Originally posted by :karan |
" |
i have just signed up on this site just to get some advice. I am very confused as i have failed 3 times in pe2 and now going to appear for 4th time. I have completely lost confidence. I have just lost my job due to my continuing bad performance.........i cannot make out what to do now. I was not academically so poor even i have completed my Bcom(h) from D.U. with first division but due to continuing challenges at job have changed my mind that i would not be able to do the job of a CA after completing CA............my job was of a data entry operator and as eveyone knows it was so simple than the job of a CA...........even some are making fun of me that i want to be a CA. i am not from a well-to-do family and i need job to support my family as my father's work is not regular. I have realised that CA is not for me. now i am thinking over a new job..................Due to cotinuous failure in CA, challenges faced at job and my bad economic condition at home, not only CA but life also seems too difficult........even sometime i think about killing myself...................I cannot understand where i lacked in job and where in CA despite having good at college and school level.
PLZ Somebody decide my future................................................................................................ |
" |
Hi Karan..
What is this you are saying man.You have to be strong man, dont ever think of giving up life..
All this ups and downs comes and goes.
Now something seriously you need to do is...
Take Leave from Office for at least 2 days if you are still going. Give yourself privacy. Sit in front of mirror. Look at you and think where you stand today. What You wanted to do in life. Have you ever at least thougt of becoming CA with full confidence. Had you ever thought of how will I pass it. Did you make any study plan?. if yes did you stick to it. Where exactly you are lacking.. Is it questions are tough or you never studied or you are not able to concentrate. if you genually think and get these answar. You ll know where the problem is, then accordingly make plan. you are left with only 2 month. I hope you ll defenetaly find some way.
To be bit harsh Karan you are only responsible for your plight. IT YOU AND ONLY YOU. Not your job, not your family, not your friends.
You think ,only two month you have to strugle day and night and I am sure will get thourgh.
Now coming to your Job, remember one thing Its not only you who are doing job and study together. Almost all CA Student do job and study including me. So thats does not distinguish you from others. so dont think at all being self pity that you are studying as well as supporting your family. It will give you idea of giving excuse to yourself which is hurdle in your progress
You lost job no problem take in positive way. May be Its time for you to put full effort in Study and get rank which will be slap on those faces who laugh at you, and its all about self confidence man. Attand some interview you will gain some confidence More importand for Interveiw just prepare 100% what you written in your Resume. Make youself competent at least what you have written in your Resume. you should be able to answar that first. Than what you dont know say I dont know but I can learn and pick in short time. thats all the formula of getting job. See Employer call you for interveiw seeing your resume. thats mean he is looking for similar kind of profile. Usually if 60% profile match candidate is called for an interveiw 2nd he will see how confident you are of taking up job. You should be bold enough to ask him what kind of profile they are looking for. Then show your confidence that you can do it even if you dont know how to do it. I tell you only 20% of your Exp. count in getting job. 80% is your confidence and attitude.
Study daily that will give you confidence too. In this website thousand of important files are there related to our subject make use of that.
I hope this will solve your problem.
YOU Start saying from now that you are going to succeed and you have to succeed.
if any more clarification regarding anything. Please Send mail to v_rajsh @ yahoo.com
Best regards
Rajesh
PEII Studend