HELP ME PLZZ......

Prasad R (CA Final) (2128 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Dear Vikas/Saritha,

All i can tell u is ask her to be determined annd positive. Half the battle is generally won in the mind itself. Tell her to be positive and optimistic.For a good memory u may advise her not to cram things insted regular repeated reading of the same topic will help her sharpen the memory.

As far as health is concerened it's a priority ask her to take good care of her heath. Tell her not to over stress and burden herself as this wil further worsen her health. Tell her to be positive as i said before that will make her more healthy mentally and once she is healthy mentally that will improve her physical health as well.

Best wishes for her heatth and her studies.

I really appreciate ur concern for ur sister.Best wishes to u too.

Regards

Prasad R

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CMA.Manikanta (Grad-CMA &CA-Final) (314 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

just be positive 1st take care of ur health

health is wealth

and keep on go with a positive mind....................................................

if u r unable to get out dis attempt read income tax next assesment year other wise it would be waste of 6m....

all the best.............

Manikanta..........

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Ankur Garg (Company Secretary and Compliance Officer) (114773 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Hello,

The problem is not very serious. This is just a matter of one attempt. After getting success is one attempt nobody can stop her to qualify CA.

Let me tell you honestly am not going to give you any motivational dose through this answer. I’ll try to solve your query with some strict and practical approach to remove the problem once for all.

Tell her that tension and lack of memory is nothing but an excuse. Some time we have to take a bit strict approach towards our loving ones keeping in view a successful life ahead.

Ask her who is the moderators of caclubindia forum or who is the top member of caclubindia or what is your (Vikas) date of birth. If she gave the wrong answer then there is some problem with memory otherwise everything is fine. Adopt strict approach here.

Dost if you don’t start your study and busy in figuring out your weakness all the time you will not gain any confidence. So start the preparations as early as possible. When your start the preparation and get good result you and your body start feeling feel better and relaxed.

As far as health is concerned suggest her to chill with books. Books can be a good medicine or relaxation method like TV or sport.

Slight exploitation of your body during a particular time period like during exam time is very essential. I am exploiting my body from a very long time.

What do you think am a free person having no professional work or commitment and just answering caclubindia forum queries. Well that’s not true. But due to my interest in caclub i have to work late in the night till 12.30-1.00 AM on daily basis. This is just exploitation of my body and mind but at the same time am enjoying my association with caclubindia.

Take an example of Mr. Sachin Tandulakar as far as successful exploitation is concerned towards your passion. What else can you ask for?

I don’t understand why CA or CS students need such advises all the time. Mujha to kisi advise ki zaroorat nahi padi. But anyhow am with you guys always.

Revert if there is any doubt and excuse me for adopting a bit rude approach.

Best Regards

Ankur

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Ankur Garg (Company Secretary and Compliance Officer) (114773 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Kindly check the link below for a good memory tips discussion:

MEMORY TIPS

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Vikas Gupta (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) (16295 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

NO SIR ..I CAN UNDERSTAND IF U BEHAVE RUDE ITS FOR HER GOOD FUTURE..BUT SIR NOW I TOO BEHAVE HER RUDELY..BUT AS I KNOW HER CHARACTER SHE BECOME SAD VERY QUICKLY.I DONOT KNOW WHAT TO TELL ABOUT HER..BUT I CANNT SAY WRONG HER BCOZ I KNOW HER SITUATIONS...SHE IS TRYING TO STUDY ..BUT DONOT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO HER.ANYWAY SHE TOLD ME IF SHE HAVE NO HEALTH PROBLEMS IN MAY SHE WILL SURELY ATTEMPT.

CA Dhiraj Ramchandani (CA, M. com) (10823 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Hi dear...

This problem prevails everywhere and in most of the students..

I mean, as such its not a big problem or something serious matter to be thought of. Its just that she lacks confidence. She's cleared CPT, that proves that she's not dumb, the only thing needed here is motivation, confidence and some positive attitude towards her own work..

Many students often complain that they studied everything or covered every aspect & revised everything,.. But still, they are not able to clear, the reason is very simple, its lack of self-confidence..

And dear, IPCC is really really not at all tough. Y does she considers it as a major exam, just take it as a tution test and perform the best.. I never ever consider my exams as exams but a small test which keeps me confident enough to clear them...

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CA Dhiraj Ramchandani (CA, M. com) (10823 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Now, as such, there is one month of time..

I would suggest to go for one group only. I know she got some health problems, but then, group I can be done in just 20 days of time, its not at all that large or difficult to deal with. So tell her to sit with a proper determination and as such u urself have cleared, u can guide her too about what subject to be taken and how much time should be alloted...

And finally, to try and fail is far better from not to try at all... Many a times, luck also plays its role, so dont let go this attempt atleast

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Ankur Garg (Company Secretary and Compliance Officer) (114773 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Thanks very much Vikas for the understanding. But am very sure it is in her mind only that she is not doing well. Tell her that she can do it and convince her to convert her weaknesses into strength. She need a good friend circle to cheer up. Treat her like a friend and not like a bother.

