Failiure is not helping me move past it to study further

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Jiya Aggarwal

Intern

53 Points Joined July 2016

Hi,

Im a bit perturbed and quite anguished by the continuous failiures in CA.I just feel horrible everytime i get free.Past three days i was trying to forget all the failiures to study better and to perform much better than last time but i end up crying or sleeping.A sort of depression has crept in.I keep telling myself its all going to be alright and this is just a phase.But no matter how ive made my mind to believe that i see ive become tired of the same thing.

I love my profession alot.But the fact that so many failiures and my life just entwined in these few branches is pretty exhausting.I cant seem to forgive myself.If anyone could tell me something to help me soothe myself and move forward,pls tell me.I will certainly not leave the course no matter what happens,i just want to make my depression go away somehow.A couple of my friends used to take anxiety pills and stuffs and that is not something im looking forward to do.I just need myself groped into my books.Pls help me get back.Yesterday was a sunday and unfortunately i continued to sulk on my failiure and hate myself all the way.

Thanku.Im writing this in the hope that i shall unravell some fortunate suggestions from u on what to do.

Replies (4)

CMA-FINAL

Adv.

243 Points Joined September 2014

Life is very big...do not get disheartened easily..Your test is not the exams but the pose you can maintain through these difficult times.

Analyze-Plan-Execute..do these all very fast and you will succeed.

I was negative once, but I did a few things that helped me become positive and better at studies.

1.I realized that not one second is worth being unhappy, because we came alone in this world, we alone are responsible for our happiness. It is upon us to remain happy. If you smile no matter what, happiness will come automatically. Unhappiness and anguish clouds your mind further so stop that.If discipline is missing in your life, try to work on it.

2.I decided that whenever a negative though comes into my mind, I will instead use that second to think how can I do better in next exam. Sometimes people try to make you succeed which affects your positivity..but you have to avoid such people and also.

Its never over till its over.

How many groups do you have remaining?

Balmukund dahiya

CA finals

44 Points Joined June 2012

Don't worry dear, u r not the one who is facing this problem, don't think abt the result again n again, forget all, wat happened, in this particular moment we need some positive vibes, Frm correct source, like spirituality thn everything will be normal, and aise khud ko paresan krne se socho jitne din hm in sab baato me time waste krenge itne me kch bacche mhnat krke preps.... Me hmse aage nikl chuke honge n hm piche mns again result me iska asar dikhega, so don't waste ur time, is race me jitna h to rokna bilkul b ni, be confident n run, give urself a thought, oye problem tu itni badi ni hui jo mjhe rok sake, go ahead, I m going to be a chartered in this attempt......

upender kumar

job

93 Points Joined May 2012

hii jiya same problem here I also not able to focus on my studies these days .I failed in may 2016 exam
beginning is always difficult but I m sure once started your study u will feel good .
so start your study as soon as possible