Simple exercise to identify your hidden fears

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If you want to overcome and overpower fears that exist inside you, you have to first take a look at your feelings and hidden emotions. After realizing your feelings and emotions, you have to know how to manage them and finally correct or overcome them. Given below is a simple exercise that will help you to achieve that.  This exercise will help you identify the conscious and sometimes sub-conscious (very subtle) fears that lie inside you. 

Choose an area of your life that you feel is negative and needs some improvement. Now, ask yourself these three questions:
1. What do I really want, what is my aim and objective?
2. What obstacle/obstacles are stopping me from achieving my objectives?
3. What prevents me from dealing with or overcoming that obstacle?

For each fear that comes to you in response to the question no. 3, ask yourself the following questions:
A. What is the worst that can happen, if what I fear occurs?
B. What is the best possible result for me and for others, if I do it even though I feel afraid of doing it?
C. Keeping in front of you the answer to question B and comparing it with the answer to question A will inspire you to overcome the fears that lie inside you.

 

Source:-  Brahma Kumaris 

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Simple but practcal & effective..

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"1. What do I really want, what is my aim and objective?"
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The above question is very typical to answer correctly.
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More than 99% persons are living their LIFE without any GOAL.
( You can say more than 100% enlightenedbecause everyone is "associated" with similar types of  persons devil ). 
The basic concept : Everyone represents a group. cool
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Goal setting is the most difficult task.
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Majority of the people are unable to believe on their own STRENGTHS
(although everyone knows his WEEKNESSES).
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The following are the examples :
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1. Students choose a course which is known as good.....not what is the most suitable to them.
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2. Most of the students have more interests in LATEST DANCE STYLES than what there is LATEST in the COURSE MATERIALS.  ( If the course content has changed; it is treated as a burden ).
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3. A person engaged in the job wants to engage himself in practice/business. 
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Almost every person thinks others' job is good.
( The dilemma is : A job in which is he engaged has been chosen by himself ).
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(Rest of the points have been left "intentionally" to be shared by others). smiley

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Disclaimer  : All readers may not agree with my views.


 

The Brahmakumaris do not believe in Hinduism!

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Hence is it the reason it is  "loved" by United Nations?

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https://www.brahmakumaris.info/

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Unfortunately it believes that this universe exists only for 5000 years and theafter it compulsorily destructs.

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What is the "logic" behind it; is not explained in this philosophy.

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There are some  temples in India which are known to exist since lacs of years.

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If the universe destructs....then how Hinduism could  "remember/retain" its philosophy and heritage for so long period?

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If the universe destructs; then how scientists claim that some materials are exsiting on this earth since crores of years?

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Mr. Lekhraj is the only hero of this brahmakumaris with no other known Brahm (although many "male members" are engaged in this institution but the Institution is popularly known as  "brahmakumaries" only.

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Disclaimer :

There is no intention to hurt the views of someone. One can follow his beliefs but no one has right to say something wrong about the belilefs of other religions (e.g. Hindus).

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Nice 1..

FEAR is created when the matter of PERFORMANCE comes into picture.

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Example :

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Situation 1 :

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Send a group of students on a tour to enjoy. They will enjoy.

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Situation 2.

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Send a group of students on a tour to enjoy with condition to CORRECTLY REPORT everything which they have visited.

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Many would not report as demanded and some will remain engaged only in reporting.


 

Originally posted by : Mansi Kotecha
Nice 1..

 


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