What should i do????

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Hello All,

I am too much confused about what should i do....

because what now i am phasing is to much un barrebal....

please tell me what should i do.

My age is 27, i had cleared my ca final 1st group in May 2013 & second group appeared on Nov 13 but failed 

SO now i am going to give my second group in may 14 & this is my 5th attempt

Parents already told that this my last attemp 

I am going for job because my family condition is not good so i have to compulasorly i have to go 

my parents is already started for searching for girl because its too late in our samaj.

so i cant let it go & tell them not to search girl for me.

So now i am that situation that i will have to give my ca final exam, I have to go for job because some girl will only give yes answer if i am doing job.

 

so please tell me what should i do 

should i quit job but it is not possible to tell the parents to stop searching for girl.

or should i quit ca ..

too much confused, 

daily i am going to cry for this questions 

so please tell me what i have to do...

please.....

Replies (8)

No confiusion do marriage fist this is life, study the group 2 final this is profission, both are different but same u want to do. no alternative, u can't arrange any alternative, this both u want to do, this is the problem, i hope mariage is first, marraige will help for education and profession. best of luck.

 

Make sure U complete ur CA...Job karo, shaadi karo kuch bhi karo but dont leave CA now with just one group pending...i hope u'll clear this time but even if u dont then keep on trying with your best efforts....even if u hv to argue with your parents for this, but ab CA mat chodna otherwise u may regrett it later in life...Just passing these 4 papers or leaving these may change your life.

I agree with others about making sure you complete your ca. BUT!!!

 

Do this... take a break!! Dont touch a book for one week, go on a holiday for four or five days. Go ALONE! (hillstation, or  a beach). Go for long walks along the beach, or take loads of photos of interesting things you see. yes it sounds odd. but trust me! it will help you rediscover yourself. Because if you have completed 1st group, there is no doubt that you have the ability to complete the 2nd.

 

The problem is that you are too anxious. Rid yourself of that and then study with a clear head. And for really clearing out you confusions,

 

Read This:  https://lifepeddler.blogspot.in/2014/01/why-you-will-never-achieve-your-goals.html

 

and watch this: https://lifepeddler.blogspot.in/2014/01/why-you-will-fail-to-have-great-career_19.html

 

Understand and perform. 

please do not embarase, I am 30 years old, still my 2nd group is pending . I am also unmarried, but I am working . I advised you to concentrate on studies as well as your job. Until you complete your CA , You will not be able to find a good matching girl for you. If you Want CA girl or Engineer or any other educated girl will be your life partner. Then you must be a CA . your age is not much now as you have not crossed 30 which is minimum now a days.

 

Hello,

Do not quit CA. You have only 4 papers. Try to complete in this May'14. Completion is must. You postpond your marriage little bit and try to complete. 

Hi Bhavik Well I quite agree with Shaleen here. But ya I would not suggest a week's break, but definitely 2 days break. Just keep ur books aside n get rid of the anxiousness. N break should be a complete break. No thinking about anything like studies or marriage or job. Marriage is a must n job too, but CA is the first thing u need to pay attention to. All your parents to give u time till June 10. In the mean time, just leave aside everything except for studies. We CA students are soldiers, we can't quit after coming so close. So just relax, try meditating everyday for at least 5 min n focus on CA final. n I don't know whether u believe in God or not but yes there is some one who has the control, so leave ur worries to him n give it ur best shot. U must have seen the movie 'Bhaag Milkha Bhaag'. I would like to quote 1 dialogue from that movie- "ye tumhari zindagi ki aakhri race ho sakti hai" to which Farhan replied "Daudunga bhi waise hi" Just like what he said prepare urslf n give ur best shot. U will clear. My best wishes with u. Sorry for such s long reply but hope this could help u even a bit. All the best buddy. U wil do it for sure. I have my 5 th attempt this time n I have both groups left but yes I am trying n hope I clear this time.

Dear Bhavik,

I would prescribe the same medicine as Mr.Shaleen Sharma talked about. Do it once and u might find that break as life's best break.

There is no doubt about ur capablity even u might b fairly settled about ur capablity. So just chill take a break u will b back to ur mesmerising best.

Dear Anshul,

I am sailing in the same boat mate 5th attempt & 25 years of age & both grps to give.

I got one dialogue from 3 idiots to share

"ALL IZZ WELL"

dil ko ulloo banake rakho, apne aap ko kabil banao kamyabi zhak mar k tumhare piche bhagegi.

All the best guys may we all clear in may-2014.

Originally posted by : bhavik
Hello All,

I am too much confused about what should i do....

because what now i am phasing is to much un barrebal....

please tell me what should i do.

My age is 27, i had cleared my ca final 1st group in May 2013 & second group appeared on Nov 13 but failed 

SO now i am going to give my second group in may 14 & this is my 5th attempt

Parents already told that this my last attemp 

I am going for job because my family condition is not good so i have to compulasorly i have to go 

my parents is already started for searching for girl because its too late in our samaj.

so i cant let it go & tell them not to search girl for me.

So now i am that situation that i will have to give my ca final exam, I have to go for job because some girl will only give yes answer if i am doing job.

 

so please tell me what should i do 

should i quit job but it is not possible to tell the parents to stop searching for girl.

or should i quit ca ..

too much confused, 

daily i am going to cry for this questions 

so please tell me what i have to do...

please.....

 

Have you heard about Gabriel of Urantia (https://gabrielofurantia.info/)? He is a great spiritual teacher who talks about the importance of meeting your destiny. We find our peace in meeting our destiny in God and that is what's important.


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