Why Life is so frusterating at times ? share your exp

I am very happy friends that you all guys are inspiring and motivating each other and get inspired by your words.

Expectation is the cause for all.... Keep that far away from u frustration will never near u....

Yes..frustration will comes when our dreams going away FROM US,

Yes..it is true...

Dreams are like Baloons,

One should keep drems in mind,,and tied those balloons to heart 

other wise balloons will flewn away..i mean our dreams cannot come true,

only frustration replaces in the place of our beautiful dreams

https://www.sandeepmaheshwari.com/

visit this website and listen to his lectures.

you will enjoy it

enjoy life itssss veeeeeerrrrrrrryyyy small

Expectation - Expectation is the root cause of being upset.

You expect something and if you get something else, you become upset. You want you parents to gift you iPhone 5 but they get you Micromax, you become upset. Somebody roughly overtakes you in traffic, you become upset, You have to wait for a bus in scorching sun, you become frustrated and become upset. 

Just look back and introspect, every time you were upset and frustrated, you were expecting something which you did not get. 

Then starts the blame game, We blame our parents (for not doing so and so), our friends, partners, and finally God...Why is God doing this to me? Why did he pass and i did not? How did he get a 10 lac package and I am yet to find a job..both of us had passed in same attempt with equal marks..

Do these question come to your mind? Do you compare your life with others? Are you unhappy because somebody else is happy? Ask yourself these questions and you will find an answer..

Happiness is within you and somewhere outside in this world. What is needed is a paradigm shift in perspective of looking at things. 

"The world isn’t flat – the world is small. Here’s the point I’m trying to offer to you: we live on a small planet in just one of a vast array of galaxies in a gigantic universe. And you and I are just one of billions of people here. Are the problems we face as we walk through our days really so big? A little dose of perspective makes life easier to manage." - From Robin Sharma's blog.

Very well said @ suraj sir,

Just yesterday I wrote this article at CA Clubindia. 

Hope some of these books will help you to get a better perspective to life.

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One of the messages which i keep reading -

"Taqdeer ke likhe par kabhi shiqwa na karo, aap abhi itna samajhdar nahi hue ki Rab ke iraade ko samajh Sako"

The English Translation of above is - " Dont question/regret what is written as your destiny, You are not mature/wise enough to konw the intention of God"

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LESSONS FRON ''LIFE OF PI''

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thanks all of u for replying...........................lyf is not frusterating just that v get into dilemma that whether the path followed by us is ryt or wrong or smtyms there is a battle between brain and heart............................life is all abt exploring new experiences but at tyms v ourself fail to motivate ourself...........................and ya lyf is to live,v get it only for once, so one shud live all the colours of lyf to the fullest.................................thanks..................

Life is a flow in all its glory and Splendour but we are like Rocks in a flowing Stream, watching the Life Pass ing by us. We are not able to flow with the River of life and most of the times We try to flow in the opposite Direction to the River of Life which can only result in Frustration As life is Much Stronger and Nobody can flow against it.

Then why do we flow against Life? Because We feel we are Something and doing Something and Our EGO is stregnthened. We do not ACCEPT what is and we continousl;y try to be DIFFERENT from what we are.This NON ACCEPTANCE of what we are and what we can be is the Root cause of FRUSTRATION.

So ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE AND REJOICE IN YOUR UNIQUENESS.

Life is all you think what it is, every monent will pass off,
good or bad it will pass,
You may feel disappointed if you don't get what you want,
but respect what you got, else it will create chain of disappointment.

jo mil gayaa usi ko muqaddar samajh liyaa
jo kho gayaa mai usako bhulaataa chalaa gayaa

gam aur khushi me fark na mahasus ho jahaan
mai dil ko us muqaam pe laataa chalaa gayaa

agar koi ladka post kiya aise topic me toh sayad usko ek ya doh reply milta.....

agar ek ladki ne post kar diya..toh sab ladke log line me khade raheke apni comment dete hai!

so many genuine professional queries are still  unanswered, go and answer them...instead of wooing girls with your verbal gymnastics.

You are right Ramesh Verma Sir, but is it so wrong to reply to a girl ?? more over who knows who is behind that ID, not all can resolve all queries right ? Our India has already got much of people who try to dictate their views on others, don't be one among them. Liberty of speech is fundamental rights, anyone can put his views, if you think girls can be wooed just making nice comments then, all girls could marry poets and philosophers only, Attraction is beauty it is not crime, if people feel like commenting, its their right, if you feel like it is wrong, then why don't you ignore, I replied to this thread only because even I suffered same feelings just a while ago, so it is quite natural for me to comment and in same way people who commented may have been through that, and this type of advice is needed to girls only as men have many outlet to remove negativity, but girls being shy don't let it out to known persons so they just searches it on net, withholding their names, I hope you don't make an rash comments for my this post, if at all you make, make it, it doesn't make any changes, you know better what you said and what you will say, just be happy that one living being at least made a point to reply to you, days are not far when not a single soul will ever reply to you, now ball is in your court, you can keep it or you can throw it, its your wish, but remember one thing, sometime predator becomes prey and prey becomes predators, nothing is constant, except Albert Einstein's E=MC^2