Honesty is best policy.

You are in a society where those who see self-respect is in Money and (Political)Power.

When the society itself is such to be recognised and respected as a human being You should be rich enough as much respect and recognition you expect from the society.

Firstly you should be able to visualise this relationship.

Then you can automatically choose ..........(Had you visualised you would not have dared to ask....this  ? I belie ve.)

When your ? conveys you cannot visualise this even if somebody  says this career-that job-some other business You can hardly be convinced.......!!!!!!!