Believe me things will be all right soon.

Regards

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Rahul Gupta (Project Controller ACA MBA(Fin.)) (8014 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Saritha, very rightly said my Mr. Ankur and other friends. Its not the time to evaluate to ur weakness. Its d time to just do..and dont worry about results, whatever they mey be, but you are required just to do your work.

Let me tell u one thing, its not that it happens with you only, many a times everyone goes through this phase. During my study time, it happens to me also and at that time whenevr i feel low, i just remiind of one line and say it to me. Try this may be it can help u.

"Aaj ki raat hi hai Bhari doston, Bas aaj ki raat hi hai Baaki".

Just stay positive and do ur work without thinking about the results. Cheer up..and Best of luck............

Luck has a peculiar habit of favoring those who don't depend on it.... So just believe in yourself & find a way to your dreams.

The beauty about time is that be it good or Bad it never stops.... So, never get dismayed, for the bad times get exhausted too.

Life's ups and downs provide windows of opportunity 2 determine your values & goals.... Think of using all obstacles as stepping stones 2 build the life you want.

If one dream break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up & begin again....Build upon that dream, a world you can see.

First comes thought, then organization of that thoughts into plans.... then transformation of those plans into reality, the beginning is in your imagination.

Always be delighted at the prospect of a new day, a fresh try, one more start because...... perhaps there is bit of magic waiting somewhere behind each morning.

Every morning you wake up, think of what a preciouspriveledge it is to be alive, to breathe, to think, to enjoy & to love. Love today & live for tomarrow.

If you think you can do it, you can. If you believe you can do it, you will. if you trust you can do it, you will make a difference. Start today.

There is only one difference between a dream and an aim. A dream needs sound sleep, whereas an aim requires sleepless efforts to achieve.

Some of the best lessons we ever learn are learnt from past mistakes. The error of the past is the wisdom and sucess of the future.

Rise up and be thankful for if we didn't learn a lot yesterday, at least we learnt a little & if we didn't learn a little, we can learn something today.

In a confrontation between the stream & the rock, the stream always wins - not through the strength, but through persistence. Let nothing hold you back.

Life is too beautiful to be wasted. You have to take the good with the bad, smile when you are glad, love what you got and always remember what you had.

Talking and fluency is not the same, to speak and to speak well are two things. a fool may talk but a wise man speaks.

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@@@@P$$$$ (CA final student) (238 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

do not take tension

make attempt with

every one has one mind so no question of lake of memory

jast take fast trak revision notes ......

ultimately get success nothing to think any more

paper is easy ........ try..... work.... sucess is yours

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Ankur A Mehta (CA) (375 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Vikas ,

Its only you who can suggest your sister better than us .... but anyway i want to share a real incident of my life .... From 1st class onwards i m such a dull boy in whole school that nobody want to keep freindship with me and teachers also ignore me every time ... even my family member dosent supports me on my carrer ...... i opt this ca course in very immature condition ..... but after realising my family condition i come to know that if i dont study it will create many problems to my family ..... Guys i understand only one thing in life that if there is money with you then every one is with you .... i challenge myself to go for a better study and become a successful person ...

Now I have cleard my CAPEI and CAPCC in first attempt by self study .....

So i want to say that its our heart only which tell us what we want ...... Dont Worry one day comes when ur sister faced some types of condition where she has decide about her ... n that is the only moment when she be matured of success in life ..... DONT WORRY ON IT VIKAS

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CA PRAVEEN KESHAV (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT) (331 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

no need to worry.............only u need her to motivate by saying that no need to worry ,everything is fine and will be ok. concentrate at the exam nd forget abt the health and dont think so much..............

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Arpit Sharma (CA Final & CWA Final Student) (231 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Hello Vikas,

well i am giving here two point advice for your sister, i am not at that level to speak big words as i am also a ca-pcc aspirant but i just want to share a thing which keeps me motivating

1) just show your sister the mentioned Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOlTdkYXuzE

2) Tell her to solve previous year exam papers in examination condition. That will help her to boost her morale.

please reply if the above things work for you

Thanks & Regards

Arpit Shamra

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Ajay kumar (assistant) (481 Points)
Replied 29 March 2010

Hi Vikas

I would like to suggest saritha should Go to Morning Walk in the park nearby your Home For 2 hours daily . And In Saturday and Sunday she can also enjoy Swimming Pool.. I m 100% sure that health will be shortly Very Well..

And For Memory please Donot Parrot any thing .. Just Understand the concept of Every Queston.. Just Like A Game...

What is there to pass PCC Exam ... Just Understand The Concept and never Like Parrot ... Ok .... And Please Avoid Study one day in a week..

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