!..we can solve our problems..!

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None of us get through life unscathed. We all have difficulties. We have problems. We all have wishes for life to be a little bit easier. That's normal. And the thing to remember is...

"No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it." ~ Albert Einstein

Most of the problems we have in life appear to be caused by circumstances and people beyond us. We often feel that changes are happening "to" us. Because of that, we try to solve problems using a faulty logic system.

It goes something like this...

 

"This other person hurt me. I am angry and sad. That person is bad/hurtful/mean because he made me angry and sad. I will try to make that person realize how much I am hurt. After he apologizes, I will feel better. Then we can be close again."


While that may help us temporarily feel better, it's not a lasting solution. Every time we are hurt, it requires somebody else to take responsibility for our pain.

In having enough challenges in my life, I have realized that the most important "problems" can only be "solved" by deep understanding of myself. That's why whenever there are changes in my life, I always look inward to understand more deeply.

"There is nothing permanent except change." ~ Heraclitus

We live in a world of of constant change. Emotions and relationships can come and go like the wind. Because of this, looking to others to make us feel better is a recipe for disaster.

What if the other person doesn't know he wronged you?

What if the other person dies and he can never reconcile your pain?

What if the other person just really doesn't care as much as you do?

Oh there's probably a million "what ifs" that could make it impossible to ever receive the external validation that we often want.

Here's a different what if...

What if we did the inner work to fundamentally change our view of the world?

"I can choose peace instead of this." ~ A Course In Miracles

 

This is what we can do whenever we hurt inside. We can look within to ask ourselves questions like:

 

"Right now, how can I view this situation differently?"
 

"What don't I understand about myself that is causing me pain right now?"
 

"What don't I understand about the other person right now?"
 

"Right now, why do I incorrectly believe that the other person is responsible for my emotions?"
 

"How can I be more present in this moment right now?"
 

"Is it possible that I'm not being completely authentic right now?"
 

"What is blocking me from feeling love and compassion right now?"

 

Not all of those questions can always be answered immediately because most of our perceived problems come from our subconscious mind.

That's part of why Albert Einstein says we need a different level of
CONSCIOUSNESS to solve problems. We try too hard to solve conscious problems with conscious attention. Sure the conscious attention helps. But fundamentally the only way to really solve the "outer world" problems is to do "inner world" transformation on our subconscious minds.

Interestingly enough, those "outer" world problems begin to resolve themselves, slowly but surely, as a consequence of doing that inner world work.

"Be the change you wish to see in the world." ~ Mahatma Gandhi

 

Coming full circle...

When we are going through a difficult time, we don't look to others to fix the pain We feel. It's not their fault. They are not responsible for our emotions.

 

We focus on the change we want to be.

And we trust that by extension of our inner changes, the outer world
"problems" will find their natural resolution.

 

!..Read and React..!

 

Replies (23)
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Good Article. Thanks for sharing. 

 

Very good article....thanks for sharing.yes

Hmmm...thoughtful post...yes

We should focus on inner transformation instead of trying to change

outer cicumstances whenever we face diffuculty in any area of life,

This way we can grow in life ....

 

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Hmmmmmm!!!! As always Motivational and Meaningful Post...

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Originally posted by : M.com,CAFinal,CS Tushar Sampat
Very good article....thanks for sharing.

 

Originally posted by : SAM ANDRABI
Plzzzzzz plzzzzzz plzzzzzz. I need ur help.
Give me the detailed procedure for registration of trust, check list, fees required, where to get register etc..

 

I. TRUST

A public charitable trust is usually floated when there is property involved, especially in terms of land and building. 

Legislation : Different states in India have different Trusts Acts in force, which govern the trusts in the state; in the absence of a Trusts Act in any particular state or territory the general principles of the Indian Trusts Act 1882 are applied. 

Main Instrument : The main instrument of any public charitable trust is the trust deed, wherein the aims and objects and mode of management (of the trust) should be enshrined. In every trust deed, the minimum and maximum number of trustees has to be specified. The trust deed should clearly spell out the aims and objects of the trust, how the trust should be managed, how other trustees may be appointed or removed, etc. The trust deed should be signed by both the settlor/s and trustee/s in the presence of two witnesses. The trust deed should be executed on non-judicial stamp paper, the value of which would depend on the valuation of the trust property. 
Trustees : A trust needs a minimum of two trustees; there is no upper limit to the number of trustees. The Board of Management comprises the trustees. 

Application for Registration : 
The application for registration should be made to the official having jurisdiction over the region in which the trust is sought to be registered. 

After providing details (in the form) regarding designation by which the public trust shall be known, names of trustees, mode of succession, etc., the applicant has to affix a court fee stamp of Rs.2/- to the form and pay a very nominal registration fee which may range from Rs.3/- to Rs.25/-, depending on the value of the trust property. 

The application form should be signed by the applicant before the regional officer or superintendent of the regional office of the charity commissioner or a notary. The application form should be submitted, together with a copy of the trust deed. 

Two other documents which should be submitted at the time of making an application for registration are affidavit and consent letter. 


II. Society 
According to section 20 of the Societies Registration Act, 1860, the following societies can be registered under the Act: ‘charitable societies, military orphan funds or societies established at the several presidencies of India, societies established for the promotion of science, literature, or the fine arts, for instruction, the diffusion of useful knowledge, the diffusion of political education, the foundation or maintenance of libraries or reading rooms for general use among the members or open to the public, or public museums and galleries of paintings and other works of art, collection of natural history, mechanical and philosophical inventions, instruments or designs.’ 

Legislation : Societies are registered under the Societies Registration Act, 1860, which is a federal act. In certain states, which have a charity commissioner, the society must not only be registered under the Societies Registration Act, but also, additionally, under the Bombay Public Trusts Act. 
Main Instrument : The main instrument of any society is the memorandum of association and rules and regulations (no stamp paper required), wherein the aims and objects and mode of management (of the society) should be enshrined. 

Trustees : A Society needs a minimum of seven managing committee members; there is no upper limit to the number managing committee members. The Board of Management is in the form of a governing body or council or a managing or executive committee 

Application for Registration : 
Registration can be done either at the state level (i.e., in the office of the Registrar of Societies) or at the district level (in the office of the District Magistrate or the local office of the Registrar of Societies).(2) 

The procedure varies from state to state. However generally the application should be submitted together with: (a) memorandum of association and rules and regulations; (b) consent letters of all the members of the managing committee; (c) authority letter duly signed by all the members of the managing committee; (d) an affidavit sworn by the president or secretary of the society on non-judicial stamp paper of Rs.20-/, together with a court fee stamp; and (e) a declaration by the members of the managing committee that the funds of the society will be used only for the purpose of furthering the aims and objects of the society. 

All the aforesaid documents which are required for the application for registration should be submitted in duplicate, together with the required registration fee. Unlike the trust deed, the memorandum of association and rules and regulations need not be executed on stamp paper.


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