Scared to hell - articleship???

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i have given ipcc this may and i think that i am going to pass...

i am 19 years old ..i personally think that i am still not matured as per my age..at home i am still like a kid..who goes to her mom when he is sad.......i dont go out much...

my personality suxx...cant make eye contact..have little bit of inferiorty complex..shy..etc etc

now even the idea of going to articleship and working for 10-11 hours everyday scares me to helll..i am not at all hard workinng...even my dad is a ca so when ever he gives me something to do in tally i either feel sleepy or i try to avoid such kind of situation

.i am extremely scared of pressure situtations..like when my dad says that do this work..i am gonna ask u tonight..i feel pressurized and feel damn scared...

i often wonder what will happen with me at my articlship..? pls help me

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dnt be negative...by repeating things like " i m nt smart, i m nt hardworking, i dnt like tally, i m still a kid...etc" .You are making it a reality fr yourself...Chartered accountancy is in ur blood..there's nothing to worry.

Its nt just you who has to struggle with articlship, all CA students in India r  toiling their labour day and night..! Good Luck with your result!

be positive!!!!!!!!!!!!and take it as challenge.

you will be successful

If u starts articleship with ur father then no problem . . . . . . . . . . . If u not satrts articlship with ur father and fathers reference then u may become more solid. . . . . . Good luck for results. . . . . .

Dont get bothered with such thoughts because it is in the human nature to resist things that we have not seen, it is all in the mind and as ranchod baba says dil bada bewkoof hai aur ise bewkoof bana ke rakho.........just tell yourself all izzz welll and things would surely be fine. 

U just go for commerce degree ,which will make u a man,more matured ,then do articlship . :)

don't worry. if u can get good principal, ur articleship will help u overcome all the above problems

At this age everyone ll be like that only. I ve started articleship in last august, seven months after being eighteen years. Even i felt the same at first. Now i am a little better. But at first i made lots of mistakes.

Consider this as a personality development process. I would suggest you to join some other firm than your father's to get out of your comfort zone/ cocoon. You would understand the ground level problems and be a successful CA later when you join your father's firm, if you do.

 

Try to join some firm without reference of your father, by yourself visiting firms, sending resumes, etc.. This will pay off!

 

Initially sure it would be boring as hell, but articleship is all about making things interesting.. Do it honestly!

 

Bad principals would be good as they will provoke your inner person (anger) to come out and be more expressive.

 

Don't loose this opportunity to come over with your weaknesses.

 

You will surely be a different person alltogether after 3 years!

Agreed with Mr. Sidd above

 

I want to add that whenever you feel pressurized just think what is the worse thing can happen............then you will that your fear is far more bigger than worse consequences and move on.

 

You 'll be fine n who says 10-11 hrs man just go for max 8 hrs

Be a hard bargainer when it comes your value of time.

Don't work for 10-11 hrs............work for 8 hours study............sleep n rest

BE POSITIVE++

don't think much instead act to the situation.

take keen interest in task, hav a good friends cicrle. 

Believe in yourself and say " I CAN DO IT AND I WILL DO IT " 

Enjoy  your articleship, try to learn new things and make it worthwhile.

hey friend dont be hurry yar i will sure once you join in articleship u will enjoy this really yaar believe me ....dnt worry articles is also our life part dont miss that ...eventhough some negative shades in article v have to convert those negatives in to positives..........cool baba

Dont worry.

Everyone feels this way. Once you get in and merge with other people and the system, you will feel comfortable.

Originally posted by : future ca

be positive!!!!!!!!!!!!and take it as challenge.

you will be successful

When ur dad is CA then u must not have a matter to worry as many students are like u and there dads are not C.A's.

So be Positive,ur dad will surely help u in this matter....


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