Happiness ka basics

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Ya feels quite strange .... to write about ways to be happy.....actually watever we do ,is somewhere or the other connected to r happiness.Whatever i cud understand in my 21 years of existence and my experiments with life, is that happiness resides within a person....and nothing can stop a person from being happy.....happiness is a state of mind and our happiness is in r own hands .So here i present before u ....Happiness ka basics:D

 

1)Give ur 100% to watever u r doing

 

every person is different,distinct,every person has his/her own way of doing things ,every person has his/her own dreams....and every person has  his /her own calibre.I think when u give ur 100% to wat u r doing be it studies,work etc...u wont have ne regrets later .U will be at peace that watever u did u gave ur 100% to it .....the outcome may nt be in ur hand ....but u will be satisfied that u did ur best.....i think it is a big enough reason to be happy about.

 

 

2)Dont expect anything in return

 

ya its quite strange not to expect anything in return.....but if u have expectations...and u dont get wat u expected....it will only make u sad. Be good,do ur best,do good,spread joy ....and stay happy always

 

 

3)Its good to forgive


Keeping negative thoughts...wont ever do any good to u...it will only make u an evil person.Think good stay happy.

 

 

4)Dont hurt neone in neway

 

stay away from "hurt" causing and getting both........but i truly feel that if anyday u r in a situation...when u hav only two options...get hurt....or cause hurt.I prefer getting hurt rather than causing hurt to someone....No its not about my greatness....but im saying so bcos of  a very simple reason-" its better to get hurt rather than living with the guilt of hurting someone for the rest of ur life"

 

 

5)Be optimistic

 

Its very important to hope for best even when things r not working for u......be positive....nd face the situation.being optimistic....will bring in the much needed enthusiasm in u...

 

 

6)Understand,appreciate life...live every moment life has given u

 

just open ur eyes,look deep inside ur soul......explore urself....look around urself,theres so much to be happy about,so many things u dont even notice in ur daily routine.from the moment u wake up....there is a new beginning,a new day.....make each day memorable...


Actually these 6 points are the basics  ...and the happiness im talking about is inner happiness that resides in ur soul and lasts forever.:D

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Agree on all points but  bot on point 2 , not always. You might not expect anything from people but that won't change that they're still using you, taking your money, draining you emotionally, stretching you thin, making life hard, just fill in the blank. It's not just about how much you expect, but how well you handle problems. Just because you don't expect anything from someone doesn't mean they can't have a negative physical, monetary, or emotional effect on your life. 

ya quite agree with u manmohan......actually i hav got a big smile actually a grin ha ha ha (lol)reading ur thoughts....Dont expect does not mean .....let others use u.Its just that....If ur doing something for someone....dont do it because u expect something in return.....I truly can understand....people can use u...but they will do so when u let them do so.Actually i was talking about my action.....example---let say i have a best friend and i share my exam ka strategy with that person,i share my notesetc ....im doing so bcos im happy doing so,or i like doing so or bcos i want my friend to do well.....I dont have ne expectations from my best friend in return....Dont expect does not mean....u start believing everyone...and put a sign/hold a board-"use me, i dont have ne expectations"......arre yaar......if u lend someone money....nd if u have expectations that the person is going to return u that amount with interest....it will make u sad if he doesnt return it that way......ya to tum paise mat do....and if u r giving---dont expect nething.....ha ha ha--if he returns ur money u will b the luckiest person in this world.and also the happiest..isnt it?????

Originally posted by : Manmohan

Agree on all points but  bot on point 2 , not always. You might not expect anything from people but that won't change that they're still using you, taking your money, draining you emotionally, stretching you thin, making life hard, just fill in the blank. It's not just about how much you expect, but how well you handle problems. Just because you don't expect anything from someone doesn't mean they can't have a negative physical, monetary, or emotional effect on your life. 

gr8 thoughts but i also have 2 say something about pt no. 2.....

its good that u don' t expect anything from the world~~~ give ur best in every task~~~karam karo fal ki chinta na karo....etc ~~

but when u have a target set in mind and ur expectations r also high~~ according 2 me,., then only u can give ur 101%~~~~ 

giving 100% i8s tough but giving that 1 extra % for getting 101% is even more tougher and u can achieve that only if u r clear in ur mind what u expect from the world......

this whole universe will give u only that thing that u will expect from it !!!!!!!!

its all about LAW OF ATTRACTION !!!!

Law of attraction!!!!!!!!!! says that.....u first have to be wat, u want the world to be to u.....fill urself with good thoughts first,be selfless then only u can expect the world to be good to u...agar tum khud achche nahi ho toh....how can u expect the world to be good to u???????????..expecting something from someone ....having expectations from the world never makes a person" happy "......bcos world is not in my control........my action,my thoughts ,my views.....my deeds are only in my control.there is big diffrence in having expectations from the world.......and having belief in urself that u will achieve the target......why and how can u compare these two things????????........pata nahi ye kaha se kaha ja raha hai(ha ha ha...(lol).Im talking about happiness here yaar.....

if u know the target ......and u want to achieve it ,u will allways try to  give ur 101%.......its human behaviour......but dear the outcome /result is not in ur hand.......watever u cud do ,u have already done.....having expectation....not having expectation is not going to make ne difference now....like in case of CA results.u know the target.....100 marks.....u study for that 100 marks....every person puts in his/her efforts......u studywell for ur target and not for ur expectations.....i hope u understand the difference now.im not talking about ur belief,faith in urself(its ofcourse very important).........but im talking about having expectation from others,hoping for something in return....bcos thats not in ur control ....

ya u r correct on ur part bt i m simply saying that hv expectations hv a target so dat u r motivated enough to give ur best ............ and as per my efforts the outcomes r also on my hands........result is just a formality ...........!!!!!!!!!! 

I hope u r not mixing ur aim ,goal with ur expectations....neways leave it here.....so lets remove the second point(problem creator) ..actually u all scared me......not expecting anything means getting used....my god ...i was scared reading it(ha ha ha )....So dont read the second point...happy now my friends:D and ya thanks everyone for sharing ur views .


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