Do you build barriers or build bridges

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Once upon a time, two brothers who lived on adjoining farms fell into conflict. It was the first serious rift (split) in 40 years of farming side-by-side, sharing machinery and trading labor and goods as needed without a hitch.

 

 

 

Then the long collaboration fell apart. It began with a small misunderstanding and it grew into a major difference and finally, it exploded into an exchange of bitter words followed by weeks of silence.


One morning there was a knock on Jaideep's door. He opened it to find a man with a carpenter's toolbox. "I'm looking for a few days' work," he said. "Perhaps you would have a few small jobs here and there I could help with? Could I help you?"


"Yes," said the older brother. "I do have a job for you. Look across the river at that farm. That's my neighbor. In fact, it's my younger brother! Last week there was a field between us. He recently took his bulldozer to the river and now there is a river between us. Well, he may have done this due to ill feeling towards me, but I'll do him one better. See that wall of lumber by the shed? I want you to build me a fence (barriers) an 8-foot fence -- so I won't need to see his place or his face anymore."


The carpenter said, "I think I understand the situation. Show me the nails and the post-hole digger and I'll be able to do a job that pleases you."


The older brother had to go to town, so he helped the carpenter get the materials ready and then he was off for the day. The carpenter worked hard all that day -- measuring, sawing and nailing. About sunset when the farmer returned, the carpenter had just finished his job.

The farmer's eyes opened wide, his jaw dropped. There was no fence there at all.

It was a bridge. A bridge that stretched from one side of the river to the other! A fine piece of work, handrails and all! And the neighbor, his younger brother, was coming toward them, his hand outstretched.


"You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I've said and done."


The two brothers stood at each end of the bridge, and then they met in middle, taking each other's hand. They turned to see the carpenter hoist his toolbox onto his shoulder.


"No, wait! Stay a few days. I've a lot of other projects for you," said the older brother.

"I'd love to stay on," the carpenter said, "but I have many more bridges to build."

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So friends let us start Building Bridges instead of barriers or walls.

 

-A Bridge of friendship.

-A Bridge of Love and Affection.

-A Bridge of Humanity.

-A Bridge of Love and Affection.

 

 RG

 

lovely story sir.................

Thanks Anamikaa for reading and replying to the post:)

Its my pleasure sir to read your post.........................

I always eager to read your post...............


Originally posted by : Anamikaa Shuklaa

lovely story sir.................

 

 

THANKS SIR...

Beautiful !!!!! :)

Really its lovely......we do need such bridges to bridge the distances in our hearts..!!

Very nice message..........:)

very beautiful story richank sir...thank u for sharing and keep going on ....

Thanks all for taking note of this story and reading it.

 

RG

Beautiful Story!!!!

We hardly find such persons these days

ones we find r the ones who do xactly opposite to what carpenter did.

Lot to learn from the Carpenter!!!!

Originally posted by : Sunshine...

Really its lovely......we do need such bridges to bridge the distances in our hearts..!!

Let's Start.....

Great One.....

Very nice message Sir !!

Thanks for sharing .

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