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feeling low, depressed...help me?

lakshay (ipcc) (581 Points)

09 March 2011

please help me guys..i have my ipcc attempt after 1.5 months dat is in may..

i have been working hard ...(atleast i think so) bt some days u know i feel very very depressed when i talk to my friends who are in college(( speciallu delhi university)....i am an average student ..and fun loving .till class 12th i had so much fun bt now for ca i am into buks so much..pure din padhai n concentrating..
i sometimes feel bad , jealous and depressed too when my friends are having gfs and having fun..

how should i motivate myself when such kind of thoughts come in my mind..

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Vikas Gupta (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) (16295 Points)
Replied 09 March 2011

You should first decide what u need ...fun ya to become CA..and act accordingly..

Aditya20 (na) (113 Points)
Replied 09 March 2011

HIIII RISHBAB DONT FEEL DEPRESSED. WHAT I BELEIVE IS JUST DONT LOOSE UR CONFIDENCE IN URSELF. HAVE A FAITH U WILL DO IT.

sahil (final) (130 Points)
Replied 09 March 2011

Same thing happened with me..... i will say only one line

Kuch paane ke liye kuch khona padta hai......

Mayank Saraogi (Learner) (170 Points)
Replied 09 March 2011

As Praveen Sir says...if u want anythng different (like sucess) then u have to be different from the crowd...

n dont thnk wot u r doing today or u r not been able today enjoy ur life just hnk tht wot u will be able to do after u become a CA...

passing inter only will give u so much pleasure tht u ll forget all these pains...go ahead dont get deprsd...chake de

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Deepika (CA Final) (205 Points)
Replied 09 March 2011

hey Risabh,

work for 1.5mnths more and give ur best shot...

after clearing ipcc you cn enjoy your life as you wish...

and i completely agree with sahil... KUCH PAANE KE LIYE KUCH KHONA PADTHA HAIN...

Decide ur priorities first and put your heart and soul in it..

ALL THE VERY BEST for ur exam... GOOD LUCK

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Prateek (B.Com(H) PGDBA CA Final) (436 Points)
Replied 09 March 2011

just dont bother about others ...i am 25 yrs old B.Com(H) MBA CA IPCC Group 1...i have started CA at the age of 24...B.Com will not give u anything yaar...just clear ur CA ...then see amazing results ...of this course

chandan ghosh (none) (196 Points)
Replied 09 March 2011

i agree with all of you.

hey bro that fun will not be for life time but after becoming CA your every day will be a fun coz you will be living your deream...

i sacrificed sm1 precious to me for the sake of my studies and after paasing IPCC GROUP 1ST i felt like i made that sacrifice really worth...

fun is a part of life but making fun of career is not fun at all.

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Krish (CA Final ) (3331 Points)
Replied 10 March 2011

To become a CA you have to find fun in your studying, in other word do your studying as you enjoy your fun………..don’t see your friends that what they do, just do what do you want to do and what your family expects to you and make yourself on that position that you can say to your friends, yes I was on the correct way.

Always first give preference to your career, thereafter your family, and then friends.

Best of luck for your upcoming examination, Chak de.

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rahul12kumar (article) (33 Points)
Replied 10 March 2011

hi Risabh first of all u have to overcome ur mental pressure & ur DEPRESSEion becz until ur mind is not calm & cool u can't do anything even studies so be calm & cool & keep studies don't distract ur mind all d best for ur exam All

(Guest)

agree with all.....

Manjul Soni. (CA Student.) (1407 Points)
Replied 10 March 2011

Originally posted by : Saritha and Vikas
	You should first decide what u need ...fun ya to become CA..and act accordingly..

i agree this...........

And My view that - Ask urself why u are doing ca ?

For Fun or For Hard work ?

Strictly Saying- If u are Seeing To others Life - it Means U are Not Seeing Your Goal ?????//

Life is Yours

Live as U Want to Live .............................

(Guest)

hey dont feel low or depressd..v all r suffrng frm d same situatn frnd.....jst enjoy ur study n dnt bother bout others...yeh 1.5 mnths padlo fir enjymnt k lie puri lyf baki h..all d bst...

Narayanan (exec) (242 Points)
Replied 10 March 2011

Rishab

First , U live only once. one life. its in ur hands to make it big.

Do not hold back any feelings. The truth will always come out.

Say aloud " i am scared, i'm depressed BUT i wont let it take over me, i want to be great! i want to achieve, whatever it takes!! whatever it takes!! "

again ... u live only once...think about it..

Narayanan (exec) (242 Points)
Replied 10 March 2011

and more importantly.. people will ask u to calm down and all advice...

Let your feelings out.

Dont control your feelings. if u r angry .. then u r angry.. nobody can help it.. there has been a reason why u r angry.. once u accept that u r depressed and angry.. u will get over it automatically.

i was exactly like you.

Dont control feelings. That is not strentgh. going through any feeling is strength.

U LIVE ONLY ONCE.

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