How to handle insult and maintain compassion.......

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 How to handle insult and maintain compassion 

 

 

 

 The Buddha explained how to handle insult and maintain compassion. 

One day Buddha was walking through a village. A very angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. “You have no right teaching others”, he shouted. “You are as stupid as everyone else. You are nothing but a fake”.


Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young man “Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does not take it, to whom does the gift belong?” 
The man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and answered, “It would belong to me, because I bought the gift.” 


The Buddha smiled and said, “That is correct. And it is exactly the same with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself.” 


“If you want to stop hurting yourself, you must get rid of your anger and become loving instead. When you hate others, you yourself become unhappy. But when you love others, everyone is happy.”


The young man listened closely to these wise words of the Buddha. “You are right, o Enlightened One,” he said. “Please teach me the path of love. I wish to become your follower.” 
The Buddha answered kindly, “Of course. I teach anyone who truly wants to learn. Come with me.”

 

Replies (4)
"Free yourself from hatred" Nice sharing Gautamji, Thankyou..

yesvery nice sharingyes

Nice Sharing.........

 

Many people choose to hate other people because they hate

 

themselves. When you are able to honestly love yourself for who

 

you are, you will find a peace and understanding that not too many

 

people have found or will find. Just because you are going through

 

turmoil in your life, doesn't mean that you should be the cause of

 

turmoil in someone else's life.........

Nice One Sirji

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