Guidance needed urgently

Hi Aditi,

No need to get tensed at all.

As you mentioned that you've not started yet preparing for May CA final and that you've also CS Final in June, Taking a note of these two things I would say concentrate on CS Final June attempt thoroughly. Higher are the chances that you would clear the same but you've to skip the CA Final attempt this time to move your focus on CS Final in its entirety. See when the CS Final results would be out you'll definitely get through and this will DRASTICALLY add to your confidence and courage. Mean my words friend, there is no such encouragement than success. Thus the courage you would get from it would to a LARGER extent help you in your CA Finals preparation for Nov attempt.

All the best.

 

Thankyou for your reply vaibhav. Your advice is sound but the issues are a) I have only filled in for the last two modules of cs and b) it won't go down well with my parents if at this hour I tell them that I don't want to appear for the ca exams. I don't want to face the wrath that ensues. Plus I feel that this being the may attempt and me sitting for 2nd group it would be a lot easier to clear in may due to a large portion coming from amendments. Also I am hoping to land a very reputed internship in July which would go on till September. It would be great if I can clear the 2nd group in may. Then In nov I would be managing only one group. I think the issue is that I am lacking on motivation here. I know the next step but I am  scared of failing.v

Well in that case,

Kick start your preparation as soon as possible.

I tell you mine story.

I was feeling very dull and low since it had been 5 months that I had not touched my books.

But from this 1st April I started studying and I'm gaining more confidence day by day, which earlier was lost and I was surrounded by all sorts of negative feelings.

So you also don't fear.

After all, All is for the best.

had read somewhere, "The secret to getting ahead is getting Started !!"

Are u appearing for both groups? Thank you so much for the motivation. 

No one can reach the top of the mountain just by gazing at it. Take those initial bold moves, which will ultimately propel you to reach the zenith. The fear of failure is worst than the failure itself. Try to quell the enemy of fear within you, through the most potent weapon in your armoury which is SELF-MOTIVATION. Look at things in life in small blocks rather than viewing it, as a complete package filled with complications. Act now in order reap the fruits of success when the results are announced. Think positive to achieve the path of success. Focus this time more on your presentation and time management aspect, this may bring you the desired result. Be POSITIVE God bless you. Best wishes Sathish

Originally posted by : Aditi Sood
	Are u appearing for both groups? Thank you so much for the motivation.

Yh but not now, mine is due in May 14....so preparing for the same.

You're welcome.

btw Where are you from?

Oh Okay! U have considerable amount of time. Thankyou sathish. Well said :)

Originally posted by : Member (Account Deleted)
	Hi, i am Aditi. I am 25 years old. I will be appearing for my 4th attempt at ca final in May 2013. I am only appearing for group 2. I havent had the easiest time doing this course which i am sure is the case with many students. I have had a good academic record throughout school and college but tables kind of turned in ca. I have also been facing some healh problems due to which my concentration span has drastically reduced. I have terrible mood swings at times which would mean very minute to some of you. But they have hampered my relationships with my friends and family. I am unable to confide in them as to what i am facing because i am not one of those who make excuses not to study. They also havent been very supportve specially my family. I lead a disciplined life otherwise. I get up on time. Sleep on time. Eat a good diet. I step out with friends very rarely and mainly on occassions. I am not into any bad habits. I dont have a boyfriend. I have been at home since sept 2010 when my articleship ended. But Specially since the last year my confidence has hit a rock bottom. I am afraid that i will not be able to come out of it. My health problems require me to exercise daily but due to the fear of exams i am unable to give time to it. When you are good at something in life and that something takes a hit, its very difficult to thrive. I have only studied in my entire life till date. i was good at it. Now, the story is completely opposite. Its april and i am yet to start my preparations in ful swing. I sometimes think of quitting, finding a job. But something holds me back. I have also cleared CS inter. I am appearing for cs final in june. I have no motivation to go on. I know i can do it. But i lack the courage. The fear and stress make it worse. Please help me in any way possible. Thankyou :)

Hi Aditi,

Since you have deleted the account and all that I am not sure if you will be reading this or not. Hoping that you do, I proceed.

Will you believe me if I say that you still have time to clear group 2 this time?

We need to to have subject-wise approach. Priorotize the chapters and do them one by one. Do 2 subjects  a day. With 30 days to go, you are sure to crack the group.

Reading your post I can very well understand that you are a very logical person than most people. Put that to use in CA. Gather summaries of the subjects here in this forum. If you go through them I am sure you can build on them and secure good marks. For AMA I have some videos, covering complete QT in detail, posted here somewhere. Let me know if you want them. I will post them again. Just spend 10 hours on them and you can score 30/30 in QT.

You have a very BIG chance of clearing this time. Don't know why you are fretting.

With regards to your relationship with others, all CA students who clear late go through this. It is because their classmates from School and College have already started making money and settled in a Career and we haven't started it out yet. Don't worry. Tables will turn when you clear CA final and things will be different then on.

All the best.