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@*CS Siddharth Bumb. * (B.Com, CA Final, CS ) (5270 Points)

17 July 2011  
PARENTS “We might achieve many things in life and career in our lifetime. We might be a legend in our field. We might be very happy in life. But without loving our parents, whatever we achieve in life is simply meaningless. ’’ LOVING CHILDREN is a nature of all human beings or creatures that have been blessed with a gift in the form of a child by God. The person who does not having this feeling is like a body without soul. After marriage when the child enters into the life of husband and wife, they both feel them on seventh heaven at that moment. When the baby learns to speak, the first word comes out of the mouth is mummy and than papa. You can very well realize the feeling through which you were going at that time. So every proud parent can self assess why they love their children. The reason that parents love their children is not because parents want some reward for doing so, but because they want to love the children on a higher spiritual level in every way, because they hope to push their child on greater standard and goal of life and they also hope that their children will be someone who is needed by the people, the nation, the world and a greater being, as well as by the parents themselves. Parents do not love their children for the sake of the parents themselves but for the sake of something greater. That is parents’ love toward their children. It is also because the children are a reflection of the parents themselves. The children are the resultant substance and incarnation of their love. The children show themselves as evidence of the parents’ substantial union of love. But tell yourself very sincerely that have you loved your parents as much as they do. Irrespective of their (parents) affordability, they have catered to all our needs. Did we even bother to ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes? Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us? It is really very shameful to say no, because we don’t ever realize the value of our parents. We have forgotten that they are the creator of our lives. They are the one who make us learn about the do’s and don’ts in our lives. They are the one whose sacrifices in every single sphere help us to become a successful person in a life and only because of their worships and prayers we are facing the challenges of this hard-hearted world with ease. Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have to give our child the best things of the world. But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realised what they failed to see when they were young, it is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those dreams and their life is complete. Because no feeling is as good and as great as making our parents happy by showing our gesture and respect which they truly deserve from us. Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have answered back without patience. But now when my child asks me something, I am very polite in answering. Now I realise how they would have felt at those moments. Let us realise that old age is a second childhood and just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care need to be given to our parents and elders Rather than my parents saying thank you to me, I would want to say sorry for making them wait so long for fulfilling their small dreams. I do realise how much they have sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes. Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up everything and keep sacrificing for their grand children also. They have wishes, too. Moral principles teach people to love their parents because under their blessing the heavens and all the gods lie. We are not even able to repay their debt of nurturing our lives in making us good human beings. As we all are immortal and we have to reach God once. But that is in the future which is not seen by anyone in this life. At present, God has sent us their angels in the form of our parents and teach us every time that we should respect them and love them and given them every happiness we can. Because the blessings of our parents will open our doors to heaven. So we should love them and seek their blessings. We might achieve many things in life and career. We might be a legend in our field. We might be very happy in life. But I can never give respect to the persons unless they respect their parents. Without loving our parents, whatever we achieve in life is simply meaningless. Remember, only if we can love our parents, our children will love us. Whatever we do may come back to us at the end of our life. - Thank You. Siddharth Bumb.