"Jo lehron se aage nazar dekh pati, to tum jaan lete ki mai kya sochta hu
wo awaaz tumko bhi jo bhed jaati, to tum jaan lete ki mai kya sochta hu
zidd ka tumhare jo parda sarakta, khirkion se aage bhi tum dekh pate
aankhon se aadatein ki jo palkein hatate, to tum jaan lete ki mai kya sochta hu
meri tarah hota agar jo khud pe bharosa , to kuch door tum bhi saath saath ate
rang meri aknhon ka baatne zara sa, to kuch door tum bhi saath saath ate.
nasha aasaman ka jo chumta tumhe, hasratein tumhari naya janam pati
khud doosre janam me meri udaan chhoone, kuch door tum bhi saath saath aate...."
- from the movie UDAAN
Above dialogue from the movie udaan is narrated by a son to his aggresive father who doesnt wants his son to be a writter instead he wants him to be an engineer. The movie is very inspiring and reflects the ups and downs of a person.
You might have also find yourself at some stages losing your energy and confidence, thinking the life is never what you have thought and everything is going against your thinking. well this is the point where you are soaked with negative energy and you will always feel everything around you in a negative manner. what you need at this moment is some "confidence pill" and the advangtages of gaining confidence is not only limited to your studies or work but to everything around you i.e your family , your profession, your friends , your imagination, your thinking etc.
when life knocks you down always fall on your back.. becoz If you can look up, you can get up.
The mouse that couldn't lose
In an experiment on animal behavior at the University of Wisconsin about 20 years ago, the scientist would put a mouse with its front feet tied together into the cage of another mouse. The mouse whose area was being trespassed would then easily beat up the poor mouse with the feet tied together.
After a number of victories, the scientist started to put mice in the cage without their feet tied. But our mouse was so confident that he would take on and defeat mice even larger than himself. Normally he would have run away from these larger mice, but he felt he just couldn't lose. And he didn't.
What ever problem you hve in your life you have to solve it, you cannot just sit back and wait for the right moment to come and solve it, mark my words there will never be any right moment for which you are waitng for. problems which are not in your hands , you just leave them , they are going to be solved on their own. This is not miracle but its a truth, just try once .. try doing what you can do and leave the other matters where you cannot do anything. Life is like that and the more quickly you learn its better for you.
This May Avoid Your Many Problems :
"Always Try to Put Yourself In the Position of the Other,
And Judge Your Action Against the Background....
Then You will Never be Wrong.."
sometimes a question might have come in your mind that there are something which other can do , but you cant. I am not going to correct this because it may be true, yet before judging anything have you ever felt youself as a pilot of a plane?
A pilot once took off his plane has a great responsibility , he has to reach his plane along with all passenger safely. No matter what ever the problem is he has to keep on driving his plane, even if some emergency or tehcnical problem occurs he has to keep on trying to solve it quickly and land safely at any cost. He fights with the situation till the end and does not quit becaue he knows there is no other option all are depending upon him. Well the same way think yourself as a pilot of plane. your life , your work or your responsibility is your plane and if anytime you face problem just fight back , dont sit idle because your plane wont run on its own.
"A Life with Love will have Some Thorns,
But A Life without Love will have No Roses..
Dont run away from situations, everything in life is conjoined, if you want happiness then you have to except sadness as well , if you want daylight then you have wait for the night to pass. You just cannot get anything onesided , everything is mixture of positive and negative, this is the way nature has made the life and mankind. so dont lose your self confidence if you are sorrounded by negative atmosphere it will pass away very soon.
Start believing yourself, there is no other option you have .. love yourself and thank yourself, you may have never thanked yourself for whatever good things you have got , so do that and stop depending on others.
"Aaj bhi dekho kal jaisa hi na ho, aaj bhi yun na tum sote raho
itne kyu sust ho , kuch kaho kuch suno ..kuch na kuch karo
ro pado ya hanso , zindagi me koi na koi to rang bharo
wake up sid ! sab dishaaon se aa rahi hahi sada, sun sako to suno
- a beautiful song from the movie wake up sid !
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