Lack of confident

No one in this world is 100% confident in this world and if someone is saying that he is very confident in every situation then he is lying somewhat. 

Actually we all feels lack of confidence sometimes and may be many a times. And this is because of 1 reason. 

the reason is we think at negative side of our action and then start thinking what others will say if i fail.

" sabse bada rog kya kahenge log" 

what ever you are doing just do that for you and just focus on action and not on result this will help you.

KARAM KARTE JAA, FAL KI CHINTA MAT KAR -- lord krishna

Success comes from experience and experience comes from bad experiences only.

so if you fail sometime then that is your bad experience and this bad experience will give you success.

In short jo b karna hai masti m karo kisi ki parvah mat karo, khushi se karo darr se nahi.

thanks

Firstly I really appreciate that you actually admitted your weakness in an open forum. Very few people can do this. You actually deserve appreciation for this. 

Lack of confidence is a common problem. Some are less confident and some are bit more. The first thing is tell yourself its ok to be unconfident, its ok to be imperfect, its ok to make mistakes and its ok to fail. As no one can be perfect. Everyone has their weaknesses. So don’t be too harsh on yourself. There is a lot of people around you to do so and to pull you down. Accept yourself as a good human being with all your strengths and weakness and then go ahead with improvement. Some points which can help you are :_

1.    Every morning stand in front of mirror, smile and tell yourself. I am a good human being so I am better than many others who are bit inhuman, selfish and arrogant. This will let you believe in yourself. Smiling will make you accept what you said to yourself. It will make you feel good.

2.    Pray to God to guide you through the day so you are in his protection cover and it will be easy for you to move ahead with your mission positively.

3.    Make a list of things you are good at. And things which you cant handle properly. Positive list will make you believe in yourself that you can deal with the negative ones.

4. Do things which you are good at. The appreciation you will get from people will rise your confidence.

5. Read motivational books. Watch movies like Choti Si Baat and Anand

When you write your exams stop studying before 10 mins of exams. Tell yourself that you are done with your lessons. The questions may not be from what you studied but you will definitely know the related topics and you will manage with flying colors.

When your subordinate is near you take a few seconds drink water and tell yourself that you are sure about what you are typing or doing. And ypu will do it well. This may take time but it will work. All The Best.

just b confident and proud of urself...............dont think urself to b inferior to anyone................just think that if anyone is watching u t,hen also it does not matter bcoz u r doing ur job in perfect order.....................face the situation whatever it is dont b afraid of others ,they r also normal beings like u,they dont hv four hands or 7th sense...................................they r peole like u and one thing more whatever they will think abt u ,what difference will it make to ur life..................................just value urself in ur life,b confident wid what u r..................and just walk as if u r not bothered who the hell is walking wid u........................wear ur attitude bro.................................all d very best.................................hv faith in god and trust in urself..................