My life is ruined

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HI Everyone This is Ishika Jaiswal I am a student of ICAI But my life is ruin I dnt blame the Icai nor anyone its my shortcomings coz of which I am suffering I was a decent average student in college got 70% in my B com exams after my bcom exams i did my mcom after that at the age of 23 I thought of doing Ca as I was good in accounts by that age most of you guys become ca :( I cleared my cpt in 1st attempt in dec 2008 then I started my journey of ipcc I cleared that too in second attempt after that I joined a ca firm at the age of 24 for my articles there as I was senior by age to those doing articleship there was bullied and was told by my male co articles there girls by that age marry and you are doing your articleship I took it in my stride n continued n finished my articles in 2013 in between joined classes for ca final the classes which I joined where not nice as I could exactly get what was being taught then some how I did self study and gave 2 attempts to clear my final which i could not i anaylzed my weakness I m not good in subject like sfm nor in theory like isca n audit i started losing confidence n then I gave up  on life n myself  rite now m 29 still hvnt cleared my ca finals dnt hv job nor hv hv got married why i  m osting this article coz i dnt want anyone to do the same mistake which i did i screwed up messed up n m so depressed that i want to end my life i dnt know wat to do next as i hv cross a certain age i hv been applying for jobs it was my dream to be a ca but i shattered it sorry everyone for the lenghty post.

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Dont loose heart.....i can understand your feeling.............dont be socialize because everyone would pin your feelings....try to be alone while doing studies and refer good books available in the market and you have the website like caclubindia where you can get many motivational article and clearity on very technical points by asking in the forum, expert or reading articles....

so dont be depressed start in a fresh mode with good books.....efforts never fails

Hi 

I 'ild suggest you to take a short break say for 4-5 days and then start in a fresh mood.

One more thing that you can not leave CA at this stage because it 'il be IMPOSSIBLE for you.....chahe to try karke dekh lo.

 

Best of luck!

 

Hi ... I dnt have any words to explain anything bt ya sure I just want to say dat it is ur life so whatever u face in ur life is nt the end of ur life.may be we r in hell nw bt it doesn't meant dat we never get what we want.so just have patience.

Wow what a story........ I will tell little bout me.........I started at the age of 29 when i was married and was not even aware what Debit/ Credit, as i was a Science graduate.......... Cleared CPT and IPCC in very first attempt and nov 14 was my first attempt for final. So this was my third attempt and waiting for result...... Dont get discourge, there are so many people who are doing well with or without degree. What is important is life. So just chill I am currently 33-34 years old and surviving with my happy wife and a child then why you can not?

Consider my condition when i was doing Articleship, where my colleague were hardly18 to 23 years of age. Trust me i actually did Articleship with that stipend?

Forget what has happ till know;its hard but not impossible...take a break from regular life for a month and dnt hear what others says....start fresh studies with fresh coachings and give single grp only at a time...this tym take coachings from best teachers and do self study with it....you will definately pass
Forget what has happ till know;its hard but not impossible...take a break from regular life for a month and dnt hear what others says....start fresh studies with fresh coachings and give single grp only at a time...this tym take coachings from best teachers and do self study with it....you will definately pass
Lol, my father expired in 2012, till date I've been trying.... Missed many attempt's... Let me tell you, I promise..I'll get up @ 5am & go to class... Whatever business pressure may be on me....I Will succeed @ Any cost....Don't let the Spark shatter..Go Ahead.. U r born to Succeed.
Dont lose your heart....keep trying. You can overcome your weakness one day...believe in yourself.
My dear friend ,,Don't lose ur hopes,cos God has given some tme bad,but remember god ll be seeing , ,may be future u ve a good time ,Do study for may 16 attempt with any cost u ve to clear like tht u should study and marry a good girl which gives u more strength in ur life ,,and Start ,,Take Ex BIG B amithab has become star only his 44 but Sachin has come @ 21 ,,,so chill kool. ..every person ll have a own tme, ...Pray to ur favorire GOD and start ,,believe.. don't knw Who ll become Wht ,Take Example Modi Tea seller like. ,APJ ,Ambani,,,,,one day all ur hard work ll pay off ..remember
I am extremely sry sister ,I thought it was male ,,listen sister ,kool ,everything ll happen one day ,,,

Dear Ishika.. please don't feel disheartened by the kind of situation that you are going through. I know its very painful but its the thoughts in our minds that make us feel like we have lost everything. I too have friends who took long time to pass. But they used to tell me that their biggest motivation was the fact that they knew they would be rewarded well once they clear the course. They were willing to put in whatever it took to clear the course.

I want you to realize that you have not lost anything until you say to yourself that you have lost everything. Work hard and you will definitely succeed. Try to improve on your weaker subjects and build on your stronger areas. You will undoubtedly find glory.

 

A will will get a way

Hiiiiiii...I Just want to say that...Two famous Bollywood actor one Mr. Boman Irani and second Late Shree Amrish Puri  started their carrier at 40's age in bollywood and they achived their Goal and became very famous Actors in India....and you are now in Final and you just need one Success Try...so keep it up without too much thinking and being streshed...

Kindly try and take happiness from what you can do now. God has blessed us with this human life not to be sad about things we did with lot of courage. The attempts you made are not easy. Not all can be a CA at the end. Be proud. -a fellowbeing in this CA World


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