Hello dearones i am facing a critical situation from last one month i am student of ca final and i appered in may 13 for 1st group but the next day after exams a dramatically change happened in my life actually i have lost my dad in an accident my dad was very kind hearted person and always wanted to see me as a C.A. and i was also very honest in approach though i do job of a accountant in a orgnisation yet i was very promised.Me and my dad usually had a talk about my career and promotions but we cud not interect much in the last days of his life because i was busy in 1st group preperation and job as well i was thinking that after exams we will talk alot but next day to exams on 9th may my dad got in a long silence.....i was completly shocked........after that wen i cme out from this situation i had to go for 2nd goup but the problem is that i could not study properly because of incidence....i always remember my dad and a thinking comes in my mind that bullsh*t to exams becauose of them i was not with my dad in his last time....i always regret about the exmaination.......nd use to think that y should i be a ca wen the person to whom i want to dedicate the degree is not there in this world and i feel down nd down nd down cud nt find the way to work harder.......to go for next exams.....nd think about the quiting.....i belong to a middle class family nd i am elder son i heve responsiblity of my younger and mom.....i am still want to do CA but unable to control the emotions.......i will love the appreciation side of you guys.......Thank You
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Raman...Very Sorry to know......may his soul rest in peace.and I pray to God to give you and your family the strength to bear the incident......friend life is like that so don't loose your heart......take this as a challenge and show to the whole world that nothing can stop you .......
With my best wishes for your wonderful career..........treat this caclubindia as a family .........here you will find many friends with helping spirit so do take the benefit of cci.
Hi, its very sad to knw that ur father is no more,may his soul rest in peace. its evn sadder that u cudnt interact wit ur dad abt ur future...its unfortunate,please dnt think of quiting, it was ur dad's dream to see u become a succesful CA & further u say ur d eldest son so u hv responsibility of ur family now...i knw its difficult 4 u nw but, u hv to move forward,dnt lose hope, stay motivated....
Just remember that your dad's soul will be happiest when you become a CA. So please concentrate on your studies. I can understand how painful it can be. But still you've to move on. Though it's normal to be depressed, remember that your dad loved you and wouldn't want this event to cripple your life. As you work through the loss, try to get back into doing the things you enjoyed before. You just have to know that your dad will never leave that place in your heart.
Dear Raman
its really very sad to know ur father is no longer with u...may his soul rest in peace. As you have mentioned here everything about your circumstances all CA Aspirants can understand your problem properly how much pain you have but dont quit at any cost.
Agar dil se sachhi shardhanjali dena hai unki soul ko toh
Become a CA with good marks or even with gud rank.
Dont let your adversity broke you rather be stronger in adversity
My best wishes always wid you for your bright future.
By closing your eyes and imaging in mind your father you should ask these questions from your father than your soul will act as soul of your father and it will reply all your questions and than you should act accordingly.you must promise to your father during coversation that I will be faithful to my promises with you and will do hard work to achieve goal set by you for me.--God will help you Raman
RIP
I can understand your pain..obviously no1 except you can feel this pain..but you have to move on !!
Your father is not with you physically but undoubtedly he is present in your heart in your mind in your thoughts and your memories..
It was his dream that you become CA..so for him also you cant quit now..
Nd dear dont blame self xamz nd job for you not being with him in his last dayz..cz he ws not suffering from any disease that you get an idea of such a mishap..it was all of a sudden..so relax nd wid his blessings move ahead..you need to support ur mom also..u cant break down..
All The Best 4 xamz nd future
Thanx dear All to give your pricious time for my non sense question..All i can say is THANX from deep of my heart........if honestly say i am crying right now because of suppot shown by you now i can say.......BAadlon Ke darmiyan ek saajish hui.mera ghar mitti ka tha or mere hi ghar baarish hui.....unki jid hai Bijliyaan GiRaNE ki.....meri bhi Jid hai wahin Aashiyana BAnane ki........... thank u so much
Like other members I can also understand the situation you are facing. But the hard reality is that you have to back on track as soon as possible. Your study is not at all responsible for anything as you are engaged towards the dream and passion of your dad.
You have all the reasons to succeed in CA Examination as you have the blessings of your dad. Now it is high time for you to understand the criticalness of situation and act responsibly towards your family, study and the dream of your dad.
So just get up and do the needful. My best wishes are always with you and may you become a self made man in life.
Dear raman
This is really a very very sad news, and i understand your position. you loved your father very much. Life is very difficult job in in whole world, most of the cruicial stages are come and pass. my advice to u please comes true your father dream. after being a c.a you also support your family easily. i know you are a hard work guy , you are doing preparation alongwith job, i am sure in jan2014 you are the c.a raman sharma instead of raman sharma. please ignore all tensions just do harwork and be a C.A . ..... don,t be hopeless my dear freind ..
Hi Raman.............
You need to Become strong in this situation. As you are the elder child of your parents responsibility of the whole family is now on your shoulders.
Support your Mom emotionally and Financially.
Take a break from studies, Spent some time with family.
This will help you to come back Strong.
Dear Raman,
Its really Very Sad to know that your father is no more with You. May his Soul Rest in Peace.
Remember one Thing, Your father's last wish is that you should be a CA.
Its is Your duty to make his wish a reality. He will always be with you until you completed his last wish. So You have to do it. Study for the Second group. With in a Short span you will be a CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT-CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT-CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT. Go ahead Bhayya....
Wish u all The Best
Ravi Teja
I'm sure you'll do well in the coming exams. Good luck!
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