the life just expereince it sometimes it sucks..............but sometimes its really imaginable n beautiful expereince
*RENU SINGH *
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(21627 Points)
Replied 25 February 2013
coz we start thinking and worrying too much ... jst be cool and calm ... there wil be less frusterating moments 
Juuhhii Agarwal
(El Tiburón lindo......)
(1159 Points)
Replied 25 February 2013
learn to go after what you want....life is not frustrating.....i doubt people even know the real meaning of frustration....people have this habit of creating illusions which in turn makes them delusional....its not as if we dont want what we have....we are just too naive to understand its significane.....now a days.....people dont even know what they want & what they need.....there is a fine line of distinction between the two...but there none the less.......instead of frustration......why don't people consider the word realism.......i wont say that one's approach should be optimistic or pessimistic....beacuse according to me they are just one of those extreme words in dictionary people dont know how to use......one should go for realism....which means analysing each & every want in a rational manner......infact....one should make as many mistakes as possible.....but the thrill of it all remains in making new mistake every time......life is not frustrating....its challenging......change your view and u can have the world around your fingers......
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