Why we Shout when we are angry?

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A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger?
Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.'

'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?' asked the saint.
'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?
Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.

Finally he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot.
To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other.
The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.'
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why?
Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small...'
The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens?
They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.
Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all.
That is how close two people are when they love each other.'


MORAL: When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other
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On 19 July 2009 at 15:40 Report
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CA CWA* Bcom(H)
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 Truely right

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On 19 July 2009 at 17:51
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nice......

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On 19 July 2009 at 17:51
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student
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easy to read.......but  to follow?????

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On 19 July 2009 at 19:02
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HI Faiyaz,

Its really true...

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On 19 July 2009 at 23:01
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276 Points Joined December 2008

hmm....yea Lucky..

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On 19 July 2009 at 23:12
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nice article

 

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On 20 July 2009 at 16:22
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nice

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On 20 July 2009 at 16:52
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very good

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On 20 July 2009 at 18:16
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Student
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OWO GR8.....

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On 21 July 2009 at 05:30
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Very Nice

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On 21 July 2009 at 16:33
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AGM
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Yes Absolutely right

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On 21 July 2009 at 18:23
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Company Secretary and Compliance Officer
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Remarkable...

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On 22 July 2009 at 11:32

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