I don't know how it happens to be with both brother and sisters, but we where three brothers, and full colony was fed up, really times just flys, I can't say I love my brother, in case he see this post somewhere, good thing with brother is we don't even need to convey that we love, it is well understood, and irony is simple slap or pat means, "Hey guy, having hard time, let me help you", and in the lips it could be like, "Fine I knew you fit for nothing",