Originally posted by : bhavik
	Hi friends, this storyis my .... we always smile but behin d my smile always there is lots of pain... becoz i didnt clear the exam.... I dont have pain to fail the exam but i have pain.... becoz of my result my parents will so much in pain... looking their faces i always asked one question why this happen to me.... & some body came & also told that my parents will did mistake that they allowed me select me ca atfter my graution.... but they didnt think what are the situation in which, i will selected ca after my graution... noe always i m in pain that i will not be a good son for my parents.... just want to ask ne question to god that my parents will not deserve the happyness in their life... why.... sorry i had taken your all valuable time to read this... please forgive me...

Dear................

Dont worry.........be positive...........everything wl b alright...........

Don't worry my friend... Everything will be fine once you clear the exam... Don't think that you are not a good son You have put in your best effort to clear one of the toughest exam and you have experienced failure which is part of life... So Don't listen what people are saying... They will start appreciating you once you clear the exam.. Best of luck for the exam... Wishing you all the success and happiness... and mind you the day you will pass this exam your parents will be the happiest person in the earth and they will forget this day......So start working to bring that day soon..

Regards,

CA Aninda Chatterjee

 

Originally posted by : CA Aninda Chatterjee
	Don't worry my friend... Everything will be fine once you clear the exam... Don't think that you are not a good son You have put in your best effort to clear one of the toughest exam and you have experienced failure which is part of life... So Don't listen what people are saying... They will start appreciating you once you clear the exam.. Best of luck for the exam... Wishing you all the success and happiness... and mind you the day you will pass this exam your parents will be the happiest person in the earth and they will forget this day......So start working to bring that day soon.. Regards, CA Aninda Chatterjee

 

Hey Bhavik, I have been through the similar situation and i know how you must be feeling. I am sure your parents are not upset because you failed but because you are so upset with your failure. No one in this world can love you like your parents do... No one in this world can feel your pain other than your parents. Your parents know very well how hard you have been studying to clear this exam (which also requires very strong Luck in your favour). They know how this failure must be hurting you. Its not your result but its your unhappiness that is making them so unhappy. Your parents love you unconditionally... They love you the same even after this failure and they will love you the same even after hundreds of failures. Try to overcome this depression and you will soon find your parents as happy as ever. Life is a struggle and you got to keep fighting. Cheer up man!

Very aptly said by ASHISH PATHAK. Well your story is almost same as of every other Student who has failed.Unfortunately CA exams format is such that only few pass and rest have to fail. But dear your courage and conviction is the only thing that will move you ahead. What i learned from my failures is that no matter what happens nobody can make you unhappy other than yourself. Its upto you how you react to situations. You have to find your courage to bear the anomalies of life. And m sure one day you will get your dream degree...All the best dear..

Come on Yaar. Life is full of challages . There are many students whose situation are wrost than you. Just chill boss. Now, give your best.

 

 

All the best buddy.

 

Hey Bhavik.... I am no preacher no saint... But just know one thing CA is not the end of life. I have cleared my CA in 5th attempt but it really doesnt matter. And I just think k Dhirubhai toh koi CA ya BA nahi tha ya even Bill Gates koi tees mar khan nahi tha.. but they proved that desire can make a hell of difference.. So just chill and for what you say... ya about your parents humaliation,etc , one thing is sure medicine for such things... just speak out with them... My friend I am tell all such stupid solutions because I have gone through all such bad times..

bhavik

Forget about Past, Jus think about your future.

I wish best of luck to  you for getting one more opportunity for accepting the challenge and  do well and be spontanteous and determination in your work.

you are the best and best....

wish you great sucess and happiness

TAke care !!

 

 

Take this pain as ur strength to succeeds this time..whenever u feel low..look at ur parents faces and just imagine them smiling..when u clear in the may xamz..just give ur best..and before u start stdyn imagine the smile they will hav when u clear ur xam..and go ahead and stdy for it..god is giving u the chance to prove urself..best of luck..

Originally posted by : piyush.a.k
	Hey Bhavik.... I am no preacher no saint... But just know one thing CA is not the end of life. I have cleared my CA in 5th attempt but it really doesnt matter. And I just think k Dhirubhai toh koi CA ya BA nahi tha ya even Bill Gates koi tees mar khan nahi tha.. but they proved that desire can make a hell of difference.. So just chill and for what you say... ya about your parents humaliation,etc , one thing is sure medicine for such things... just speak out with them... My friend I am tell all such stupid solutions because I have gone through all such bad times..

cent % Agreed Very Well Said.

Don't worry..... CA is a Degree not a Machine to make you or your family happy........ Money does not bring happiness but people do so just value the people in your life and work hard in your studies.... Enjoy life and have fun........ if you are upset you can save Sanjay Bag photo and view it...........

arey every one faces failure in lyf.. pass nd fail are two syds of a coin. i also faced the same 6 mnths back. i was also depressed. but neva thot dat m nt a gud daughter or anythng else lyk dat... if u meet such ppl who make u feel bad about ur failure,, stop getting in tuchh with them.. make frnz who will support u..

lyf withot failure is nthing.. we cant get to knw the taste f success till we face failures... nd so wat ??? if nt now,, den after 6 mnths,, :) thnk of the people who have shared their stories that after 18-19 attempts they cleared... how did they????? through positivity and self confidnce.. neva loose ur hope and have faith in god... and one thing i wud lyk to say.......

HAAR KAR JEETNE VAALEY KO HI BAAZIGAR KEHTE HAIN.... :P

so dnt worry everythng iz just ok... b relaxed.. nd chillll........

give ur brain a rest for some days,, nd wen u feel,, u are ready for it,, start studyng again :) and leave the association of such discouraging peole...

be happy... lyf iz gud... :)

 

"Haarna" aur "na jeet" pane mein fark hai mere dost Tum is Baar jeet nahi paye ...............

koi Baat nahi Magar Agli baaar jeet sakte ho

Agar har na mano to

Don't Give Up

Kyuki

" Girte hai Sheh Swar hi Maidan-e-jang mein

Wo Tifar kya lade jo Gutno k bal Chale "

"It is not the critic who counts;
not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. 
The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, 
whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood;
who strives valiantly;
who errs and comes short again and again;
who knows great enthusiasms,
the great devotions; 
who spends himself in a worthy cause; 
who at the best, knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, 
and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly
so that his place shall never be with those timid souls who know neither victory or defeat."