Why they will always ask the same question...fed up..:(

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Why our Relatives and so called friends show that they do very much care for us.........at the time of result only ?


by asking such question , that when ur result is going to come ? What u think did u make it this time  or this time also the result will be same as before ? Then they used to say us  the same thing that u r wasting ur time, dont u see that that boy is doing good in other field. Or in CA also that boy passed in  first attempt only all the exams with this % and at present he is getting this much package. I can write in blank paper also that u cannot pass this exam also n u r not made to do CA.

why are you wasting ur precious money in this course? why dont you give full attention in your father business rather going to CA firm where u r not getting anything...


Friends used to say, look everyone jump in CA but no one pass yaar......just think if every student become CA then what will happen to this society or other field...


Such Relative who himself dont have the H.S. degree also, talking about CA. degree, like they are only the one who created such degree and they only know that this particular person is only become CA.

God knows why all of them start comparision with other that this is doing this n getting this....n so on...

Why they dont shut thier mouth before saying anything,....?


And such drastic so called friends who never ever did anything in life themself only, are just trying to be oversmart by just telllling that this student is not so good, or he/she cant become CA, just because the student didn't get cleared in that attempt....


Really it tampers a lot to many students, I have seen many of them, who just got depression by this things only(infact me too before, but after getting new world of CCI), I am okay, but what about them who are still fighting with thier so called frnds n relatives...


When our school life is not over, at that time all used to ask us that do this, do that, but no one used to asked the student that what he/she want to become ? and when they used to join any course by not thier own wish......then this type of situation used to started.......the comparision problem, or fastly completed course problem, or good salary type of problem


And main problem comes when the same course is being completed by his/her own cousin/friends and by this all such people get chance of telling more and more.......


This peoples never ever did anything in thier life and now if anyone wants to do then they just stop them by telling or asking again n again the same question that, when ur course is going to completed ? or when u getting good job, how many time u will give n blah blah questions.......Infact after 2 months only they used to asked such type of question.....


Is getting passed in 1st attempt only is always the solution or getting such degree is only the solution ?

what is the exact solution when such people used to start blundler of nuisance type of question, and by this student can't take breath also ?Please do input ur view.

 

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Dont bother others nuisance.

Once you become a CA then all will shut their mouths. Instead they will say " this is my relative a CA........................."

Concentrate on your studies. 

Passing CA in first attempt is not a criteria, if they dont understand it, leave it. why do you think of such nonsense?

 

Originally posted by : Vishnupriya

Dont bother others nuisance.

Once you become a CA then all will shut their mouths. Instead they will say " this is my relative a CA........................."

Concentrate on your studies. 

Passing CA in first attempt is not a criteria, if they dont understand it, leave it. why do you think of such nonsense?

 

dont be fed up dude.....

its nothing just remember empty vessel makes the most noise

just concentrate on ur studies... and try to do well n clear the exams

n then u know that -"ek din gaaliyo ka shor bhi taaliyo ki gadgadahat main badal jaega"

because world only cares about successful......

they dont even care how u reached that level but if u r successfull u r good n if u aren't u r worthless

but does this is what measures ur capabilities ........???

no na.........

the person who dont even know dr. & cr. tell u abt whats C.A.

just focus on ur studies n stop paying attention to these... everytime some 1 says these type of things pass a smile on to them ........

remember

"parindo ko milegi manzil ek din

ye faile hue un k par bolte hian 

wahi log khamosh rahte hian aksar 

zamane main jin k hunar bolte hain........"

WHEN RELATIVES SAY LIKE THIS JUST SAY "MAIN TOH AISA HU, KRLE K KRNA H"

its true we get depress for sometime ....Bt we cant be sad for forever .....

 

And if some 1 says so .....their is just 1 answer ...



I do what my heart says and I m happy with it .   or if some 1 says so........................

I can write in blank paper also

then bolo ./.....,.,,ap bhi aa jao na phir sath me;)

I will also get good company

Originally posted by : *RENU*

its true we get depress for sometime ....Bt we cant be sad for forever .....

 

And if some 1 says so .....their is just 1 answer ...



I do what my heart says and I m happy with it .   or if some 1 says so........................

I can write in blank paper also

then bolo ./.....,.,,ap bhi aa jao na phir sath me . 

I will also get good company

Totally Agree........

infact 80% of us r facing prbm like this. almost every person around us go on asking questions like this. just remember one thing " today or tommarow everybody ll get their turn" . onlything we ve to do is wait for that today or tommarow. success needs alot of patience. all d best to everyone

Areeeeeee.. what the questions you are faced is a common question for most of the cases. The only thing can give free of cost is advise to others. Adopt one strategy called heear it and leave it

what a nice lines priya well done

Originally posted by : mounika

infact 80% of us r facing prbm like this. almost every person around us go on asking questions like this. just remember one thing " today or tommarow everybody ll get their turn" . onlything we ve to do is wait for that today or tommarow. success needs alot of patience. all d best to everyone

Comparison is a bad thing in CA course. All students do not have the same opportunities, or get the same assistance from relatives, or have the same circumstances to pass the exams in first attempt.

Dear friend, the wikipedia article on ICFAI, describes CA as "legendary exam". Thats a lot of things in those 2 words.

 

Just realise that 

1. Nobody is qualified to advice you, not even your principal or your just senior passout - the course always changes.

2. Nobody is qualified to judge you, but yourself. Ask yourself the one question - Am i what u have become, or am i yet to become my fullest? Can I look myself in the mirror and say "its not your fault"?

3. The short cut in CA is only hard work, and the shortest cut is hardest work.

 

If you have a clean conscience, you have the world's softest pillow. If you have put in good efforts, Sleep well.

 

Not only relatives, every person around us irritates by asking such questions.Everybody will be shut as u clear ur course.

So just consentrate on ur course.

Friends, I am pursuing CA Final from April,2002 approx. 9 years. I could not clear it. However, I never left any trust on me and my work. I am also insisted to leave this course excluding my family.

I know its very irritating when people ask the same question again n again.... "tumahara CA complete hogaya??????" (n i wonder in how much time do they excpect me to complete it, its truly very scary)  ...as if it ws magic to become a CA....just wand ghumaya n CA ban gaye..... :) ,but cant do anything about these so called well wishers.....i was so fed up at one point of time that i told my parents...."sabko boldo maine CA chod diya.....n im doing nothing" atleast then they will let me breath.......life is truly strange....


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