Loneliness and Failure dragging into life threat

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Loneliness and failure in ca dragging me into life threatening! And moreover unable to get motivated by anything & anyone since I have tried many things like read for a long time motivational thoughts, watched videos, people suggestions, even once been to a psychiatrist. But nothing is working, I don't get affected by all of these. Because everything in my mind is unstable. In any movement I have in my mind many goals, plans to achieve even alone but in very next movement I might be very demotivated either by own thoughts or seeing people and observing them and thier life on the way, class, on internet or anywhere.

Even I don't know what do i ask?

Just one thing I am clear that alone I can't do anything in this life. Seriously what I am "hungry for friendship, love, respect" and the other side which doesn't support all of that is my nature, look, behavior, humor.

I am attempting IPCC group II till now since Nov 2012. And whenever I sit for study during exam I am unable to study within 2 minutes I be in some other thoughts of being alone, no way to success, health issues, didn't do anything till now, I am at 27 and all thoughts, even some imaginative thoughts too.

I am stopping myself to write more I have already confused all of you that what do I want to say. Just that I have fully unstable mind and loneliness both sometimes drags my life to threat.
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Dear Niraj

This is life  what you have expressed equally applies to me too though you have shared i have not shared anything here but remember only one thing I am not here to give motivation to you which others succesful people in club can  but since you are only 27 years old just have good passion for learing take  more interest in whatever you do CA is not everything but you can try hard because once you succced at this age the rest of the life  would be enjoyable 

Dear Niraj....

I agree with Sivaram ji....

Is CA your dream or you are pursuing it to fulfill others' dream?

This is the most important question which is to be truthfully answered by you.

Clearing CA or any other degree is not everything...Don't make it your life.....

A class 8 failed boy has become a millionaire at 21 years of age....his interest was in Computers and hacking and he had built a multi million company doing what he was best at......

So find your forte and do your best...Don't think what others will say....They'll forget it if you do...

All the best for your future.....yes

 

All improvement in life begins with an improvement in your mental pictures.With right mindset we can turn our weaknesses into strength.

All the very best .

Dear Niraj and Sivaram

I had also suffered the same problem. After giving 3-4 attempts of a single exam we do not remain fresh, so to read for an hour is like a challenge to us. Book remain unread in our hands. We are continuously receive useless advices from all the direction. We feel intolerable mental pressure.

But finally as a conclusion or solution, practice of papers is the key to success in this situation. I have written an article about the same ( dated 22/9/16).

All The Best


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