Story time - whom to blame ???

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A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS:

1. What were the five words?

2. What is the implication of this story?


ANSWER:

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. 

The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.


No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationships.

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Very true................

Whenever you're in conflict with someone,
there is one factor that can make the difference
between damaging your relationship and deepening it.
That factor is attitude.
                                              - William James

 

A story which shows the value of relationships..........

I liked it very much..............

Thanks for sharing............smiley

only few accept their faults.. as did by the husband here, he already lost his son, blaming his wife makes the thing worse, and he too feeling guilty for his negligence, Leson for us, even for a small negligence.. we may have to pay the heavy price... Dont neglect few imp basic things or rules... like keeping medicine, sharp things out of reach for children, allow children to play, but never forget to keep an eye on them, though they are smart.. they are still small, be careful while choosing their toys.If you are late to your work, better to bear the anger of boss, than inviting dangerous consequences by driving fast, or by messing up things in hurry and worry....

Thankyou Rahul, for sharing..

Hi Rahul
As usual, an unusual story to cherish the moment

Though thanks is not enough for ur continous effort,

Thanks for sharing!!!:)

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationships.

The message conveyed should be followed by everyone for better and smooth living.

 

Originally posted by : Harini
only few accept their faults.. as did by the husband here, he already lost his son, blaming his wife makes the thing worse, and he too feeling guilty for his negligence, Leson for us, even for a small negligence.. we may have to pay the heavy price... Dont neglect few imp basic things or rules... like keeping medicine, sharp things out of reach for children, allow children to play, but never forget to keep an eye on them, though they are smart.. they are still small, be careful while choosing their toys.If you are late to your work, better to bear the anger of boss, than inviting dangerous consequences by driving fast, or by messing up things in hurry and worry....
Thankyou Rahul, for sharing..


Rightly said by Harini...

Thanks Rahul, the story teller...for sharing this wonderful story...


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