Self-motivation an old word but it makes us feel new every

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Self-Motivation – an old word but it makes us feel new every second.

Hello Everyone, Iam Narendra , I am little bit nervous as this is my first article. I am a Qualified CA and settled in UAE after one year of experience in Audit in Big 4. Now guys u might be thinking, introduction about me ? is that a motivation ?  :-)  well who knows may be few of you can get motivated by it :-) it’s a brief introduction

The meaning of the word motivation given in google is “a reason or reasons for acting or behaving in a particular way”. I personally feel that motivation is having a broader meaning than just the definition said above. Motivation is required for every person in every walk of life. There are 2 different types of motivation i.e, i) Self-motivation ii) Motivation by others Kith and Kin.

Inspiration is a subset of Self - Motivation. How? Let me tell you. Many of us knowingly or unknowingly will get inspired by others not only by famous personalities but also who we see and who are around us. For Example , in my childhood I started learning cycle on my own without anyone’s support and successfully learned but the fact is that I learned it by seeing others who are riding bicycles on road. I started seeing the way they are actually pedaling and how they are moving on 2 wheels without falling down and I felt that why can’t I do when so many people are driving bicycles? This is a simple self-motivation example and I know that everyone will be experiencing the same. Hence I got inspired by a fellow common man and got self-motivated when I thought I couldn’t learn anymore. So guys there is no hard and fast rule that we have to get inspired or self-motivated seeing or following only those luminaries or only from leaders etc . As u all know, Prithiviraj chauhan got self-motivated by just staring at a small ant. Had he thought that why should he see an ant as it is a small creature, then he would not have won the battle even after attacking for 100 times. It solely depends on your thinking perspective.

Now I don’t want to highlight who was inspired by whom? Or about the great personalities, but I would like to tell you what are the ways that u can get self-motivated. Note: This list is not exhaustive 

  1. Can get motivated seeing a traffic police when u feel like u are the only one who is standing in the dusty roads for half an hour waiting for a bus as they stand in the dust, rains, under sun for hours together as its their job;
  2. We can get motivated by seeing movies (depends on person to person - I like movies like Rocky)  or hearing to some inspirational songs;
  3. Can get motivated seeing police department when u feel that u are the only one working hard on a Sunday or one holiday;
  4. Think about the orphans and physically challenged people who are trying to live everyday inspite of their defectiveness, weaknesses. The problems which they face are nothing when compared to the problems which we are facing. I personally feel that each one of us should gather inspiration and motivation from them in every step of life as I have seen people being depressed,dejected and devastated by just assuming and thinking that they are the only one’s on the earth who are suffering.

This very thought itself will make a huge difference and will make one feel that he is blessed by god and it may even make him to think to serve the need.

I get a doubt every time , guys correct me if I am wrong, a child starts walking by getting inspired seeing everyone around him walking. This motivates the child to stand on his/her tender feet, put pressure on his sensitive toes , his motivation to walk will make him fearless and finally will succeed in walking and running. My doubt is if we all are so strong in getting self-motivated at that tender age, then why not we now?

Remember guys Self-motivation is the only solution , a weapon for us to live.IT IS THE ONLY driving force  which makes us feel that we are worth what we are and makes our life beautiful. When you feel very depressed, and if you feel u are the only person who can’t do it then you are mistaken – Swami Vivekananda said “Nothing in this world is impossible, never give up, Arise and Awake and stop not till your goal is achieved. I overheard this phrase somewhere which I wanted to share with you all - “ Fear is worthless . A boy sleeping near his parents and brother wakes up suddenly and to his horror can’t find his brother and parents i,e, OUT OF DARKNESS” . The boy could not see because he is in darkness called FEAR, he was not in a stage to think that the room is dark. Come out of darkness of fear , get self-motivated. There are many things which we see in our daily life from which we can get self-motivated. No one can stop you,no one can motivate you its you who can get motivated from inside. Grab the chance of getting self-motivated even from people younger to you.

 

Soar high the Sky is your limit!!

 

This is my first article, would be writing more inspiring articles with your support guys.

Replies (8)
Although its your first article it is so motivating thanks for sharing...

Thank you :-) 

Very inspirational note..my motivational levels were diluted, when i saw my ca final result..your note gave back my confidence in rock hard solid state...jus lik a drop of curd solidifying a big tank of milk..

Good job.... I am expecting more articles from you in future...
I would like to add one sentence to Self Motivation.. "Always try to beat your previous performance, you will be motiveted automatically". I mean to say try to live better than yesterday.

Trulely inspirational. the matter is how you see things from your own perspective. If you are positive you will get positive out of everything, if you are negetive then the world is a -ve as a whole.

I would like to respond to your childhood inspiration. At that age we have all our beloved who really wants us to stand and at that time that is the only thing we need to do, stand but not deliver and you can rather say standing is the delivery. But when we grows then we not only need to stand but to deliver, there comes the fear and all other external aspect which we respond to with negetive sense, we start to calculate things.

 

On the other side (I am surely writing as jokes apart as after a long time something motivates me to write on a laughter note) Traffic police stands in the road because they have no other way and they are getting paid off to stand in the road (though they have great deal of physical resistance), and we wait for bus/vehicles so that we can get the chance to earn, if you are late in office people starts motivate themselves to think negetive for the late comers. Because trafic police don't do (normally in India) their job except standing in the road and don't maintain the trafic properly...

Let them do their job, we don;t need to be motivated...............

