The role of house wife

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 In The Census of 2001 it appears that those who are doing household duties like cooking, cleaning of utensils, looking after children, fetching water, collecting firewood have been categorized as non-workers and equated with beggars etc.,

 Women are generally engaged in home making bringing up children and also in production of goods and services which are not sold in the market but are consumed at the household level. Thus, the work of women mostly goes unrecognized and they are never valued. It is well known fact that women make significant contribution at various levels including agricultural production by sowing, harvesting, transplanting and also tending cattles and by cooking and delivering the food to those persons who are on the field du ring the agriculature season.

 India is a signatory to the said Convention and ratified the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of discrimination Against Women (CEDAW)  Convention on 9th July, 1993. But even then no law has been made for proper evaluation of the household work by women as homemakers.

 The UNICEF in 2000, noted that “unpaid care work is the foundation of human experience”. The care work is that which is done by a woman as a mother and definitely in India, the woman herself will be the last person to give this role an economic value given the social concept of the role of the mother.

 The case cited by the Madras High Court is extracted below:

 “….. that there have been efforts to understand the value of a homemaker’s unpaid labour by different methods. One is, the opportunity cost which evaluates her wages by assessing what she would have earned had she not remained at home, viz.,  the opportunity lost. The second is, the partnership method which assumes that a marriage is an equal economic partnership and in this method, the homemaker’s salary is valued at half her husband’s salary. Yet another method is to evaluate homemaking by determining how much it would cost to replace the homemaker with paid workers. This is called the Replacement Method.

 The role of housewife includes managing budgets, coordinating activities, balancing accounts, helping children with education, managing help at home, nursing care etc. One formula that has been arrived at determines the value of the housewife as,

Value of housewife = Husband’s income – wife’s income + value of husband’s household services,

 Which means the wife’s value wil increase inversely proportionate to the extent of participation by the husband in the household duties.

 The Constitution of Cambodia, Article 36 provides as under;

The work by housewives in the home shall have the same value as what they can receive when working outside the home.

It has to be recognized that the services produced in the home by the women for other members of the household are an important and valuable form of production. It is possible to put monetary value to the services as for instance, the monetary value of cooking for family members could be assessed in terms of what it would cost to hire a cook or to purchase ready cooked food or by assessing how much money could be earned if the food cooked for the family were to be sold in the locality.

Household work performed by women throughout India is more than US $ 612.8 billion per year (Evangelical Social Action Forum and Health Bridge, page 17).

So, when compared to Housewives work performance, planning, futuristic the work performed by the husband from 9.00 a.m to 5.30 p.m is very very less. 

We should complete the work within the schedule and leave the office to help her in all and with a lot of love they will do a lot of support to you.

VANDEE MATHARAM, BHARAT MATH KI JAI

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The title itself made me so happy, but really felt bad when a housewife's work measured in terms of money :-(, its like insulting her dedication towards her family.. its Priceless and Precious...

its true, many of today's women, feel they get recognition, respect..only if they make their career..

But noone can respect you, unless you give respect to yourself first..,

Nurturing kids, designing their future, serving the family in every small need, taking care of elders, decorating the home..., its such a beautiful thing blessed to women, she can handle multiple things at a time,

If housewife's work is treated as a job..then its highly designated, and most respectful job,

If she thinks taking care of family members is a duty, then its most responsible duty..

and returns are endless..., smiles of family, their success, their medals, their promotions... she is behind them all...

So be proud to be a woman.. be blessed to be a housewife...

and there is no such thing husband's role is  easy.. he too will have his own issues at office, deadlines.., and much more...,

Giving respect and taking respect must be from both sides...

The officer at the Driving License counter asked the lady "What is your occupation?"
The woman seeking renewal of her license seemed to be puzzled. So the officer said "Ma'am, are you employed, have your own business or........
The woman replied "Oh, yes!! I have a full time occupation. I am a mother"
Officer: "We don't have 'mother' as an option for occupation. I will write it down as 'Housewife'. That takes care of all questions."
This had happened long ago, and was forgotten. Years later when her daughter went to get her license, the Public Relations Officer was a somewhat pompous. woman.
"Your occupation?" she asked in a rather authoritative tone.
She just had an inspiration and replied "I am a researcher in the field of Child Development, Nutrition and Inter-personal Relationships"
The lady officer stared at her in amazement. She calmly repeated her statement and the officer wrote it down verbatim. Then, unable to conceal her curiosity, the officer politely asked "What exactly do you do in your profession, Ma'am?"
She was feeling good about having described her occupation so calmly and confidently. So she replied "My research projects have been going on for a number of years (Mothers never retire!!). My research is conducted in the laboratory as well as in the field. I have two bosses. (One is God and the other is my entire family). I have received two honours in this field. (A son and a daughter) My topic is considered to be the most difficult part of sociology.(All moms will agree!!). I have to work more than 14 hours every day. Sometimes even 24 hours are not enough and the challenges are tougher than many other professions. My compensation is in terms of mental satisfaction rather than money"
She could see that the officer was thoroughly impressed.

After completing the licensing formalities, she officerc came to the door to see her off.



This new viewpoint about her occupation made her feel much better on her way back home.

She was welcomed by her 5 year old research assistant at the door.

Her new project (6 month old baby) was energetically practicing her 'music'.



She had earned a small victory over the Governmental red tape today.

She was no longer 'merely a mother', instead she was now a highly placed functionary in a service vital for mankind -Motherhood!!

'Mother' - Isn't it a great title. Fit to be added to the nameplate on the door!!

By this standard, grandmothers deserve to be called Senior Research Officers, and Great Grandmothers qualify as 'Research Directors'.

Aunts and other ladies of that age group can be called 'Research Facilitators'



Please share this with all mothers, grandmothers, great grandmothers, all ladies currently holding posts like didi-tai-chachi-mami-mausi-bua ......

They will all shower you with blessings and life will be happier.


All husbands, fathers, please note. This is a must read for all !

Hi Harini

In my opinion to be a successful man behind there is a mother & wife plays an important role and guidance and I am respecting the entire woman.  I love my parents and my wife and I respect to all others.  I want to show that the role palyed by the wiife & mother, as rightly mentioned by my friend Avatar Singh. You can't see in one angle as a house wife, without woman, a man cannot do anything.

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