How to bounce back

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so far my life has been a failure.my current status is i have registered for cs executive exam .this is my 3rd attempt.In the last 2 attempts i failed because of my mistake.this time i hardly got any time to prepare as i have met with accident recently and still recovering.however i will just attempt the exam. I am really upset of how my life turned out after 10+2 .i got distinction that time.but then i began to slide.everything turned against me.i however passed b,com with 75%. My life has been a complete mess after that.i faced many problems though in my preparations for exams. In the form of health issues etc.i didnt go for any job after graduation. Now this is my 3rd attempt of exam cs executive.i know this time too my chances are less. But i have desire to complete the course at any cost.but i cannot stay in house without job.i am planning to join some job preferably under a company secretary.but my question is will they accept me before passing inter.i am not joining job to earn but i need to get out of this mess.i need to gain experience.i am very sure of clearing in my next attempt .i am very old already 23 years ..jobless...i am tensed...please give me suggestions :)
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your situation is same as mine...m in ca final Listen if possible don't join any job these days... I giving you some steps, try out...it's from personal exp.. 1. First u become deaf,,dnt listen to any one at home or of anyone,,,just listen to yr heart. 2. Forget the world until u chase yr goal. U r d only prsn who is living in ths world. Bhaad me gai duniya,, 3. U hv only one thing to do..and thts study, concentrate only on that part, 4. (if any)Postpone yr relationships like close frnds or lover,,they r d main obstacles.. Be dead for thm fr sometime,,if they r true they wl understand yr step, 5. Dnt join any job,,yr job is to study,, do it at any cost,, 6. Thr may b pressurea frm family,,thr lacs of expectations,,among tht main expectation is passin cs,,fulfill it,,u r d only prson to mke yr parents dream accomplished,, Listen them with yr heart n nt from yr ears,, 7. If possible go library,,its the best place..if its uncomforatable then at home,,make yr room a library room..just u in that room,,dnt allow any one get into it.. 8. This is the main step,, * believe in yrself * hard hard work (the only way of success) 9. Be happy,,dont bother of anything in ths world,,it's preplanned,,do yr job,, 10. Start right now,,n dont stop untill u get through,,, If u tell me that what's the conclusion of these steps,. I will say only one thing,,, " Forget everything and do hard hard work,, " Thts it,, All the best,, Wish u fullfill all yr drms,,, Hoping to hear good news frm u,. Cheera..

Very well said by Jigar, first clear your CS then everything else will fall in place. Best of luck

dr highly ambitious and choksey,

great to hear your methods. true success is product of hard work and if your hardwork is focussed with some divergence things are adiierent. anyway 'failure is sometimes greater to succeed'. see as CS you have to toe the line with Boards which are greatly greedy and if your ambitious objective to be reached you will end up joining greedy, like greedy economics of govt put every oe on backfoot.

any way you can pass CS it is not something great but as company secretary you approach corporate laws if is straight forward you may succeessfully join job after jobs no doubt there cannot be firm seats but if you as ambitious join greedy and you also become some degree greedy you can have good career so be lie Rajesh Gupta ganged up with Rajaratnam in USA to get tis from gupta, gupta's fate hanging for 25  or 30 yrs sentence and if some good luck attends on you may be you are on top.

so decide what ambition you have and need to have, then u decide your fate friends. things are dicey today , be better advised to be on the path of 'prevention is better than cure'. best of luck  

“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.” Alexander Graham Bell

Hey highlyambitious....Jigar's absolutely rite....don't listen to anyone....ek kaan se suno aur dusre se nikal do....bhaad mein gayi duniya....jus calm down....focus on studies.....keep close relationships aside, if they are true they wil understand......very well said Jigaryesrite nw do not think abt a job if dere is no financial problem.....take good care of urself and don't let the past mess up wid ur present....All the very best...I believe aaj aapka 1st exam tha....hope it was good.....stay away from Internet nw....God bless you....

Hi Friend

BELIEVE you will succeed and YOU WILL

"Awake !! Arise and Stop not till the goal is reached" - Vivekananda

Dont blame destiny for what you are today because YOU are the creator of your own destiny - Vivekananda

1. first of all..............dont get disheartend that u were not able to clear in prevoius attempt...........and this tym too this shall happen..........dont ever think bad for ur own self.............you still have tym in hand...go for scanner specially the ch wth max weightage..................jaha chah hai,waha raah bh hai..............if kkr can win after losing for four tyms.......than why not you...remember every day is anew beginning and ..............bring it within you that this tym no matter what i would definately clear..............i guess one exam must be over by now..................dont think abt it,be it good or average................get started for next wth full force..............nothing is impossible

2.i would suggest you to go for a job,without waiting for results...............its notmoney or anything else..............its aptly said that empty mind is a devil's workshop...................a busy person is able to find time for everything..................if you go out....you will experience a change in your attitude................let us assume that after two months you clear than you have to any ways go for articleship............so utilise this tym fruitfully

3.you can get a job in a cafirm or under cs..........the easiest way through links and references..........the pay will not be ecxiting.....but the work would be.............

 

all the best for your exams............dont assume on your own that this tym too u shall not pass.................wo kehte hai na aaj kuch toofani karte hain.............give a tight slap on the face of eevryone who has ben telling alot on ur back...........that you are the best and still thr is lot to come for you

its your life make it large..............tc

agreed with swami Vivekananda ji and VGSK

THANKS FOR ALL YOUR MOTIVATION TIPS.I WENT TO EXAM WITH POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND THIS LITTLE POSITIVE ATTITUDE HAS HELPED ME.I WROTE REASONABLY WELL COMPARED TO LAST ATTEMPT.BUT CANT SAY I WILL PASS.. I WILL WRITE REMAINING EXAMS WITH POSITIVE ATTITUDE. AS I SAID EARLIER I HAVE DECIDED TO JOIN JOB IN CS FIRM .I AM STAYING IN BANGALORE .CAN ANYONE HERE TELL ME HOW TO FIND PART TIME JOB.

dekho yaar 

it seems u hav lost hope

u r thinking that mera kuch nai ho sakta

agar CS banne ka sapna dekha hai toh voh pura zaroor hoga

REMEMBER- ROAD TO SUCCESS IS ALWAYS UNDER CONSTRUCTION

CHEERS 

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AS PER MY PLAN I GOT A PART TIME JOB IN A CA FIRM.I WILL BE WORKING THERE TILL I CLEAR MY CS EXAM POSSIBLY IN DECEMBER ATTEMPT.TILL THEN I WILL WORK HARD AND ALSO GAIN SOME EXPERIENCE IN THE JOB


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