Winners v/s Losers

Nabeel (CA) (3288 Points)

10 January 2011  

Everyone in this world wants to be a winner but some wins.......

Life is a race and in this race we all want to succeed to become a winner, but some of us wins. It is very difficult to understand why we lose??

We all start from same point but only handful wins. There are some habits or points which distinguishes winner from a loser.

·         Losers see problem in every opportunity. Winners see opportunity in every problem.

·         A loser’s move is based on instinct or impulse. Winners act upon much deliberated decisions.

·         Losers never admit their mistakes. Winners admit their mistakes and learn from their mistakes.

·         Losers reject suggestions because the acceptance makes them feel inferior. Winners welcome suggestions because they are open to learning.

·         Losers call it quits at the first sign of failures. Winners treat failures as a stepping stone to success. Winners know Failures are the pillars of success.

·         Losers don’t have power of persistence. Winners always go after their dreams.

·         Losers envy winners. Winners congratulate every successful person.

·         Losers want an easy life without any suffering or hard work. Winners know that what one sows is what one reaps. They know that efforts and action don’t go unnoticed. They progress forwards without giving up.

·         Losers only want to have pleasure. Winners manage proper balance between work and leisure.

·         Losers dream but don’t act. Winners are always willing to do everything which is necessary to achieve their dreams.  

·         Losers don’t move forward because they are afraid to come out of their comfort zone. Winners move forward by refusing to tolerate all negative things which hold them back. They create space in their lives for positive experiences.

·         Losers think of all that is impossible. Winners think of infinite possibilities.

·         Losers submit passively to surroundings and events. Winners make choices based on what they want to do, and have become.