Neha,

very well expressed -- I fully agree and endorse your views!

Naveen Jain

Hai  

I reentered into student life in the age of 37. Started from cpt and now in final doing my articles. As I experienced both the parts married and student life I have few words to tell. Neha your wordings are 100% true. I am not satisfied with the family life not because of the family problems but something I missed in my life. That is my studies, working etc.,

So Guys, If you support us, It will make your life happy.

thank you.

punitha

Originally posted by : K.Punitha
	Hai   I reentered into student life in the age of 37. Started from cpt and now in final doing my articles. As I experienced both the parts married and student life I have few words to tell. Neha your wordings are 100% true. I am not satisfied with the family life not because of the family problems but something I missed in my life. That is my studies, working etc., So Guys, If you support us, It will make your life happy. thank you. punitha

Your words are so so true!!

Originally posted by : K.Punitha
	Hai   I reentered into student life in the age of 37. Started from cpt and now in final doing my articles. As I experienced both the parts married and student life I have few words to tell. Neha your wordings are 100% true. I am not satisfied with the family life not because of the family problems but something I missed in my life. That is my studies, working etc., So Guys, If you support us, It will make your life happy. thank you. punitha

Here you played a double game.

Oneside u got married and the otherside u want to do further in your studies and job.

As far as girls are concerned at one point of time they should decide whether they want to achieve more in thier personal life or to get married & strictly look after the family.

They cant do it simultaneously, if they do ,they wont be good in either.

If one has to gain something then they should be ready sacrifice something for that.

If you girls have a very high ambition, and if you think that your achievement will be compromised after marriage, then such girls shouldn't marry at all . but some girls enters into marriage and they expect their husband to help in her further studies & job by creating sympathy atmoshpere as if they have sacrificed their interest, likes, life.

Such kind of activites only amounts cruelty to like husband's

but some girls enters into marriage and they expect their husband to help in her further studies & job by creating sympathy atmoshpere as if they have sacrificed their interest, likes, life..

I dnt agree with you dear. There is nothing like making sympathy atmosphere for working women, girls reallly do need husband's care, affection, attention, understanding, love, respect so that they can also move further and realise their dreams.

Originally posted by : Neha Jain
	but some girls enters into marriage and they expect their husband to help in her further studies & job by creating sympathy atmoshpere as if they have sacrificed their interest, likes, life..   I dnt agree with you dear. There is nothing like making sympathy atmosphere for working women, girls reallly do need husband's care, affection, attention, understanding, love, respect so that they can also move further and realise their dreams.

We guys always show unconditional love for girls..........................................................but sometimes too much of love also make girl's feel bore.................that really hurts. y dont u girls also show the same love to guys.

Originally posted by : Pillai
	A married girl has to do all those things u mentioned above. these are the basic things which every men expect from his wife.Its must for her to keep the relations going. Its not right to blame boys.....becuase nowdays girls are super smart in fooling boys. Hence boys has to be extra careful  in dealing with girls once married..... & i strongly support this point that girls once married they must put a full stop to her friendship with other boys/men.......because her husband is everything after marriage...whatever she problem she may face ...she must discuss with her husband ONLY..... Girls must/should not use facebook/orkut/ chatting with other guys...after marriage.... In short my point is girls once married they should not deal with other men whatever may be the relation. She should be solely dedicated to her husband. Will todays girls follow this ...........................????????? If they follow ...am sure their life will be bright & happy..................

hello pillai... i have a quest for u ... why u dont feel even boys (husband) should not use face book chatting after marraige??? why u dont strongly support the point that once boy get married he should stop flirting with other girls????boys can do anything but they want their wife to stay inside the house( kyon ki useke karname patha na chale)... !!! problem is not with wife chatting with another boy.. problem is in the thinking of the husband... he flirt with other girls so he thinkhis wife also do same... change the cheap thinking....life will be super happy when husband and wife trust each other and stay trustworthy... if one restrict other then life will be horrible...

Originally posted by : Pillai
	Originally posted by : Neha Jain   but some girls enters into marriage and they expect their husband to help in her further studies & job by creating sympathy atmoshpere as if they have sacrificed their interest, likes, life..   I dnt agree with you dear. There is nothing like making sympathy atmosphere for working women, girls reallly do need husband's care, affection, attention, understanding, love, respect so that they can also move further and realise their dreams. We guys always show unconditional love for girls..........................................................but sometimes too much of love also make girl's feel bore.................that really hurts. y dont u girls also show the same love to guys.

