Why do we shout...when we are angry?

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Why do we shout?

 

‘Why do we shout in anger?’

 

A saint asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’

His disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’ ‘But, why do you shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the saint. ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?

Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’ Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.

Finally he explained, ‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’

Then the saint asked, ‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’

The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.

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100% CONVINCED...

I KNEW THAT SMILE IS THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE....BUT TODAY I GOTTO KNOW  SOMETHING NEW...

"WHEN THE DISTANCE BETWEEN HEARTS ARE ALOOF....WE START SHOUTING"

VERY NICE....DI...

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nice one vandana ji

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I sat there thinking, again, why I felt that I had failed and how could I muster up the energy and enthusiasm to try again. It seemed pointless; I would only fail. Then I saw my niece, 15 months old, trying to walk.

She stood by the chair and stumbled forward and fell. mujhe bahut kharab laga , but she just lifted her head and smiled and tried again and fell once more. Again she smiled, no bruised ego. She just got on and tried once more and took her first step.

A lesson for me could not have been given more plainly. We don't know until we try and if we fail, we just have to try again.

KOSIS KARNE WALO KI HAR NAHI HOTI!!!

Originally posted by : Aryan Singhania

I sat there thinking, again, why I felt that I had failed and how could I muster up the energy and enthusiasm to try again. It seemed pointless; I would only fail. Then I saw my niece, 15 months old, trying to walk.

She stood by the chair and stumbled forward and fell. mujhe bahut kharab laga , but she just lifted her head and smiled and tried again and fell once more. Again she smiled, no bruised ego. She just got on and tried once more and took her first step.

A lesson for me could not have been given more plainly. We don't know until we try and if we fail, we just have to try again.

KOSIS KARNE WALO KI HAR NAHI HOTI!!!

Thank you Aryan.........Its very true.......TRY AND TRY TILL YOU SUCCEED.....I remember the days when we were small kids, how we used to fell down from the cycle and got up and try to ride again and it contiuned until we succeed.....So same is the life when we are grownups, GOD wants us to learn some lessons which we have yet not learnt...and continues until we finally learn that lesson.
 

haan di...jo jab hum bache thay tab kuch pane ke liye...kabhi har nahi mante thay...bachpan se bahut si baatein hume hamesha yaad rakhni chahiye....

"DON'T TRUST TOO MUCH...DON'T LOVE TOO MUCH...BCOZ THIS TOO MUCH WILL HURT U...SO MUCH"


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