Depression! please help

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Hi everyone.
Age 29. Female married. CA final group 2 left. appearing in Dec 21, that will be my 13 th attempt. Work experience articleship and 2 years post articleship same firm.
Now I have work gap of 4 years . I am very much tensed and depressed. In last 4 years many times I appeared in exams and failed and many times I skipped. I was in depression due to this and couldn't focus on my mental and physical health due to which I have gained weight.

now I don't have CA degree, don't have work experience, don't have good body. No company is hiring me if I'm applying.
At last again I am motivating myself to give last try in Dec 21 exams.

I am very much tensed for my future. I always go into depression thinking that where I am today, why I did this and what I am doing with my dreams.

I was very ambitious and studious and self motivated person years ago. Now nothing seems right. No one is there to guide me or understand my pain.

can anybody help me with their words what should I do? Or can anybody guide me.
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Don't think about your past. Focus on your present. Firstly focus on clearing group 2. Since you have cleared group 1 already it should motivate you that you can clear group 2 as well. Meanwhile if you want you can focus on reducing your weight. Remember that change will happen slowly but steadily. The fact you think you need guidance shows that you know your weakness and with some effort you can try to reduce and gradually overcome it. Don't overthink and don't take too much stress. You are still young. Even if takes longer to achieve your dreams, when you are old, you should atleast not regret that you didn't try!
Slow but steady wins the race! It is said that do your best, God will do the rest but do remember that God helps those who help themselves! All the Best!
Hi, if you depress means. First come out from depression. Take one paper write your problem and go to beach walk 30minutes and look surrending people buy one balloon , paste the problem papper and fly it. Do this continues 15days. 16th day you know what to do.

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Thank you
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First things first, you should see yourself not as a statistical unit but as an individual. Rules applicable to a population or a certain sample size applies to a statistical unit. But the fact is no individual is a statistical unit. We might share similar goals and beliefs but we don't necessarily have to walk on the bridge or stick to conventions that others have did. This view of yourself might help you stop making pointless, never ending comparisons with legends and clowns surrounding you.
Secondly, reality exists independent of what you believe or think it is. I know this might sound so self evident for an advise...but I'm sure not everyone acknowledges and identify this fact explicitly in their pursuit of values. This should be the first blow to the Ego. Reality does play by certain rules and the only thing you can do is adapt and only thing you can control is yourself.
Finally, having acknowledged the fact that reality exists independent of your mind the next important thing which you alone can do is a honest and committed self introspection. Re evaluate your values. Accept for who you are; self guilt is the reason for anxiety. Don't spend time hitting the tree with the same old axe you've been using for so long...you might want to spend time sharpening it.
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