C.a club family members plz help urgent .

Hi to all C.A club members ..am bit distracted in my life due to relatives comments.Am in C.A final yr .i skipped 2 attempts cos i was not prepared..some of my friends and relatives r scaring me by tellin if u dont take coaching u will never clear C.A and all..Am average student i take time to learn. for PCC had not taken coaching classes and with hard work i cleared in 3rd attempt with average marks.I work hard but the reward i get is very less..i reg as article trainee near my distant relative .the big mistake i made is never went to office..now u can say as "NIL" knowledge in practical ground..Now i really want to take this profession very seriously..plzz suggest me some option where i can clear C.A final with good marks . is it possible to clear without coaching? for PCC i cleared group wise...shall i opt for both groups or one group in coming nov?..i wanted practical knowledge too.. some r telling to complete C.A and than work in some small office and some r telling practical knowledge is very imp so first u work  in  bangalore in some office and take exam group wise..am really confused and very distracted in life .. am not able to concentrate in studies also..plzzz give some suggestions....what should i do.?..plzz help me..