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hi every one.i just passed out my inter with 83%.now i've to decide soon about a course. i 'm bipc student but now i want to change to b.com and do ca simultaneusly. i have no knowledge about ca. can any one tell me how much time should be given to this subject and its tough or too tough or some difficulties bla bla bla. actually i'm a girl so my mom is worried bout me. she dont want to send me in a male oriented field. but i donnt think like that so u tell openly about ca plzzz. and when should i start taking ca coaching.i mean with 1st yr or 2nd yr