Originally posted by : Chandra
Good job.... I am expecting more articles from you in future...
I would like to add one sentence to Self Motivation.. "Always try to beat your previous performance, you will be motiveted automatically". I mean to say try to live better than yesterday.

Thank you Chandra rao , iam happy to see your reply and i totally agree with the the sentence you quoted. But the sentence will be applied only when you have some kind of motivation embedded in you and wanted to improve!! but for those who's confidence is taken away by some happenings in life or who treat themselves that they are not confident enough,have to initiate the ways to get self motivated then they can think of getting over their previous performance.:-) 

Originally posted by : Sk. Madassar Hossain Warsi
Trulely inspirational. the matter is how you see things from your own perspective. If you are positive you will get positive out of everything, if you are negetive then the world is a -ve as a whole.

I would like to respond to your childhood inspiration. At that age we have all our beloved who really wants us to stand and at that time that is the only thing we need to do, stand but not deliver and you can rather say standing is the delivery. But when we grows then we not only need to stand but to deliver, there comes the fear and all other external aspect which we respond to with negetive sense, we start to calculate things.

 

On the other side (I am surely writing as jokes apart as after a long time something motivates me to write on a laughter note) Traffic police stands in the road because they have no other way and they are getting paid off to stand in the road (though they have great deal of physical resistance), and we wait for bus/vehicles so that we can get the chance to earn, if you are late in office people starts motivate themselves to think negetive for the late comers. Because trafic police don't do (normally in India) their job except standing in the road and don't maintain the trafic properly...

Let them do their job, we don;t need to be motivated...............

Dear warsi, I am very much happy on seeing your invaluable comment .. I agree with what you said about your opinion about childhood :-) it was interesting

But about the traffic police, i think you are mistaken as i did before. I used to think the same way u used to think. But once when i was waiting for bus, i happened to see a traffic police standing in hot sun and doing a perfect job, I closed my eyes and thought for a second how the traffic would be without traffic police, it is horrifying to think about the situations which would be crop up , accidents etc as you know everyone feels that they have urgent works than others .Not only that i have seen many of the traffic police who does their work with heart and soul ,hence we cannot deny the fact that they are not doing their job.If they dint do their job properly then the all the newspapers would have been filled with the news of accidents . You can rather say its because the infrastructure ,conjusted roads, not following sign boards and rules that causes inconvenience to traffic,and not because of traffic police. I personally feel that it is we as a citizen of our nation to take initiative and ensure atleast we are maintaining discpline at traffic :) hope you got it :) 

Originally posted by : Narendra

Hi Narendra,

Agreed. But my assessment is the reluctant attitude of neglecting others. We feel proud of being Indian but feel very sorry to act as human being. You might have got the trafic note was on the lighter side, there is always dark under the light, but when light goes under the darkness then comes the problem. 

 

Being Motivated on your own can be exemplify with my experience of being off from home.

In last quarter of 2012 I had to relocate where for the first time in my life I have to work away from home. I did not feel bothered as my room mates are so hearty. We hired a cook for cooking and for all other domestic work.

Suddenly we find that we are not satisfied with the service. One of our mate started cooking, we enjoyed it. Problem comes when he was off to his extensive tour.

I was so depressed that how to cook and who will do that? Mom, sisters were at home 400 km away.

I started cooking out of know where. But the first cup of tea was a WHACK!!! Did not give and again makes another cup of tea. I knew what was wrong at the first one. The second one was little better, atleast I could drank it.

Now I am a handful of experience in cooking and in off days I use to prepare foods for my mom and sis.

Impossible is nothing, but things are tough to get rid off!




Originally posted by : Sk. Madassar Hossain Warsi



Trulely inspirational. the matter is how you see things from your own perspective. If you are positive you will get positive out of everything, if you are negetive then the world is a -ve as a whole.

I would like to respond to your childhood inspiration. At that age we have all our beloved who really wants us to stand and at that time that is the only thing we need to do, stand but not deliver and you can rather say standing is the delivery. But when we grows then we not only need to stand but to deliver, there comes the fear and all other external aspect which we respond to with negetive sense, we start to calculate things.

 

On the other side (I am surely writing as jokes apart as after a long time something motivates me to write on a laughter note) Traffic police stands in the road because they have no other way and they are getting paid off to stand in the road (though they have great deal of physical resistance), and we wait for bus/vehicles so that we can get the chance to earn, if you are late in office people starts motivate themselves to think negetive for the late comers. Because trafic police don't do (normally in India) their job except standing in the road and don't maintain the trafic properly...

Let them do their job, we don;t need to be motivated...............





Dear warsi, I am very much happy on seeing your invaluable comment .. I agree with what you said about your opinion about childhood :-) it was interesting

But about the traffic police, i think you are mistaken as i did before. I used to think the same way u used to think. But once when i was waiting for bus, i happened to see a traffic police standing in hot sun and doing a perfect job, I closed my eyes and thought for a second how the traffic would be without traffic police, it is horrifying to think about the situations which would be crop up , accidents etc as you know everyone feels that they have urgent works than others .Not only that i have seen many of the traffic police who does their work with heart and soul ,hence we cannot deny the fact that they are not doing their job.If they dint do their job properly then the all the newspapers would have been filled with the news of accidents . You can rather say its because the infrastructure ,conjusted roads, not following sign boards and rules that causes inconvenience to traffic,and not because of traffic police. I personally feel that it is we as a citizen of our nation to take initiative and ensure atleast we are maintaining discpline at traffic :) hope you got it :) 

 


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