I quit

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WINNER HAS MANY FRIENDS, LOSER HAS NONE

I have decided to quit CA. This is the 2nd time I have flunked. I have had enough of this CA. My articleship is also coming to an end and I feel this is a more sensible decision which I can take at this point. I cannot afford CA anymore. It is very painful to me to quit CA as becoming CA was my lifetime ambition and I was desperate to become CA.

I have put in 5years for ca after completing my graduation. I have given everything to the course - money, effort and time and got nothing in return from the course - except black remarks of being a failure. I have never failed in my academic career before joining CA and cleared pe2 in 1st attempt. But now I am not in a position to show my ugly face to my family and friends. Most of my friends had deserted me after I flunked for the first time and now the remaining friends may also follow suit. Now Iam without friends. In India a person is judged only by his marks sheet. So, now I feel that I am useless and most foolish person in the world. 

Probably this is going to be my last message in this forum.so, I would like to thank all the members of CAclubindia for their support all this while.

bye................

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FRIEND,,,,,

 

IT IS EASY TO QUIT.........

 

I AM FAR BETTER THAN U........DUDE

 

AND MANY OTHER PEOPLE R THERE WHO TRY AGAIN & AGAIN.........

 

GIVE YOUR EFFORT & DO THE BEST...............REST THE GOD's DECISION...

 

I HAVE SEEN A GUY WHO GAVE 8 ATTEMPTS IN CA FINAL EXAM & ALSO HE BELONGS TO A VERY POOR FAMILY.....

 

I RESPECT HIM A LOT........

 

TODAY HE IS A C.A.

 

SO, I CAN SAY ONLY ...........BE BRAVE & DON'T QUIT........

 

SEE IN YOUR'S PARENTS EYES.........

 

THEY R WAITING FOR U TO BECOME A C.A.

 

REST YOUR DECISION....

 

REGARDS

 

RAHUL BANSAL

 

 

 

 

Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.
Thomas Jefferson

GOOD FARHA................

TOTALLY AGREE WITH

RAHUL & FARHA

 

 

WHATEVER YOU THINK, THAT YOU WILL BE.

IF YOU THINK YOURSELVES WEAK, WEAK YOU WILL BE;

IF YOU THINK YOURSELVES STRONG, STRONG YOU WILL BE.

(SWAMI VIVEKANANDA)

Harry, it was my second attempt and i also unable to clear instead of quiting i think we should focus on how to prepare where are we wrong i think first we should learn how to write a answer

Saurabh Sharma

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FRIENDSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR RESULTS, WINNINGS OR FAILINGS. IN CA, RESULTS DO NOT ALWAYS COME AS PER OUR EXPECTATION. U NEED NOT TO QUIT BROTHER. U CLEARED PE 2 WITHIN 1ST ATTEMPT AND THAT IS GREAT AND SOMEONE HAS SAID THAT THE GREATNESS CANT HIDE......KEEP THE READING UP. FORGET ALL THESE.......

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“There are no failures - just experiences and your reactions to them.”------TOM KRAUSE

Thank your lucky stars that now you know who are your real friends.If you had cleared, then you would never know who is your true friend and who is plotting behind you for your failure.

Also,read Prajita's story which I posted ...if she can get it, you too can get it,trust me yaar on this.

All izzwell...In my friends group,I was the least probable guy who would clear.They called Rangdi Ka Bangdi because I used to mess up studying and not being able to attend coaching classes,not being able to understnad concepts fast,etc But persistence paved way for my success.All those who called me "Rangdi Ka Bangdi" are now "Mangdi Ka Kungdi"!! Ha! This is life.

My girlfriend who did not clear this time.Has gone right away after my consolation to buy the latest Indirect taxes and other books and start studying.

This should be the attitude Yaaar!

CA Purush Mistry

कर्मनेय्वाधिकर्स्ते  माँ फलेषु कदाचना !

Don't think ur 'actions' bear the fruits u get.Nor think u r the owner of the fruits. U have right over the actions u do but not over the fruits u get.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hi

my friend

Please donot think this is your life. This CA is just a part of life. Ups and downs are common in life. Better skip an attempt and write in Nov. 2010. Always efforts will reap fruits. So its sure that you will become CA in near future. Pl. donot quit CA.

 

Harry i request you to read this poem.

 

Lehron se darkar nauka paar nahi hoti, koshish karne walo ki haar nahi hoti.

 

Nanhi chiti jab daana lekar chadti hai, chadti diwaron par so baar fisalti hai.

 

Man ka wishwas rago me sahas bharta hai, chadkar girna girkar chadna  na akharta hai.

 

Akhir uski mehnat bekar nahi hoti, koshish karne walo ki haar nahi hoti.

 

Dubki sindhu me gautakhor lagata hai, ja ja kar khali haath lautkar ata hai.

 

Milte nahi moti sehaj hi gehre paani me, badta uska utsah dugna isi herani me.

 

Muthi uski khali har bar nahi hoti, koshish karne walo ki har nahi hoti.

 

ASAFALTA EK CHUNAUTI HAI SWEEKAR KARO, KYA KAMI REH GAYI DEKHO AUR SUDHAR KARO.

 

Jab tak na safal ho neend chen ko tyago tum.

 

sangharsh ka maidan chod mak bhago tum.

 

kuch kiye bina hi jaijaikar nahi hoti.

 

koshish karne walo ki haar nahi hoti.....

 

Do you still want to quit? You have given second attempt only. I know one guy who cleared PE2 in 5 attempts.He never gave up. Jaha tak friends ka sawal hai it's better to have no friends than to have such people as your friend. Do u think your family will be happy seeing you quitting this course once they have invested so much of their time, money & efforts. Show them that you are not a quitter.

Final ki sidi pe pahuch ke yaar kyo utar raha hai. Try to find out where do you lack.

 

Many thanks for your concern towards me. I have decided to study well and pass the exam in the coming attempt.

Now all my friends have completely deserted me since I have failed for the 2nd time. I have been left alone. Ifeel very bitter that some of my close friends whom I trusted so much and did whatever possible have also followed suit. They look at me like a social outcaste and try to avoid me. so I have decided to stay away from these cunning fellows. I may be without friends but not without courage and will to pass the exam.

 

 

Now that my friends reckon me as useless and dumb, I definately have a point to prove. I shall work hard with determination to pass the exam.


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