Very urgent....request to all female members!!!

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Dear CCI’ites,

 

I’d request you to consider this post very seriously. Here in caclubindia one of our very well known female member is really struggling due to few fake profiles (not sure but appears to be fake). However am not able to tell you the exact problem as she has asked me to not to disclose the details of her problem and name of members. I suggest her to tell the entire problem to Admin as early as possible to avoid any future problem.

 

The main purpose of this post is to make a small request to all female members of Caclubindia. All female members are very humbly requested to consider the following points:

 

1. One of the most important thing ---- Please do not share your cell number to any stranger. Stranger may be anyone including me. Please consider this point very important.

 

2. As per my understanding there is no need to accept any friendship request immediately without any consideration. First check the profile of person like friend list etc. and then accept the request.

 

3. If any member force you to do anything like chat, accept friendship or share your cell number etc immediately inform Admin or use profile abuse button.

 

4. If anyone gives you any kind of threat regarding anything then immediately inform Admin about the same.  

 

5. If presently anyone of you facing any kind of problem due to any abusive member immediately inform Admin about the same as there is no need to be silent.

 

I have no intention to hurt anyone and the above is just a humble suggestion. You are totally free to accept or reject the same.

 

Be safe and stay connected to Caclubindia…

 

Best Regards

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yes bayya ..what u told is exactly right...we have to care...not only male members but also not give your number aur any other personal details to any female members too..becoz we dont know actually he/she is male or female..it may be fake profile....be careful girls..

in my opinion not give even your mail id /orkut id..not share ur photos here..if you want to chat use caclub chat room for it...

its right  information

Thanks Saritha and Vikas…for understanding and noticing the post…According to me this is a very serious issue…as numbers of members are increasing day by day!!!

 

Best Regards

 

Originally posted by : sameer m s

its right  information

 

Thanks Sameer for your comment !!!

 

This is to inform you all that the concerned member have informed the Admin about the issue.

 

Thanks

It is professional site. Members in this site are professionals and professional students. Every person in this site should follow the rules and regulations strictily. Admin strict action against who not follow the rules we the members want this as professional..

I have posted the same thing, sometime back... and being a moderator here, requesting again to all our female knowledge partners at caclubindia to send me or to the ADmin, that PM ID you have received from the abusive profile.

However, we, the back-end team is taking care about the things happening here but its hard to get the pulse detail of each member.

I humbly request you to report abusive profiles/forum threads or any other postings at caclubindia.

"Express the view...Share the Knowledge"..DM

Dear ALL

This is a site dedicated to improve the quality of life and career of CA and other Professional members.

Let us allways keep this mind.

Mr Ankur Garg`s notifying the matter is a ringing bell.

One can become a Good Professional only after becoming a Good Human Being.

Misbehaviour with female is very costly.

Please do respect them.

Let all of us be responsible for our behaviour.

Harassment to Hackers by fake profiles also there, no wonder fake profiles are harassing other members also.

 

a few live examples How to deal with irritative messages or methods:

 

I received this PM from a fake profile: 

 

 Open Harassment:

Subject : gracewill10 @ hotmail.com
Message : 















Hello, How is everything with you, I picked interest on you after going through your short profile at( www.caclubindia.com ) . I really want to have a good friendship with you. Beside i have something very vital to disclose to you, but I found it difficult to express myself here, since it's a public site. I will be very happy, If you can get back to me, through my e-mail Is( gracewill10 @ hotmail.com )So we can get to know each other better,and i well give you my pictures and also tell you more about me ok Grace.
From : gracelove

 

My reply to this irritative PM: 

 

 

Private Message

Subject : gracewill10 @ hotmail.com
Message : 



your account will be deleted soon.
Sent to : gracelove on 06 June 2010

 

 

Technical Harassment: 

I received this PM from a member who is not in my friendlist:

 

Subject : request
Message : 







dont mind but why were u using ur name as dipesh before in ca club?............
From : *******

 

Immediately After sending this PM to me, this member has make such settings in her settings menu that no one can send her a PM or scrap except members who are in her friendlist. It has been noticed that the sole objective behind doing this is to irritate me.

 

My reply to this PM  by sending a PM though her security settings restricted me to send a PM:

 

Subject : request
Message : 







Members cannot stop me to send PMs by making settings in the settings menu because I am a H4ck?? :) and the answer to your question is just because I did not feel it proper to disclose my real identity on CAclub. :)
Sent to : ********* on 10 June 2010

 

Note: Members cannot use the method adopted by me in case of technical harassment as it requires special skills of internet, yet there are many ways available to deal with technical harassments also. 

 

Public Harassment:

Public harassment occurs when some member tries to defame or insult or harass other member publicly. For example Some member has posted an insulting scrap on my brother's profile so that all can see that publicly on his profile and made my brother delete his profile with same. Never tolerate public harassment and results of public harassment can not be good.

 

Profile with 500 points Deleted....!

There is no security on this earth, there is only opportunity. CAclub is a precious platform for making professional friend circle and sharing knowledge and there is no reason to be panic of fake profiles. All members require is to take a little care just while accepting friends and I agree that it is not proper to share mobile numbers with others except you trust. The best attempts are made to remove fake profiles from this website and these are just a few examples: 

 

1. Great work by Admin

 

2. Great work by Admin - Part 2

 

Yet it is not possible to remove fake profiles 100%, just use the report abuse button or send PM to Admin if there is any trouble.

 

The best solution of this problem is to make available Ignore User button on every profile. 

 

Harassment is called online exploitation in our language and irrespective of whether you are a boy or girl, if you are tolerating harassment and not taking any actions, then as the white hat, I would like to tell that you are the biggest manor on this earth.

 

Regards,

The White Hat Hacker. 

Yes, I too agree with Mr. Ankur Garg.

The kind of professionalism I see here is below my expectation.Earlier I had provided ma EMail ID so that I can b in touch with ma professional friends but then people from opposite gender started taking personal interests & vulgar messages..THen I gave up d idea of sharing any contact info..

So gals pls b careful b4 giving any contact details...& pls check d genuineness of d reason for sharing such contact details...

REagrds,

Preeti

Thanx for ur concern sir....we will definitely consider all ur suggetions.........

thanx a lot ...

this is what called is social responsibility. Consideration is worth appreciation....

I appreciate Ankur for bringing this issue up

 

I would request all the members to use the privacy setting to control who can contact you via pm or scrap /privacy_settings.asp. You can enable only friends can get in touch with you.

 

If any person in your friend list is disturbing you , use manage friends /my_friends.asp to delete him from your friends list.

 

And lastly report us before deleteing the content if any such member is found undertaking such activity.

 

Regards
ADmin

Even I went through the same Situation .. In intial Stages members here were only speaking about studies and profession and were very helpful......but these days I have think twice abt accepting any requests .... Thanks for your Message sir.. We wil definetely take care....


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