Absolute lack of confidence to study

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I started finals after PEII. Articlship started in Oct, 2007 and since then I hav appeared for Finals 3 times and flunked.

Though I was a brilliant student during my school and college years, I have never been confident about studying for finals.. for example...

1) ill b depressed during my exams and will b scared of even touching books... I am happy otherwise

2) I feel so uncertain about the future ..wat if my didnt pass .. wont get a degree, gud job ..cnnt evn marry a gud guy

I wana just curl up and die at times..I hv bn in this CA finals since Oct 2007.. I have gone through the hell during CA exams.. may b my anxiety and lack of confidence and inability to study is creating this hell.


But I really dont know how to get out of this spiral.. I am 27 now. Before starting CA final, I was working well.. now due to CA.. I used to leave jobs.. now dis time I even faced issues with companies selecting me.. After nov 2010.. I appeared for so many interviews but could not clear any of them.. just because I am doing CA finals and not able to clear that..


My career is in jeopardy.. I am nt getting Degree.... I cannot even get the level of jobs I used to get before starting CA finals.

My personal life is sad, depressing and worrying.. I have trouble decing on a guy to marry because of CA finals pendency.

Any suggestions on the wayout???

 

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"Higher the Goal
Greater Should be the Inspiration"

Inspiration shouldn't get depicted from the memories of the
past, anxiety of the present & future.

My Great Concern is not whether you have Failed.. But WHETHER YOU ARE CONTENT WITH YOUR FAILURE ABRAHAM LINCOLN

Thanks for reply .. I am not content with failure.. I feel awful, speachless and dumb.. I dnt evn talk to ppl abt dis.. i feel so embarrased.. i had dreamt of ranks and here I am .. even scared to touching books...


I will study for 2 hrs or 1-2 days and den my focus shifts..everything goes topsy turvy in my head and I feel so bad/guilty abt nt studying... hard to touch books agn fr 3-4 dys..
no wonder there r no results!!!

There are so high successful intellectuals here... Can you provide a practical solution of this issue? ASAP :(

All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him.

Buddha

 

 

 

People Who are most successful in life are the ones who have faced Worst of Worst Failures..

Never Never Never Give Up...

Ur the Architect of your Future..

Kill the Snake of Doubt in You..

Feel that worst is over..

Great Future is inviting u..

A person with courage is a Majority..

The water in your jug 
Is brackish and low
Smash the jug
And come to the river.


  -From the novel 'Guiding souls' by 
      APJ Abdul Kalam & AK Tiwari
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see, human mind is extremly flexible, its like liquid which can take any shape of its container. Which ever direction you show to your brain it observes it and starts following it. Suppose you don't like watching football at all but all your friends in your group are crazy about football, they always watch and discuss about this game, at the beginning you will get bored of this discussion but slowly you too will develop a keen interest in  footabll.  Same way if someday your focus gets divert from your studies due to personal or any other problem then always remember that you can still gain your focus very easily , all you need to do is put your brain to the direction you want , it might take little time but your focus will be back on track just like 'liquid taking shape of a container' in which it is poured . Remember everything is in your mind.

Dear anu, i can understand ur situation b'coz i have also faced d same. But finally i hve cleared ma ca final exam in 3rd attempt (Nov 2010)  with 402 marks (1st grp 187 & 2nd grp 215) So dont loose d hope & concertrate in ur stusies.

This is for You

 " A man is not finished..... when he is defeated. He is finished when he QUITS because winners never quit and quitters never win".

My heartly best wishes for next attempt ........ God will definately give u a success........! Go ahead with full of confidence, be patience & never loose ur hope  .........!

Also read this thread may be it will be helpful for you :

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