help me,i am in extreme panic and depression!!!

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guys, iam in extreme panic now adays and i am losing confidence day by . actually i am 22 years old, i did my 10+2 in science four years back, after 10+2 , i lost two years for medical entrance examinations but couldnot get through. then i joined bacheolar in  IT, but i dropped in third semester , because my mind was diverted to medical field, after that seeing good career in CA , i did CPT, and came delhi with one of my friend,  first month in delhi i was really disturbed, i had repeated headache and diarreia, i could not adjust myself in Delhi, second month i was disturbed by ITT training, from third month i tried to focus in reading, but my roomate and my only friend in delhi left me, coz his mother was expired.  i was really disturbed, i was left alone, i have to stay lonely in room. i had joined toppers institute for all the papers , so i didnt have alternative to join classes individually. Since i was from science background i was lacking in basics in accounts, so couldnot get concepts from chapters of accounts, i missed many classes earlier, so couldnot catchup what teacher told. i always had a fear to do assignments.... i had nobody to ask. no one to discuss.... upto now i had expenses of over 1.5 lakhs,  but had not done anything...... my loneliness in room is killing me, somrtimes i want to suicide coz i lost four years plus i couldnot be able to do anyting....i think i cannot complete my IPCC this way. i can see ray of hope in my parents eye, towards me .... i failed to materialize them, my father is retired from civil service so i am the one to take responsibility of earning in the home and mom is all alone in the home. I want to go back to home and do some other proffesion....... i think i will die..... Does it matters if i leave CA, what option can i excercise?? life is delhi is panicing me day by day.... loneliness is eating me.....

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There is a solution for your lonliness. U can Talk with me anytime I will give u my number if u want. and i can also help u in your problems if u like. I recently give CA final exam.

DEAR CHANDAN,

IN LIFE THERE ARE MANY THINGS THAT U HAVE TO DO ALONE..NOBODY CAN HELP IN IT...

BE BRAVE,THINK POSITIVE..

I CAN UNDERSTAND UR POSITION BUT TRY TO FORGET THOSE THING...BEGIN WID NEW PLANS,NEW ACTIONS,NEW THOUGHTS...

DONT THING THAT U HAVE EVER DONE ANYTHING WRONG BEACUSE EVERYTHING U LEARNT WILL SURELY BE USED,WHETHER TODAY OR LATER......

SO DISCUSSION OF QUESTIONS,CACLUB IS ALWAYS OPEN....

Dear Friend Chandan

 

I want to be your friend, will you give this honor to me. i too completed my Schooling in Math Science Stream than switched over to commerce, and i am currently in CA PCC


Arpit Sharma

(M) 098277-64445

Chandan

 

Please have a look on the following Link Atleast 3-4 times, and try to understand what the person in the video is trying to say. have patience and watch the full video.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOlTdkYXuzE

 

Thanks & Regards

 

Arpit Sharma

As u say u take all classes at Toppers i.e. I think u lived in east delhi so in my opinion u should go to ICAI library at vishwas nagar or vijay chawk laxmi nagar for reading and also u get a lot of new friend from there. Dont leave CA and Delhi.

Hello Chandan,

We all are there to gudie u dude. Dont' worry. Be positive.

See a psychriatist mate. They will boost up your confidence. And dont talk about suicide here. Life is precious, live it to the fullest.

even i need guide from fellow CCI members

see chandan if u think of suicide den go ahead but before just think abt ur mother who has brought for only dis reason

dis world is so mean

nobody cares abt any1 if u wanna do sumthing 4 ur parents

study and the probs is u r from science stream den read class 11 and 12 a/cs books ur all fundas will be cleared and den read institute books and queries u can ask in caclub

and the ur loniless will automatically will be over bcoz ur prob is u r making efforts and could nt able to meet some success

do try dis not for u but ur parents

God has given u challenge and u have to face it alone

All the best!

dear chandan every person has to suffer some problems in there life.but don't loose ur confidence in this situation because this is the only situation where a person can improve himself.be positive and we all are with u. may god bless you and go liabrary for studies if u are alone in delhi.u are on caclub definately u are not alone.u can share ur problem anytime with us.we all will very happy to help you.

and dear plz make me a promise u will not talk these kind of things again like sucide.u are very brave and u know that fact because a person is the only one who know himself much better than others.go with confidence and u will get result of it.

best of luck dear friend

regards

tarun rustagi

9716238335

Dont be panic. Try to secure your mind. And never feel alone. Click on this link if there is any loneliness. 

 

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Regards.

 

The White hat Hacker

thanx guys, i am thoroughly motivated, i was so chidhish to post such ...., what i gonna do is i am heading towars Topper's  Hostel first where i will find many friends to interact, then i'll be seeing thoroughly 11 and 12 class accounts  books for concepts for some 15 days..... and i shall prepare my first group of IPCC for Nov 2010 attempt, for rest 4 months. It will be right na?

Thanx u all the CCI members for supports and valuable advise....... now i knew that nothing is possible for the one who do nothing and i gotta be self motivated.

Thanx.

yes dear chandan u can go with this strategy.first make ur base strong in  accounts and then go for ipcc books. this will really help you. and if u don't want to go with these strategy then go for p.c. tulsian book because it is very good in creating base to accounts.make good friends not many because this world is very selfish and never show ur personal weakness to others except some best friends.

best of luck dear

go hard.....................

There is a solution for your lonliness. U can Talk with me anytime I will give u my number if u want. and i can also help u in your problems if u like. Face the situation rather then run from the situation.

I can understand ur problem.But u have to go ahead alone nobody wil be there in the way of success so dont panic & have patience & tell urself that i can handle every condition whether its is favourable or unfavourable.....Think about ur parents.They have to much expectation from urself.So dont let them down..

My email id is 1986rg @ gmail.com u can contact me there.How much i can do for u i will do.

Take care Dear


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