My life is ruined

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HI Everyone This is Ishika Jaiswal I am a student of ICAI But my life is ruin I dnt blame the Icai nor anyone its my shortcomings coz of which I am suffering I was a decent average student in college got 70% in my B com exams after my bcom exams i did my mcom after that at the age of 23 I thought of doing Ca as I was good in accounts by that age most of you guys become ca :( I cleared my cpt in 1st attempt in dec 2008 then I started my journey of ipcc I cleared that too in second attempt after that I joined a ca firm at the age of 24 for my articles there as I was senior by age to those doing articleship there was bullied and was told by my male co articles there girls by that age marry and you are doing your articleship I took it in my stride n continued n finished my articles in 2013 in between joined classes for ca final the classes which I joined where not nice as I could exactly get what was being taught then some how I did self study and gave 2 attempts to clear my final which i could not i anaylzed my weakness I m not good in subject like sfm nor in theory like isca n audit i started losing confidence n then I gave up  on life n myself  rite now m 29 still hvnt cleared my ca finals dnt hv job nor hv hv got married why i  m osting this article coz i dnt want anyone to do the same mistake which i did i screwed up messed up n m so depressed that i want to end my life i dnt know wat to do next as i hv cross a certain age i hv been applying for jobs it was my dream to be a ca but i shattered it sorry everyone for the lenghty post.

Thank you 

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Wow what a story........ I will tell little bout me.........I started at the age of 29 when i was married and was not even aware what Debit/ Credit, as i was a Science graduate..........

Cleared CPT and IPCC in very first attempt and nov 14 was my first attempt for final. So this was my third attempt and waiting for result......

Dont get discourge, there are so many people who are doing well with or without degree. What is important is life. So just chill 

I am currently 33-34 years old and surviving with my happy wife and a child then why you can not 

 

 

 

Wow what a story........ I will tell little bout me.........I started at the age of 29 when i was married and was not even aware what Debit/ Credit, as i was a Science graduate..........

Cleared CPT and IPCC in very first attempt and nov 14 was my first attempt for final. So this was my third attempt and waiting for result......

Dont get discourge, there are so many people who are doing well with or without degree. What is important is life. So just chill 

I am currently 33-34 years old and surviving with my happy wife and a child then why you can not 

 

Wow what a story........ I will tell little bout me.........I started at the age of 29 when i was married and was not even aware what Debit/ Credit, as i was a Science graduate..........

Cleared CPT and IPCC in very first attempt and nov 14 was my first attempt for final. So this was my third attempt and waiting for result......

Dont get discourge, there are so many people who are doing well with or without degree. What is important is life. So just chill 

I am currently 33-34 years old and surviving with my happy wife and a child then why you can not 

 

@ manisha mishra - pls dont spam

 

@ ishika -

i feel very sad aftr reading about your life. Most of the students face the same situation like you dear. I will tell u mine, Nov 15 was my 15th attempt of CA Final. I am giving CA final exam from Nov 2008, i was 2nd rank holder in 12th. cleared PE I in first attempt and PE II in third attempt. My age is now 30 and i achieved nothing till now.

 

i suggest you to get married first. because after certain age we tend to lose interest in all things. So before that get engaged. Start a job bt change ur life first. I have also started a job in last month. If you get married first your and your parent's tension and pressure will come to an end. I know how relatives point out your failuer and ask you to get married.. so to reduce the social pressure first marry. Now the days of struggle has finished. Live some happy life, and then start again preparation. Choose a husband who knows about CA. I suggest you to select a person doing CA or a CA qualified. Dont worry about income. I saw lot of couples who get married and they both sit in libraray and complete the study of CA final.

i knw you are very talented, you can do CA easily but our luck dont supports us.

Dont lose hopes.

 

@ Karan My name is Manish MIshra

 

I am not spaming it was a technical fault

 

I had joined CA after bcom and not able to clear it even after 6 attempt. My mental condition is same like you i am thinking for job. You should also. Get married to a person who will allow you for study even after marriage. Give single group of CA final.
Miss you cannot possibly consider this to be your mistake rather take it as a challenge I hope you complete the course
Ishika, you should first marry & get such happiness. CA is nothing in front of such happiness&get God GIFT happiness of family life with husband & children
u feel that ur life will change & all pressures will over
Do not panic because you are thinking that ca is everything. So forget everything. CA u can complete after that also, but if you miss such happy stage of life ,then feel bad in whole life

So what will you say about this............
CA Foundation 2001 first attempt cleared
CA Final May-2015 got 2 subject exemption gr-2 and still preparing for gr-1..
Its not about writing exams or getting married or doing job...
one has to set priority, and believe me failure is just a state of mind and nothing else, use failure as a fuel to ignite fire which can enlighten inner soul...

if your plan A failed it does not mean plan B to Z will certainly fail

PM me if want to read complete story....

Hi. Ishika I just want to tell u that try try and try untill u success.oneday u definetly got success
Manish and Karan well said both of you give such type of advices and openion thats good for all


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