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Ganeshan (Student CA Final ) (30 Points)

31 August 2014

I am Ca final student, this nov 14 it will be my 3rd attempt of ca final exam.
every time i stated study early in morning after couple of hours my mind get diverted.....
and my entire day get spoiled. i dont know what to do....

some time i feel k my life get extended by six months bcoz this nov 14 result will be in Jan 15.. i think jan 15 will be my last month of my life.

some time i feel k go and do suicide....even i choose place of suicide... bcoz study nai horahi hai and too much expectation from me to clear ca exam.... and i am also CWA Final student.
and i am now 28 year of age.... my friends clear their ca and they younger then me and they are earning with good salary.

They are now, not talking with me bcoz i am still appearing exam... they think i am dum in study...

i don't know what to do... i am feeling alone.... nobody care me.... every day ghar me zagada hota hai merevajese...
therefore, i cant' concentrate on my study eventhough jo nai ho rahi hai...

please help me..... i am so depreessssed

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prathamesh shelar (CA) (164 Points)
Replied 31 August 2014

Dont Get Disheartend Even i went through the same for intially two weeks after this exam results

I can understand. Try to focus positive in u n u will overcome through depression. The main cause of Depression in CA students i guess is COMPARISON. Instead of thinking of failures think where u went wrong n try to overcome them in positive way.

Try to begin with subject of ur interest which will not divert ur mind.

Things will get better with time. There are many students like u on CCI who have posted similiar stuffs and the response they got from other members is amazing try to search those.

Make peace with urself "Yes i failed may be efforts were short but now i will take more efforts and correct my mistakes" Do not let feeling of gulit overcome ur mind it will block ur mind and energies. Once u do this then confilts with others (family members) will resolve. And as regards ur friends may they are busy with their work now its tax audit days. Only negative mind will tell u that ur Dumb.

Dont think of sucidie its cowardly act there many options beyond CA. CA is not end of world.

So buck up n Start Studying fresh with positive Mindset

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Peace (Others) (38 Points)
Replied 31 August 2014

Dude i am not going to tell the good things about life or how you can succeed through hard work etc because that wont change your mind. Having personally faced many failures in life, i have thought about suicide many times but never dared to do it, especially Indian middle class society is very cruel because they are really very rude - every discussion revolves around how much one earns and what kind of assets they have. I feel sorry for such people, but remember this is only here that people care of auch useless things, if you cant do CA, THEN ITS NOT END OF WORLD! There are bigger things in this world, for example in Europe people doing cleanings earn more than Indian CA and have more dignity and quality of life ( w.r.t. Working hours and lifestyle) you are only 28 and you can emigrate anytime u wish....i am not saying you should but its an option- a choice! Education is not everything, i lived abroad many years and met many people from different walks of life, most people dont live on degrees and qualifications- they live on hope. Life is for living, who knows what can happen tomorrow. Stop studies, start living - carpe diem amico mio!

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Akshay Rode (Student CA Final ) (55 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

CA IS NOT MORE THAN YOUR LIFE ... Living is our first aim ...as the case may be

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AMAZING (final student) (338 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

every morning before ur studies start meditating for 20 minutes . with in three to four months ur mind will be under ur control . and one more thing dont quit this wonderful course.

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pratap (CSA) (36 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

Death is final. Life ?, Life is full of possibilities, look beyond CA. Says the man who will be giving his 5th CS final. Mindset by carol dweck will be a good read for you, helped me manage my depression changes the meaning of failure.

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vijay (Tax Advisor) (62 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

Dear, dont think of sucide, u know I hv tried ca for more than 15 yrs bt could nt get thrugh, final last grp, at last I left, but I started I tax pratice n got sucess dere, I m proud to say dat I hv 900 returns to file n hv good pratice, dear if u wlsh u cn tlk to me on 9822220900 I hv lot to share, bt dont of sucide,

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vijay (Tax Advisor) (62 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

Dear, dont think of sucide, u know I hv tried ca for more than 15 yrs bt could nt get thrugh, final last grp, at last I left, but I started I tax pratice n got sucess dere, I m proud to say dat I hv 900 returns to file n hv good pratice, dear if u wlsh u cn tlk to me on 9822220900 I hv lot to share, bt dont of sucide,

vijay (Tax Advisor) (62 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

Dont think of suicide

mukesh (CA FINAL) (148 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

Brother.....The only problem with you is LACK OF SELF DISCIPLINE. Successful people do what they need to do wheather they feel like it or not...Just think about these lines.

When you get up in the morning, its very important to start your day on a good note.It gives you confidence..So make sure that you are fully focussed in the morning and that won't come because of your passion or anything but due to discipline.

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Shailesh W (nobodies) (327 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

i want to share a story with u dear, one of my sir told me his own story and i want shade that story, he is now above 60 and he told me his life journey with full of throns, when he was only 19 a girl to whom he loved so much is left him, he loved her so much and he wants ro marry her, but she left him, on that days he was in very depression, he already tried for sucides but when he goes for sicide he saw a small little girl withou her leg was came to him and asked for give her to some food for eat, he didnt had any thing and he didnt gave her anything and told her to go, she said God gave u two hands and two precious leg plz help her that she didnt ate anything from last two days, and he thought that now he is going to sucide and why dont he done some charity so that he goes in HEAVEN..., He goes to home and take some money which he had saved, he come to her and wanted to gave all the money but she was very self prided and didnt took all the money and just told that buy for her and for her small brother some food, he gone and bought some food and gave to her and asked her that she doesnt have leg and ahe doesnt have any home and food than why she still living in world...?, she smiled and told him that if ahe wil die than who wil take care of her little brother...and from that moment he decided that he wil live for others who doesnt have any home, who doesnt have any food to eat, who doesnt have any clothes to wear...and today he is above 60, he has his own TRUST in that he is giving free food, free clothes, free education to those who cant afford anything, and in his Trust 5 proffessors, 2 CA ,1 CS and 3 doctors give free services to educate them, and one of the doctor and proffessors educate by himself......he is now aged and want to go to the GOD and want to tell him that Thank you for giving precious life.....if he was died on that day than couldnt tell to God that thank you God.... remember onething that if u doesnt become CA thanWho knows that what u wil become one day...? if u want to know that what u will do and for whom u will live life and for whom u wants to tell thank you, than u have to live life for ur parents, who wil go to God and tel him that Thank you God to give them a son like u, a wife and children who wil tell to God tht thank you for giving tham a husband, a father like u...and for tha u habe to live in this world and wait for that day, one day ot wil be come to u that precious moment that what u want dear...

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@VaibhavJ (Believe!! Live your dreams!) (33511 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

@ shailesh hats off to your boss..

shashank jain (student) (36 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

Dude even i going through same.situation even many thing are also der which u haven't mentioned but I understood look u should focus on study and feel like ur rancho of three idiot not bother abt people and what gonna happen in life only concentrate on study dis will definitely gonna divert ur mind.

Manish Mehta (Manger) (115 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

Dear think about your father and mother what will happen to them after this your,s shameful act

Varun (none) (379 Points)
Replied 01 September 2014

Dont lose heart...make an earnest attempt again...zero in on ur weakness...u'll come out trumps!!!

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