I hate Silence........

Silence actually a word but means a lot in every one’s life.  Even it is also said  “ if u cant understand silence of some1 , u cant understand his/her world”

Silence has two aspects , one is positive and another is negative. Right now m going to talk about the normal life and  impact of silence of other person’s in our life. The silence which is created by others when we tend to ask something.

U want to buy something. And ask ur father to buy that certain thing for u.he got silent w/o saying anything. U become restless when u cant read his silence .

Another ex----

an issue came in relationship but even after its being sought out, there is unknown silence.Silence is killing when it is turned into a question mark. In relationship silence puts the relations into questionmark situation i.e. whether the relations would b same as before or everything would vanish…….

 Before knowing all these consequences why this silence occurs ……

Silence means a pause …where  thinking capacity comes to standstill. When external pressures  are high  and its causing internal havoc in mind. On this situation silence would take place  until and unless the other person doesn’t clear up his/her mind with the cloud of  doubts

How to face such situation …..

ü      Calm talk -----  after measuring the deepness of silence , u can give ur viewpoint to other person in  a clear manner. And don’t try to be judgmental at that moment.U need to more adoptive to the other person’s silence.when u r giving  ur view point ..jst remember that ur words should b short and concise.  The words must have their own weight which can captivate  the attention in required manner.

o  The common mistake we tend to do when the person is silent before us…..

§ We try to convince that person more or try to please him/her more than needed . which Just  increase the ego factor in other person.

§ The more we convince the more  the other person enjoy his/her silence.

§ So the real deal is … ur talk should not b jst crystal clear but also done once …not again and again.

§ It should  be open to the outcomes of the decision.

ü      Patience-----

 This is the most important tool to face silence. Be patient after giving ur viewpoint. NO need to talk again  and again over the same issue …not with jst that certain person but also with u, yourself. Bcz the more u will repeat this in your mind the more impatient u will become . the more uneasiness led u to take any insensible decision. Which may not affect other but will broke u into parts frm inside.

ü      Differ opinion ----- if the other person after having his/her silence problem , differs in his opinion to u , then u must conceive the idea of conclusion. …y  it had happened that way . And this time ..if u still feel the need  to talk about then think after putting urself into another’s shoes. And  also let the other person be also fitted into your position. So that a true conclusion can be drawn .

At the end …wanna say jst …

Silence is a virtue to preserve but its killing when it becomes habit....

Regards....

naina.....