Please console me.......

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Hello everyone. Please take your time to read the following.

 

I have written and cleared my CPT in June, 2009 i.e., immediately after my 10+2 in March, 2009. Then I have written my IPCC Group 1 in May, 2010.  Then I started my Articleship in August, 2010 (after the IPCC results are declared). Again in November, 2010, I have written my IPCC Group 2 and cleared. Then recently(November, 2011) I have registered for B.com (A & F) with IGNOU (though MOU with ICAI). I am eligible to write my B.com exams in December, 2012. 

 

During all these days i.e., after completing my 10+2 till now, I have delgated my time only for studies and Articleship. I mean I never had an enjoyable time during these days. Now, when I speak with my friends who are doing only B.com and when they say that they are enjoying like anything by bunking colleges, going to movies, hanging out with friends, Saturday night pubs, etc,  I really get very sad.

 

I regret myself for starting my Chartered Accountancy immediately after 10+2 instead of after B.com. This is the biggest mistake in my life since I can never enjoy like them i.e., by bunking colleges, going to movies, hanging out with friends, Saturday night pubs, etc and college days will never come back again in my life.

 

Now I am in a feeling that I am the most unfortunate and unluckiest person in the world since I lost the most exciting periods of one' life i.e., college days. And day by day I am getting more depressed because of this feeling. 

 

Can anyone please help me? I am in the most worst phases of my life.

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my case is quite opposite. i am regretting enjoying life in college.i feel i should have joined cs after 10+2...you have made a good choice by enrolling early..dont think about what your friends are doing..that enjoyment counts for nothing..you just concentrate on your studies and you will have enough time to enjoy after studies...

Just read it:

 

" Things are yet to happen

and life is yet to go"

Dear Student,

This is a feeling i guess every CA/CS/ICWA professional would be having in some corner of their heart lyk me and u..but believe me the feeling u get on becoming a professional n ruling the bcom guys under u in ur company overrides this silly feeling n gives u a feeling of satisfaction..its my personal experience..i too missed those college fundays but these days r much better than those...:))

So better work hard now for few years else u ll have to work hard ur entire lyf...Good luck n cheer up!!

best rgds,

Archana Lahori

I think this is how a human being thinks...........he want those things he doesn't have.......

Hii I am very much surprised that after reading your posting. You are such a brilliant student. You should have proud for your self. You have devoted your time for your studies at most appropriate time, which your friend's failed to do. Pay attention to your studies. Be focus on what you want. Don't let others to ruined your life. You are the luckiest one as you have the power of knowledge. You will realize this only after you will become CA. Don't think so negative. You are at CA Final Stage. Only after becoming CA you will realized what you have gained. So, Concentrate on your studies. It should be your priority. Be yourself. Don't compare it with others. REMEMBER YOU CAN ENJOY YOUR LIFE AT ANY POINT OF LIFE.

Hello,

Same happed with me and I also thought that I have missed the same but life does not end here. I got good job and I am enjoying my life with fun and honour.

  First you focus your studies otherwise you will feel later on, would I were study because once time goes never comes back

Regd

Lovenish Bansal

I feel ur perception towards life is not rite.Am sorry if u r feeling bad abt it,other day i read(perhaps don remember) in ICAI journal a blind student from mumbai cracked CA exam.

just imagine being blind wat pain it takes.Try to be contended with wat u have.

Not all are blessed like u.You r whining too much yaar,u should realize. they r many people who dream of doing CA but are not able to do due to lot of constraints.

 

 

 

 

 

Do not regret  any decision you have taken in your life. Its your life u have to live it, as you want.

U want to be a CA, so it is ur priority, its ur passion and so dont bother about wat others do.

Be happy be brave and stand by your instinct. This can take you a long way ahead

Just I would say  these 3 years of harwork you do leads to 30 years of Bliss do you want 30 years of Bliss or 3years of college enjoyment decide ?

hey yaar its ok,none of us has really enjoyed college life,so chill one day when will b at top then the crowd will look around to welcome us and college life is awesome i agree but to gain smthg we always hv to sacrifice another.so jst chill u can do the same while u take coaching :)

yeh toh kudrat ki den h yaar....

njoy the time after being CA with name and fame

Dear friend,

Do not compare your life with your friends at this stage but do so only after 5 years. However  YOU SHOULD GO FOR SOME ENJOYABLE THINGS.TAKE IT EASY......


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