People change, memories don’t.

DEVIL-Liv every moment of life (ca final) (1735 Points)

24 January 2013  

 

 

 

"PEOPLE CHANGE, MEMORIES DON’t."

 

SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM People. If they care, THEY WILL NOTICE. If they Don’t….YOU KNOW WHERE YOU STAND…..

 

Friends are the ones who know you as you are, understand where you have been, accept who you have become, and still encourage you to grow.  These people are special, and they should be treated as such.

Yet, sometimes WE  get so consumed with our own issues that we forget the basic principles of nurturing these relationships.

the success of love is in the loving – it is not in the result of loving. So don’t listen with an agenda or the intent to reply.  Hear what is being said with the intent to truly understand

You truly are far more influential than you realize. .  In each moment that you connect with another, you have the opportunity to leave something that you/ or other person  will continue to remember: a loving, inspiring memory into their minds forever.

What makes us different is what makes us special. – Don’t be too quick to judge others (friends or otherwise) or bully them for being different.  Respect originality.  Welcome originality.  Be original. Sometimes you have to remind yourself that you don’t have to always be and do what everyone else is being and doing. 

Love is meant to be shared. – So many people save their ‘loving.’  They consciously avoid putting their heart into their relationships, surrendering, opening up, and sharing, because they want to save it all for the right people (best friends, lovers, etc.) and passions.  But the problem is when the right people or passions come along they don’t realize it, they don’t know how to open up, and they don’t know anything about the act of loving.

Praise and recognition matters. – Give genuine praise.  Recognizing the contributions of others is a mighty act of service.  This is an investment in them that doesn’t cost you a thing, and the returns can be amazing.  Be sure to follow this rule: “Praise in public, penalize in private.”  Never publicly ridicule someone you care about.  Even in a disagreement there is an opportunity to be a guiding light, and restore happiness to the relationship, if you speak the truth out of love to help another learn and grow.

 It seems like such a small thing, but in our busy lives we often forget that a kind word, a helping hand, or just a smile and a quick “thank you” can create a bright spot in another person’s life.  And the best part is, when you help those around you smile, their smiles will help you smile too.

 

Without honesty there is no friendship.  Honesty is the first chapter in the book of all wisdom.  Honesty is the only path forward.  It’s always better to tell people the truth up front.   Telling the truth and making someone cry is better than telling a lie and making someone smile.  Speak and live the truth – the whole truth – all day, every day.  

******story and life continues********

********KEEP SMILING*******

**********TAKE CARE********

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These are RELATIONS… They will Mould or They will take shape accordingly..they are always in our hands..
 

Like Two SEASONS are Not SAME.. phases in a human life.. they also never remain the same in a human life..
we can stop but this FARJI life will never stop…
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@ DEVILLLLLLLLLLLLL

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@ devil