"REAL DEFINATION OF A REAL ATTUTUDE "

Can we be descripttive?

We can describe our attitudes in various ways. They

• can be a way we think
• can be a way we behave
• can be almost something we 'exude'
• can be friendly and welcoming, or not
• can instead warn off all comers - a leave me alone state (with almost a sign around our necks)
• can be an orientation we take

• can be a mental take on life
• can be an acceptance of life

In addition, our 'point of view' can be

• a defensive stance
• a no-nonsense stance
• a sign of arrogance
• a posture or posturing - almost beware of us, or else . . .
• a tolerant acceptance
• an intolerance - and showing it
• almost a reverence for the situation, or
• treating a situation with disdain
• a position we uphold
• a pose as if acting
• a meditative position
• a mannerism
• our bearing
• our carriage
• an approach to an aspect of life
• a stance or slant we take

but we can also look at them as

• an outlook we may have
• an opinion
• a thought or manner of thinking
• a mood or a feeling
• a point of view or a perspective
• an air or disposition we take
• a way of thinking

If I improve my attitude I can help me
my life - deeds, thoughts and actions - I can foresee
they will grow and develop in stature over time
being honest, loyal, trustworthy, will not cost me a dime

On what do we base our point of view?

Our perspective can be viewed from different angles. The following are just a selection.

• based upon a particular mindset
• our knowledge of life
• our knowledge of ourselves
• our interaction with life
• a tendency we have
• a disposition
• a frame of mind
• a particular mind-set or mood
• a point of view
• a tone
• based upon our past experience
• seen in the life of someone we hold close or dear
• observed in the life or actions of someone we hold in great esteem
• demonstrated by our boss
• taken from a close family member

There are various questions we may wish to be answered

What areas might we question?

• How does our stand point affect our lives and the people around us?
• Can our view change and if so how and can we make the change?
• Is it constant or is always changing?
• From what or where does our point of view stem - or are things not that simple?
• If we are centered then is our perspective good?
• If we are stressed, or confused, or tired, or ill - what happens to our mind-set or point of view?

What would be good to look here?

What should we be looking at on this part of the website? With regards to our perspective, standpoint or point of view:

• should we always be responsible?
• will there be any attitude quotes  to motivate me?
• does our character  affect our attitudes?
• can we look at ourselves with pride?
• do we praise ourselves?
• do we offer praise to others?
• where does being critical fit in?
• where does enthusiasm fit in?
• are their different ideas about how we can affect things?
• are we of an optimistic nature?
• are persistence and perseverance in our skills set or tool kit?
• does sorrow affect our perspective?
• is a little madness acceptable if not a good thing in this day and age?
• can we act on a consistent basis ?

So what place do our attitudes have in our life?

What price our attitudes?

Are they related to our value system? Are they dependent upon our set of principles - the way we live? Or is it the chicken and the egg?

I live therefore my perspective is 'AAA', or my attitudes are 'BBB' and my live stems from them? Who is in charge here? Who rules what or whom?

irst, say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do. Epictetus

Everyday life . . .

We are influenced by many things in life. Some are within our control, while others are outside even our sphere of influence.

Where does our perspective or standpoint originate from? Maybe they reside within us or without, or nowhere in particular.

Whatever.

Alas our attitude is a definite thing, yet it does fall under our influence. What we need to is to help ensure that it starts to come under our control for then it will sing to our tune.

To which tune will you sing . . .

It will sing to the tune that we wish, rather than run around out of control with us running after it and trying to catch up, let alone attempt to change its aspect or demeanor.

We are in charge of ourselves. With that comes responsibility. And with that can come through some of the many joys of life. What we need to do is just to be ready for their appearance and make the most of them during their sojourn with us. And let ourselves move on.

Your way . . .

Hang on in there for yourself, but let life take care of the things and aspects that come under its control. May we all embrace life and make the most of it. And the only real way to do that is through having a good, firm, consistent, positive, active and productive attitude.

Don't fear it, embrace it and claim your rightful place in life's rich tapestry.

Attitude quotes - be lifted by a variety of quotations and insights. Let them help show you how to tackle decision making and achieve the success you crave.

Character is that thing we chase after and find in our own backyard if we are being true to ourselves and our life.

Enthusiasm allows you to enjoy the hard work while chasing your prize

Optimistic people are generally happier than pessimistic types

Praise of yourself - make it part of how you manage your life

Responsibility is an attitude. Lead your life from the front. Be receptive, accountable and trustworthy and see your life change for the better.

A consistent basis demands determination and an element of control which can help our productivity.

Agreement is good - particularly when both sides feel they have done well out of the arrangement.

Being critical will not endear us to others. Being more thoughtful and caring in our approach to others may well be a more productive approach.

Commitment can distinguish responsibilities from tasks, loyalty from effort, promise from mere words.