Can he do CA final?

CA coure==no girl,till u bcome CA 

So, no solution of your problem

Choose one thing CA course or Girl.

Similar problem of all person who doing Ca ,,depends on person to person how he deal with this situation,,

people say dat one can succeed irrespective of age but lets be practical your brother is 28 n lets in ca there is no guarantee of passing in one attempt so the age factor is against him. you should also consider the fact that your brother is heartbroken and it will be next to impossible for him to give his 100% in studies. i know dis is quitting but your brother should search for employment . He can apply to the institute for the ATC certificate so that he has a qualification from ICAI. He can at the same time enroll in MBA(FInance) distance education in some good institute which can be done easily with job. Even partially qualified ca students have excelled and the time your brother will spend in preparing for ca final can be replaced by 2 years of experience in some company alongwith a post graduation degree.

I apologise if i have hurt your feelings and this was my suggestion . Best of Luck for your brother.

DONT WORRY U PEPOLE  KEEP CONFIDENCE ON HIM.TIME CAN SOLVE ANY PROBLEM SO DONT DISAPOINT PLEASE TELL HIM TO CONTINUE HIS CA.GOD BLESS HIM.

Ask your brother to gather himself together. Stay focussed on studies. Think of next exam and nothing else. He will certainly get through. Best of luck.

please encourage him..he can do ca final.

Originally posted by : chandra
	Ask your brother to gather himself together. Stay focussed on studies. Think of next exam and nothing else. He will certainly get through. Best of luck.

Thanks everyone for your replies and suggestions. We kept doing this since he first interacted with the girl. We warned him to stay in limits and focus on studies and gave him aheads-up. His time bad all this happened. Its is always his dream to finish CA.

Can some one give some understanding on what is the typical and average age of a person when he completes CA? Does taking any motivation coruses help him to recover quickly? If yes, please suggest some.

If my brother needs to go for job, what kind of career path would be suggested and good for his career (including MBA kind of courses in parellel). I mean any specific type or kind of companies while applying for jobs?

Thanks again,

Balaji

Dear Balaji,

The life is always is up and down. There is always pros and cons.

It depends on the mentality of person how he accepts the wrong things happens against him in past. The most important thing is that we first change our mentallity. Always try to accept the situation and go ahead without any hasistation.

So tell all the things to your brother which I written below:

See the girl's life is full ok. Why you worry about her. Be positive and always ahead for your good target.

So it is better to tell your brother that life never ends with the wrong happenings.

Try to make his approach in positive by reading Gita, Ramayan etc. so that he should understand the life.

Never come across with the age factor. If you do hardwork then it will be fruitful over your life.

If you think that you will be in lower position from others, think about the person who is below you and still they are enjoying.

There are so many person who passed CA examination after 30 also.

So give the examination with confidence. Even if you not passed, then also it enhance your knowledge and helps you to provide the job. And I am sure if you give your 100% whithin 3-4 attempts you can be easily passed.

The reason for writting above things that I also passed CA in 3 attempts and at the age of 28.  

Girls may come Girls may go.... freinds would be added to life..so make frends..

Ishq wo aag hai GAALIB, jo lagaye na lagaye aur bhujaye na bane.

its very normal situation for a person whose heart is broken like this. it become very difficult for a person to concentrate on the study but we should also think about our family. kisi ek ke liye hum apni family ke armano ko nahi tod sakte.

ye sahi hai k aisi situation se ubaharna bahot difficult hai per is ke siwa dusra koi raasta bhi nahi hai. waise bhi kisi ek k jaane se duniya nahi rukti. ye zaruri nahi k wo ladki bhi tumhari tarah sochti ho? possible hai k wo apne career per concentrate karrahi ho? be practicle and dont stop, wake up and study well. after becoming CA ur family will have proud on u.

Dear Balaji..

I know that nothing works in this situation but still i wanna say that he will definitely complete his CA..

Today everyone is refusing him.. but there will be one day when he will refuse everyone...

A ray of life can make his life beautiful.. god knows when the day will come..

True Love gives lots of pain.. thats the real world.. very a few gets beautiful life..

Please check ur PM..

YE ZARURI TO NAHI KE JINE KE LIYE  SAHARA HO?

YE ZARURI TO NAHI KE HUM JINKE HAI WO HAMARA HO?

KUCH KASHTIYAN DOOB BHI JAAYA KARTI HAIN,

YE ZARURI TO NAHI KE HAR KASHTI KA KINARA HO?

Hi balaji,

Read the mail..really pity your brother's condition..It is a fact that CA needs lots of commitment. It is a fact that your brother has entered into a relationship with commitment, and has faced betrayal.

Well, at some stages of our life, we need to be pragmatic than being emotional.

It is your family's duty to get him back to normal life..It is very much possible.. My suggestion are :

One of my friends had a similar kind of experience and now he is a CA.

1. Take him to a Psychiatrist (please dont mistake me). If we are not physically ok, we are ready to go to a physician. So, if mentally not ok, we should be ready to go to a psychiatrist.

2. Give him some 3 to 4 months to come back to normal mindset.

3. Though he is 28, he has only Final Stage to complete. Dont bother about his age. The course should not be left with an Inter Qualification alone. Then all his efforts till date will be in vain.

4. After he comes to normal. make him attend coaching class where your family resides,  because it is good that you are always with him.

5. Motivate him constantly. You should ensure that always he enjoys everyday life. And importantly please avoid some negative people(who may ask about his course), sharing negative events with him also.

6. Make him do what he loves to do like music, cinema for his mind to relax.

7. Ensure he is normal, then speak to him in a friendly manner about the importance of the course, and automatically he will realise.

8. At last, TIME is the only medicine along with your family's SUPPORT.

I will pray for his recovery for sure!!!!

All the BEST!!!

Cheers!!!!!

Hope to hear that he has qualified in the near future!!!

Dear Balaji ,

     All i can say , is that right now your brother is passing through a critical phase of his life...But he should continue his studies despite all tis..Time wil heal evrything..Dont make him relise the situation again n again , jst inspire him to carry on wit his studies and he wl vry soon forgt evrytin...I hav ful faith dat ur bro wl clear final as he hv such a supportive brothr standing wit him at tis critical phase of his lif..So dnt waste time and say ur bro to start it from tody... All he needs is a start and rest will follow.......All Da Best.