How i take it ? what ?

How I take it.

Sorry to offend anyone, it is unintentionally done.

I have seen many post appreciating parents and saying that parents are living god on earth.

I want to add my part to this,

If parents are living god on earth, then it means someone is bigger then parents ?? how can it be !!

Can anyone be bigger then parents ?? Nay they can't be.

Secondly people say we can't repay the debt incurred by us towards parents,

Is this some sort of business where you analyze how much you need to pay and to whom, is it not illogical to even think about debit and credit with parents ??

Thirdly, If we can't pay our parents for the pains they had bringing us up in life,

Then can the parents give back the joy which was given by us to them when we where born,

Again,Secondly, People say we gave pain to our mother while we where born, Really ask any mom ??

Something not all will understand,

Can parents never be wrong, who said so,

If it is my mom, I love her, I respect her, but for being just my mom it does not mean that she is always right, because logic is different from being my mom, she can be wrong, !!!

People say mother is first teacher of the child,

Why so, nay it can't be, there is no one called teacher, child's first teacher is child itself,

Why I said no one called teacher is, Knowledge is omnipresent, it is same way as power, It can't be created nor can be destroyed, but only can be driven from upper level to lower level, so every upper level has an upper level, same way as every prey has predator and every predator, has an prey, then it means anyone can teach, when everyone can teach then there is no need for saying teacher, same way as we don't call selective person as human, as we know all are humans,

People said, no one can replace mom,

I personally know a man of 30 yrs, (he was my classmate), who doesn't love his mom, reason ???

He was brought-up by foster parents, only in his late twenties he came to know of his real parents, but believe me, his love for foster parents increased and never decreased, but love for his real biological parents never surfaced, when I asked him, he just said, “I don't feel like calling them mom and dad, I don't know why”

So it is apparent, that mere giving birth doesn't give rise to affection, it is long association gives life to love,

People said they love their parents, because,

They sacrificed their life for them, hello, do you think of marriage in terms of sacrifice, you want children to do penance ??

They gave everything we need, Okay so if you need something and someone gives it you will have affection, what if they don't give??

That they will solve all your problems, is it, so does the doctor, CA, lawyer so what ??

So, my dear friends (If at all you stay as friend after reading this long)

For one day, forget that they gave you anything, think them to be a normal human being who lived with you all your life, who spoke with you when you were right, spoke with you when you were wrong, fed you when you were not hungry and when hungry,

Just a small nap on their laps, and just try telling them this,

“I don't like you for all you gave me, neither for giving birth to me, neither that you are educated, neither that you will give me many more things, but still I like you, same way I could have liked a person who could have stayed with me so long, I could wish same with them too, TO STAY WITH ME FOR MORE”

“I don't want you to die before me, as I will not be able to think the pain you went through while dying, neither will I die before you, as I could not think that you might be crying for me, neither I can say, lets die together, all I can say is – I was fool trying to judge you”

So friends leave it, we can't judge our parents, if we need to judge and then love them, then it will be too late, it should come from within.

(I like only appreciations, but open to criticism, but before you put in your words, read twice, nay read thrice, still you feel words of hatred towards me, then print this page, and take it to very person who taught you ENGLISH, because the very meaning of this is beyond the walls made of words of hatred)