@ pallai :   lol..."unconditional love" u must be joking... u only said after marraige girl should stop talking to her frds... is this not a condition!!!

@ neha:   i agree with u mam... 

Originally posted by : gopika
	Originally posted by : Pillai   A married girl has to do all those things u mentioned above. these are the basic things which every men expect from his wife.Its must for her to keep the relations going. Its not right to blame boys.....becuase nowdays girls are super smart in fooling boys. Hence boys has to be extra careful  in dealing with girls once married..... & i strongly support this point that girls once married they must put a full stop to her friendship with other boys/men.......because her husband is everything after marriage...whatever she problem she may face ...she must discuss with her husband ONLY..... Girls must/should not use facebook/orkut/ chatting with other guys...after marriage.... In short my point is girls once married they should not deal with other men whatever may be the relation. She should be solely dedicated to her husband. Will todays girls follow this ...........................????????? If they follow ...am sure their life will be bright & happy..................     hello pillai... i have a quest for u ... why u dont feel even boys (husband) should not use face book chatting after marraige??? why u dont strongly support the point that once boy get married he should stop flirting with other girls????boys can do anything but they want their wife to stay inside the house( kyon ki useke karname patha na chale)... !!! problem is not with wife chatting with another boy.. problem is in the thinking of the husband... he flirt with other girls so he thinkhis wife also do same... change the cheap thinking....life will be super happy when husband and wife trust each other and stay trustworthy... if one restrict other then life will be horrible...

1. Yes i too support boys once married should stop flirting with other girls but at the same time he has got legal right to flirt with his wife, (wife should not restrict him from doing so).

2. Girls(wife) should take care her husband in a such way that he should not feel a necessary to flirt with other girls.

3. Its the not husband restricting his wife, its his love which he has got for his wife, that makes him suspicious.

@ gopika Ji,

Dont murder my profile name. Its Pillai not "Pallai."

Originally posted by : Pillai
	Originally posted by : gopika Originally posted by : Pillai   A married girl has to do all those things u mentioned above. these are the basic things which every men expect from his wife.Its must for her to keep the relations going. Its not right to blame boys.....becuase nowdays girls are super smart in fooling boys. Hence boys has to be extra careful  in dealing with girls once married..... & i strongly support this point that girls once married they must put a full stop to her friendship with other boys/men.......because her husband is everything after marriage...whatever she problem she may face ...she must discuss with her husband ONLY..... Girls must/should not use facebook/orkut/ chatting with other guys...after marriage.... In short my point is girls once married they should not deal with other men whatever may be the relation. She should be solely dedicated to her husband. Will todays girls follow this ...........................????????? If they follow ...am sure their life will be bright & happy..................     hello pillai... i have a quest for u ... why u dont feel even boys (husband) should not use face book chatting after marraige??? why u dont strongly support the point that once boy get married he should stop flirting with other girls????boys can do anything but they want their wife to stay inside the house( kyon ki useke karname patha na chale)... !!! problem is not with wife chatting with another boy.. problem is in the thinking of the husband... he flirt with other girls so he thinkhis wife also do same... change the cheap thinking....life will be super happy when husband and wife trust each other and stay trustworthy... if one restrict other then life will be horrible... 1. Yes i too support boys once married should stop flirting with other girls but at the same time he has got legal right to flirt with his wife, (wife should not restrict him from doing so). 2. Girls(wife) should take care her husband in a such way that he should not feel a necessary to flirt with other girls. 3. Its the not husband restricting his wife, its his love which he has got for his wife, that makes him suspicious.

husband should take care his wife in a such way that she should not feel a necessary to make frds on fb or orkut.

and is it not wife s love when she restrict her husband???

Originally posted by : Pillai
	@ gopika Ji, Dont murder my profile name. Its Pillai not "Pallai."

i am sorry for the spelling mistake....

husband should take care his wife in a such way that she should not feel a necessary to make frds on fb or orkut.

and is it not wife s love when she restrict her husband???

Well, he (husband) cant be with u (wife) 24*7. he has to go out for work, moreover he (husband) is  working  for whom? for u (wife), why dont u people understand that. just becuase at times he may not get time to spend with you(wife), it doesnot mean that he dont love/care for u (wife). 

wife should discuss her problems with him, she should not take revenge by finding alternate ways.

Yes i agree even wife has got full right to protect/restrict her husband but they should not torture him in the name of love.

Let me reveal the fact, boys(husband) are like coconut, they may look hard from outside but inside they are soft (heart).

Neha,

very well expressed -- I fully agree and endorse your views!

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