Must read for all you beautiful ladies out there :))

Chetan Bhagat’ s Article in TOI last month : Specially for Indian Women. Do Read it and share it with all the women you know  &  men who understand 
 
 
Alright, this is not cool at all. A recent survey by Nielsen has revealed 
that Indian women are the most stressed out in the world: 87% of our women 
feel stressed out most of the time. This statistic alone has caused me to 
stress out. Even in workaholic America, only 53% women feel stressed. 
 
What are we doing to our women? I'm biased, but Indian women are the most 
beautiful in the world. As mothers, sisters, daughters, colleagues, wives 
and girlfriends - we love them. Can you imagine life without the ladies? 
 
For now, i want to give Indian women five suggestions to reduce their 
stress levels. 
 
One, don't ever think you are without power. Give it back to that 
mother-in-law. Be who you are, not someone she wished you would be. She 
doesn't like you? That's her problem. 
 
Two, if you are doing a good job at work and your boss doesn't value you - 
tell him that, or quit. Talented, hard-working people are much in demand. 
 
Three, educate yourself, learn skills, network - figure out ways to be 
economically independent. So next time your husband tells you that you are 
not a good enough wife, mother or daughter-in-law, you can tell him to 
take a hike. 
 
Four, do not ever feel stressed about having a dual responsibility of 
family and work. It is difficult, but not impossible. The trick is not to 
expect an A+ in every aspect of your life. You are not taking an exam, and 
you frankly can't score cent per cent (unless you are in SRCC, of course). 
It is okay if you don't make four dishes for lunch, one can fill their 
stomach with one. It is okay if you don't work until midnight and don't 
get a promotion. Nobody remembers their job designation on their dying day. 
 
Five, most important, don't get competitive with other women. Someone will 
make a better scrapbook for her school project than you. Another will lose 
more weight with a better diet. Your neighbor may make a six-dabba tiffin 
for her husband, you don't - big deal. Do your best, but don't keep 
looking out for the report card, and definitely don't expect to top the class. 
There is no ideal woman in this world, and if you strive to become one, 
there will be only one thing you will achieve for certain - stress. 
 
So breathe, chill, relax. Tell yourself you are beautiful, do your best 
and deserve a peaceful life. Anybody trying to take that away from you is 
making a mistake, not you. Your purpose of coming to this earth is not to 
please everyone. Your purpose is to offer what you have to the world, and 
have a good life in return. The next time this survey comes, i don't want 
to see Indian women on top of the list. I want them to be the happiest 
women in the world. Now smile, before your mother-in-law shouts at you for 
wasting your time reading the newspaper. 
 
Cherish Womanhood!!